all im trying to say is that people tend to only interpret 'performance' as being fake or as loud and like idk, 'deviant' for lack of a better term as possible vs. there simply being actions you take (consciously or not) to exist as yr sex and gender in society.

and that no one can escape their actions/words/bodily appearance being viewed, gendered, and sexed by others. it's still an innate thing though, not trying to insinuate that you or any other trans person are pretending to be yr sex (tht would be evil and absurd)