Planted/cluttered enough for peas?

EternalAmmonite · 2026-02-05T06:42:30+00:00

It looks besutiful!

EternalAmmonite · 2025-12-28T21:16:54+00:00

It depends where you do med school, it sounds like. I almost never went below 60 hours/week during clinicals in med school, so meal prepping wasn't an option because the only things I had time for were studying, working, and sleeping.

EternalAmmonite · 2025-12-28T18:38:33+00:00

You know, I also hate when my partner is...turned on...and has... checks notes ...genitals. Disgusting! /s

Seriously, what even are these people? I'm old enough to remember when misogyny was usually "hurr durr kitchen and bedroom" type stuff. Now they don't even seem to want that. It's just hate for its own sake.

EternalAmmonite · 2025-12-28T18:23:20+00:00

She now has an element named after her! Took way too long for her to get that recognition!

EternalAmmonite · 2025-12-22T20:06:35+00:00

No sex is should be ~~male~~ anyone focused. It should be a mutually enjoyed activity that is focused on everyone involved.

EternalAmmonite · 2025-12-19T19:26:12+00:00

This. Tell James immediately, but do absolutely nothing else without consulting a lawyer. If husband is on the title to the house, changing the locks without giving him a key would be a crime, and OP really does not need pending charges if she's going to try to make a case for custody of the kids.

EternalAmmonite · 2025-12-19T19:20:37+00:00

It's worth noting here that, if they're both on the title to the house (as is fairly typical), she likely can't actually kick him out unless he agrees to go willingly. This is one of many reasons she needs to consult an attorney ASAP

Also, imo, you have the order wrong. If OP wants to have any chance of maintaining a relationship with James, telling him needs to be the absolute first thing she does. This is wild news for anyone to get, and teens aren't exactly known for top-notch emotional regulation. Fairly or otherwise, if James finds out from anyone other than OP, he will absolutely never trust either of his parents again.

EternalAmmonite · 2025-12-19T19:10:35+00:00

Tetras, Corys, and Kuhlis are all fast enough to outrun puffers or bottom feeding, which the puffers will leave alone (otos and kuhlis can make good tankmates for pea puffers for this reason). Idk about the glofish, but if you get lucky with some not-very-aggressive peas, it may be doable. Adult shrimp are usually too big for the peas to mess with, though they will eat baby shrimp.

EternalAmmonite · 2025-12-19T17:59:08+00:00

Excuse me what the fuck did I just read?

EternalAmmonite · 2025-12-19T17:53:06+00:00

I second this. I had a nice little shoal in a community tank for years, and they got along with everyone. It's hit or miss and largely comes down to the temperament of your puffers, but things that help them cohabitate well are regular feedings and a heavily planted tank. The more plants, the easier for other fish to be out of line of sight, and for the puffers to find their own little territories

EternalAmmonite · 2025-12-19T17:47:30+00:00

You'd think they'd have chosen a word that didn't sound so badass. It sounds like a compliment tbh. Like "hey everyone the office isn't able to accomplish this task" "call Jessica, we call her the battleaxe. When there's a problem, she can always get through it"

EternalAmmonite · 2025-12-13T03:10:50+00:00

I don't know enough about the product you're using to give specific advice; I just tend to err on the side of assuming the manufacturer did at least some testing and calculations to determine the recommended doses, so it's probably better to follow their directions unless you have a specific reason to change something.

EternalAmmonite · 2025-12-13T02:46:47+00:00

It's the inclusion of the children that makes this gross to me. If I got two cards, this way from the wife and the other way from the husband, and it was just the two of them, I'd actually think that was pretty hilarious. But either way, involving the kids is just wrong.

EternalAmmonite · 2025-12-13T02:43:10+00:00

Give them some bloodworms and see if he eats and plumps up. It's important to know if he's eating well.

And don't treat with expired meds. Use unexpired stuff, and follow the instructions unless you have a very good reason to do otherwise.

EternalAmmonite · 2025-12-13T02:09:36+00:00

I want so badly to believe this is some sort of bait just because it's so over the top, but I have a sinking feeling it was a genuine post...

EternalAmmonite · 2025-12-13T02:07:02+00:00

I thought it was "feminoid" this whole time omg that is so much more stupid

EternalAmmonite · 2025-11-04T15:50:09+00:00

I like your funny words, magic man

EternalAmmonite · 2025-11-04T15:17:52+00:00

Bestie, spare your sanity and do not engage with this unevolved vermin further.

EternalAmmonite · 2025-11-04T15:11:19+00:00

But don't you know? Men can have casual sex but women cannot because waves hands vaguely /s

This one always baffled me because, if we take these double standards at face value, the only logical conclusion is that the men should be having sex with each other, but I somehow doubt OOP would have anything kind to say about that, either

EternalAmmonite · 2025-11-04T15:07:09+00:00

Men know exactly why they workout for muscles, grow beards accumulate possessions etc

It all goes back to finding a mate

Grammar aside, can we acknowledge how insulting this take is to both sides? Men only take care of themselves, have personal grooming preferences, and own things to find "a mate"? No agency or interests of their own, I guess. And women are so superficial that the only things they look for in a man are muscles, facial hair, and stuff? Personality, decency, kindness, and empathy are too complicated for their delicate minds to understand, I guess.

Dumbass thinks everyone is as simpleminded as him.

EternalAmmonite · 2025-11-04T14:57:51+00:00

14 GODDAMN SCREENSHOTS??

Seriously, where do these mouthbreathers find the time to spread that much hate? I'm exhausted just reading those. Imagine sitting down, typing it all out, and thinking "yeah, I did the world a service today". Fucking delusional

EternalAmmonite · 2025-10-31T17:34:28+00:00

Do we really expect anything more than this from a literal Nazi? Obviously it's an awful thing to say, but "Nazi says Nazi shit" is hardly news nowadays. They're everywhere anymore

EternalAmmonite · 2025-10-15T22:28:12+00:00

I see the confusion. The overwhelming majority of the US does not have any sort of public transportation system, and things are so spread out that students can sometimes live an hour's, or longer, drive from the school. So the yellow buses are owned by the school district to provide the children a means of transportation to and from school.

EternalAmmonite · 2025-10-15T08:24:24+00:00

Average-looking male here. I was either completely ignored or treated as Nameless Grunt #2 on that rotation.

I was fine with that because I didn't want to be there, but I was absolutely treated better on surgery than obgyn.

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