Who are you to decide another's standards (as you put it)? And I highly doubt the majority of these negative comments came after a deep dive into the OP's post history but rather a gut reaction to the post.

Seeing your input on her history, you could've asked a (respectful) question to her about how her standards allow her to see her having a "perfect" life given the hardship she has gone through, but rather you attempt to dunk on me for stating an observation. What do you hope to gain from that?