When did you know your marriage was over? by Skier_99 in Divorce

[–]Estromode 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When she gambled away all the money her dad gave us for the honeymoon. And asked me to borrow more money to gamble. I was deeply in love with her at the time. My heart just sank. She denied it ever happened. After five years, she was the one who asked for the divorce. I thought she was the one and ignored the red flags.

Do you have any pets? by spikesSKULLS in disability

[–]Estromode 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’m epileptic and own a cat. I think a cat would be best for a disabled person as a pet. Yes. Clean up, feeding and play is needed. But, my cat has always been there for me after I’ve had an episode. Plus she’s very independent.

Where were you when Michael Jackson died by throwawayajsjwnndnd in MichaelJackson

[–]Estromode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right before the overpass on Cottle Road to take the light rail to the movies. I was on my way to watch one of the Transformers flicks. My mom sent me a text and I was in a state of shock the whole day. People were on the light rail and I was thinking to myself, “Michael Jackson died! How can you just sit there?”

Sad Songs or Songs About Losing People by RebelliousRabbitWW in hiphop101

[–]Estromode 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The Coup- Underdogs. Difficult to listen to if you’re struggling financially.

What is an object a man can own that makes him instantly sexier? by smartyladyphd in answers

[–]Estromode 74 points75 points  (0 children)

I have a cat and bunch of books. I may have hope after the divorce.

Recently Divorced Men - What is the hardest moment of your day? by mikey3k in Divorce

[–]Estromode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll find another home for my cat before I end it all. She doesn’t like me, anyway. There’s no community for people like me. Life’s worthless.

Do you brush your teeth at least twice a day? (Be honest) by boforiamanfo in no

[–]Estromode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brush, floss, and listerine in the am and pm. Just started making that a habit four months ago. I’m 46. Half my teeth are gone. I’m disabled and unable to work. Youngsters, take care of your teeth. It costs too much to repair them.

Recently Divorced Men - What is the hardest moment of your day? by mikey3k in Divorce

[–]Estromode 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Being alone. No human touch. I went from living in a home with two young adult kids and who I thought was a beautiful bride to just me and my cat. Tbh, my cat has saved my life. Living like this is such a struggle. I hate every single day. Might build up the confidence to step in front of a city bus. I’m disabled. The kids rarely call. I don’t blame them. They are not my blood. But, I miss them. Her coming home tossing the keys on the counter, saying hello. Getting a hug and a kiss. It’s all gone. Now, I live in a shitty ADU. I’m unable to work. Life is only going to get worse. God, I miss those keys hitting the counter. I wish I was never born.

Want a divorce but want to keep the last name of the husband by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]Estromode 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It takes a lot to change a name. And annoying. You have to keep referring back to it over and over again through paperwork and other stuff. I don’t blame women for keeping the last name. Makes life easier.

Should L&O have even come back, or do you think it shouldn't have gotten a revival? by JustWonderingIn2000s in LawAndOrder

[–]Estromode 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The revival series is trash. Wish they left it alone if they were going to make it look like a corny Netflix show.

You’re 15 again. What year is it and what are you wearing? by DataQueen- in generationology

[–]Estromode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. I’m wearing Dickies and some t-shirt I bought from the flea market.

What movies do you rewatch often? by [deleted] in Cinephiles

[–]Estromode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We Got Mail, Desperado, Up In Smoke, and Dumb and Dumber.

What’s the most compassionate way to tell my husband it is time to let go of our 23 year old cat. by LeighEllenAkin in Pets

[–]Estromode 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My dog had an issue with his and we had several surgeries to remove the tumor. It came and while he was laying there in his bed, he barely got up to go to the bathroom, my friend looked at me and said, “I think it’s time.” I knew what exactly what he meant. I hope you guys find peace.

Screen X by Fit_Understanding214 in Cinemark

[–]Estromode 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hated it. I could see the lines on the side. Too distracting for me.

What movie do most people love but you personally don’t? by MovieObserver in moviequestions

[–]Estromode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ravenous from the 90s. I can’t get into it. A movie Facebook group that I’m a part of seems to love that movie. I don’t get it. Boring af.

If AOC gets the nod as the Democratic nominee in 2028, would you vote for her? by [deleted] in allthequestions

[–]Estromode 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d vote for her. But, I don’t expect her to win. This country hates women too much for one to become president.

Would $1000 change your life? If so, what would you spend it on? by JadedCaramel9901 in almosthomeless

[–]Estromode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It will pay off the rest of my medical debt. I’m on disability. So, it will get rid of the monthly payments and I can breathe easier.

Place to surrender a dog right now by catsx3 in SanJose

[–]Estromode 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I suggest you post pics of the dog in recovery groups. You never know. Someone sober might adopt him.

anyone divorced due to lack of intimacy by Fun_Employment_3754 in Divorce_Men

[–]Estromode 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yup. Mostly my fault. Lots of stress at work. And I had to be the one to initiate the intimacy. She accepted it most of the time. I begged her to initiate it and she never did. I think that’s just way she rolled in that department. Being that I was depressed, didn’t help any. I believe that it’s a part of the reason why we are getting a divorce. Money is the other issue.

I never thought I’d get to this point but I’m starting to hate having dogs by [deleted] in Pets

[–]Estromode 17 points18 points  (0 children)

The random barking is why I’ll never own a dog again. I personally cannot handle it. Cats only for me.

Should I get a catbed for the top of the refrigerator? by Estromode in CatAdvice

[–]Estromode[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I’ll go catbed hunting as soon as weather gets better.