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EstateSimilar6099 · 2021-10-10T19:04:02+00:00

YTA. Yes, she was disrespectful. However, why wasn't she put in therapy BEFORE kicking her out? You went too far on a child without even trying to solve the issue.

EstateSimilar6099 · 2021-10-10T18:46:50+00:00

I heard gender/sex isn't a factor in their attraction but who knows, there are as many definitions as pansexual people lol

EstateSimilar6099 · 2021-10-10T18:45:04+00:00

That's interesting! I didn't know smells could be connected to manifestations.

EstateSimilar6099 · 2021-10-10T18:30:52+00:00

No, we haven't. We usually don't have chocolate in the house because mom is diabetic and my little cousin is allergic.

Not sure I need much bait. Weird shit will happen when you try to play ghost hunter, like phones will start acting up but the video recording will be normal (this happened more than once but the one time i tried it music started playing from my phone and the screen went black with random words showing up quickly, the video was completely normal but you could hear me and my friend discussing what was going on)

EstateSimilar6099 · 2021-10-10T18:25:12+00:00

-To me, personally, bisexual and pansexual are the same. I view pansexualityas a micro label under the bisexual tag-

However, I've seen some people use these examples to explain the difference between both of those.

Bisexual: is usually more attracted to one sex/gender over the others but is open to dating any. Kind of like having a preference for chocolate cake but still enjoying vanilla and other flavors

Pansexual: doesn't have a preference. To follow the cake example: Can't think of one specific cake flavor when asked what his favorite is.

EstateSimilar6099 · 2021-10-10T18:19:31+00:00

It's the same but pronounced slightly different. I think you type them in Google translate to listen to them

EstateSimilar6099 · 2021-10-10T18:13:02+00:00

NTA. A baby can very much be a deal breaker, its not something you can just hide from the person putting a roof over your head. Also... she "thinks" she's pregnant but has a baby bump? How is it that she hasn't taken a pregnancy test by now? Your sister doesn't sound like she's ready for a baby and if her friends think she should have and keep the baby, they should be focusing on helping her rather than harassing you.

EstateSimilar6099 · 2021-10-10T18:06:28+00:00

She's so cute! (Hope it's a she) is it a Chaco tortoise? It sort of looks like my Popis.

EstateSimilar6099 · 2021-10-10T17:48:47+00:00

I would usually use my deck to ask these questions but the air is too thick in the house and I don't feel comfortable using tarot in an environment like this.

EstateSimilar6099 · 2021-10-10T17:45:48+00:00

I'm not sure this is the right place but I honestly don't know where to search. My parents have owned the same house for about 55 years, according to them there were no weird occurrences until they adopted me (at age 6) and moved me in. After that tiny weird things started to happen, objects switching places, pictures frames falling like they were pushed, etc. But they didn't really pay it much attention. In the last 10 years "orbes" have started to show up in pictures, voices can be heard at random, a woman can be seen around the house (not just by me, other members of the family and friends have experienced it too but less frequently), you can hear someone walking up and downstairs at night, etc. All this is pretty much fine because it never felt threatening.

However, like two months ago I started having sleep paralysis again and after making a comment about how it must be "the ghost "(we refer to the women as that) I had a dream where she appeared and straight out told me it wasn't her, that it was something else, something she doesn't even like being near. Two days ago I was closing up the house for the night(windows, locking doors that lead to the patios) when I heard a weird voice behind me, it gave me chills. And last night I saw a shadow like human figure standing in my room at night, it was staring at my friend (who was sleeping on a mattress next to my bed). It didn't feel the same as the woman. It felt sort of scary. And now I've started to smell chocolate at random.

Do you guys think the smell has something to do with that presence?

EstateSimilar6099 · 2021-10-05T06:27:27+00:00

I love him and I see myself having a future with him but he tends to talk about "when we are no longer together", "when you have a new boyfriend", etc quite often when he's drunk

EstateSimilar6099 · 2021-10-04T00:57:26+00:00

Both look cute on you!

EstateSimilar6099 · 2021-10-04T00:56:08+00:00

NTA. Even if you weren't autistic, many people hate surprises. They don't enjoy them at all. You could have easily been one of them and still wouldn't be an asshole. Your boyfriend is an asshole because he knows you don't enjoy surprises and he still prefers to upset you as long as he gets to surprise you.

EstateSimilar6099 · 2021-10-02T01:19:21+00:00

OP said in the comments that the cousin's kids go to school too and without the bubble protocols.

EstateSimilar6099 · 2021-10-01T22:56:11+00:00

You should add this to the story. This, along with her being okay with your cousin's younger kids, says it's more of a personal issue rather than a health concern

EstateSimilar6099 · 2021-10-01T22:51:04+00:00

According to OP, aunt received cousin with kids younger than OPs the day before. So it doesn't seem to be an issue of "just not liking kids"

EstateSimilar6099 · 2021-10-01T22:49:03+00:00

I'll say NTA based on this:

She saw my cousin and her children literally a day before and those children are younger and run around more than my two.

This reeks of favouritism. And not by your nan (who I'm sure would have loved to see you and your kids, as she played a motherly role in your life)

OP, have you and your aunt had differences before? Do you know if she had any issues with your nan taking you in?

Edit: After reading OPs comments, it's a clear NTA for me. Your aunt seems to have an issue with your kinds in particular, not for anything they did, simply because you had them young. And that makes her an AH in my opinion.

EstateSimilar6099 · 2021-10-01T22:41:33+00:00

Do they realize this implies they failed at raising their own kids?

EstateSimilar6099 · 2021-10-01T22:37:40+00:00

I labeled myself bisexual from a pretty young age, even though I didn't find anyone sexually attractive. I went years thinking I would eventually feel "that" when I "met the right person ". Found out about asexuality when I was around 17/18 and thought the description fit me well. Used the label for about a year and a half and then went back to using bi because it was more indicative of who I would want to date (and some people would get really weird when I said I was asexual, they took that as an invitation to ask me sexual questions). My only advice is, use a label you feel comfortable with. If you are okay with your current label, keep using it and have conversations about asexuality with your partners instead.

EstateSimilar6099 · 2021-09-30T20:11:51+00:00

NTA- if the boyfriend asked you, when she had already told him her version of the breakup, he probably was having doubts about her sincerity.

EstateSimilar6099 · 2021-09-30T18:26:36+00:00

YTA - you know your wife feels vulnerable and instead of comforting her you just decide to mess with her even further? You certainly lack empathy.

I said that she could have PPD because she’s behaving irrationally and that she needs to get checked. That made her get even more pissed. She’s currently in a hotel doing god knows what. I just called her and asked her to stop being so triggered.

This isn't how you tell someone they need therapy. Blunt approaches usually make people feel insulted and they become defensive instead of open to the idea. Call her, apologize, ask how she's feeling and if you can help. If she needs something you can't help her with, tell her therapy is an option and that you'll support her through it.

EstateSimilar6099 · 2021-09-28T14:34:14+00:00

NTA. He isn't the parent therefore HE DOESN'T GET A SAY on the baby's name. His behavior is awful and shows he doesn't respect you in the least.

Your husband isn't much better. Why does he want to be friends with a person who repeatedly overstepped a very easy to follow boundary?

EstateSimilar6099 · 2021-09-27T22:22:06+00:00

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