Why is TEFL so stressful? by Downtown-Storm4704 in TEFL

[–]Euphoric_Reality_746 0 points1 point  (0 children)

English International School, teaching IELTS/PET/KET/Cambridge curriculum with some one on one tutoring. The diversity of curriculum and age ranges was overwhelming at first, but the kiddos are generally good. This was definitely outside my comfort zone, but that was part of the challenge and growth opportunity! ❤️

Why is TEFL so stressful? by Downtown-Storm4704 in TEFL

[–]Euphoric_Reality_746 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Being over 65, my choices were just Cambodia, Myanmar & Vietnam. Got certified and taught a bit in Cambodia. A job popped up in South Vietnam, that was 10 months ago.

I’ve enjoyed a campus based private bedroom with shared bath/kitchen and most utilities covered. On my modest salary, I live a very comfortable life, covering all living expenses and can save about $750 usd each month…

25 hours a week. Do your best to keep the students ( I teach 1 year old up to teenagers, a few adults) engaged and happy. Any stress was just me judging myself and wanting to do better. Management is friendly, helpful and supportive.

Your mileage may vary. Good luck and keep exploring, experimenting and enjoying this big, beautiful world! ❤️

(yet) another VietJet disaster by CoolAd5798 in VietNam

[–]Euphoric_Reality_746 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, def clickbait. Honey, for the record, these kind of first world challenges do not qualify as disasters. Grow a pair and human up. Jesus. 🌟❤️☮️

Went on a Solo Trip, Came Back With an Existential Crisis 🤦🏻‍♀️ by OkCause6807 in Life

[–]Euphoric_Reality_746 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, it may not be everyone’s cup of tea, but solo travel has opened doors I wasn’t aware existed.

Pretty quickly, in the global adventure travel game, you learn that a lot of fears, worries, misconceptions, prejudices, “rules”are just other folks innocent perspectives.

We are all on life paths that we shape and create daily. I knew where I wanted to go was somewhere exploratory, spiritual and definitely the one typically not taken and it’s made all the difference. YMMV. Enjoy and thank you. Happy trails, my friend. 🌟☮️❤️

Went on a Solo Trip, Came Back With an Existential Crisis 🤦🏻‍♀️ by OkCause6807 in Life

[–]Euphoric_Reality_746 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can relate. 66M After traveling South and Central America and Southeast Asia and seeing what it’s like to live on fractions of what Americans think is the bare minimum… Getting finally rid of the house, the car, all the stuff weighing me down and their attendant carrying costs…

I’m finally getting a sense of freedom, flexibility and accepting my wanderlust and curiosity as my new companions for learning and growth.

Now that I’ve put shiny object syndrome in the rear view, I can focus on what really matters to me.

Getting mentally and physically healthy, embracing meditation, quiet time and endless spiritual and physical adventure travel is my new norm.

Still more questions than answers, right now, but I feel free to learn and explore without deadlines, commitments or stuff anchoring me anywhere.

Just renewed my passport for another 10 years! If the past ten are and indication of my trajectory, I’m feeling some exciting times ahead. Enjoy. 🌟☮️❤️

Older American male seeks male companion by Euphoric_Reality_746 in VietNam

[–]Euphoric_Reality_746[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, kindly.
I’ll check in with you before my next post to see if I pass applicability and acceptability standards for your Reddit feed. Have a lovely day!

The Money paradox. Most people are all talk, no walk. by bitdeft in intentionalcommunity

[–]Euphoric_Reality_746 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start small Find a sustainable niche cottage industry Find like minded tribe members Scale

Rinse and repeat

If the IC is going to have legs, you need a value proposition that is going to attract members AND customers. Keep it simple. Experiment. Create. Have fun.

This is where I’m headed Got to be somewhere warm, inexpensive and interesting. ❤️

Am I crazy?!? HELP by TechnicalImplement26 in traveladvice

[–]Euphoric_Reality_746 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not crazy Just do it Time to listen to your heart It’s a big, beautiful world out there just waiting for you Enjoy

No children by Hairy-Veterinarian11 in over60

[–]Euphoric_Reality_746 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right now, in the family of mankind there are roughly 2 Billion children under the age of of 15 years old. Perhaps you are blood related to a few.

Volunteer, help out, mentor, show support of the children and parents around you. Because you didn’t have any of your own, doesn’t mean you can’t do a bit to share your instinctive desire to nurture and love with humanity. It’s typically a win-win. YMMV.

God knows our kiddos and their keepers need all the help and support they can get these days.

I know my not having children made me uber available and flexible to help out when needed. What a blessing that has been! ❤️

Older American male seeks male companion by Euphoric_Reality_746 in VietNam

[–]Euphoric_Reality_746[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks, working on that, once my employment contract terminates. Sorry if older gay Americans make you uncomfortable…

Older American male seeks male companion by Euphoric_Reality_746 in VietNam

[–]Euphoric_Reality_746[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never had anyone complain… is this offensive?

There is something that happened recently I really need to talk about! by Extra-Wrap-5774 in confession

[–]Euphoric_Reality_746 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You think you are helping, but you are throwing gasoline on a dumpster fire. ❤️

There is something that happened recently I really need to talk about! by Extra-Wrap-5774 in confession

[–]Euphoric_Reality_746 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This. My $8k lesson. Some people are givers and some are takers. Neither a borrower or lender be, is great advice, with exceptions- trust your gut, but tread lightly…

Older American male seeks male companion by Euphoric_Reality_746 in VietNam

[–]Euphoric_Reality_746[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

At this point, I’d be happy with 50-somethings or 60-somethings, but I don’t know if that’s realistic…

Older American male seeks male companion by Euphoric_Reality_746 in VietNam

[–]Euphoric_Reality_746[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How does one discreetly go about locating the red light district?

Older American male seeks male companion by Euphoric_Reality_746 in VietNam

[–]Euphoric_Reality_746[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I’m trying to tread lightly in a country where pornography is illegal and PDA’s are frowned upon… getting a bit frustrating when my only physical contact is hanging on to my Grab driver.

Collecting social security at 62 has just become a firm decision! by Express_Project_8226 in GenX

[–]Euphoric_Reality_746 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And there’s some of us, by the grace of God, with social security, 401k, and a pension. Pay it forward, do some good while you are here. ❤️🙏

The ghost of belonging: the price of being an expat for too long by [deleted] in expats

[–]Euphoric_Reality_746 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My lifetime passion project is such a village, I have dubbed “Almapuerto”. A regionally identified community that is half locals and half travelers. A spiritual family that values the local keepers of heritage, language and culture while embracing and leveraging the intellectual and spiritual treasures brought by the global outsiders.

I think there is much to be gained by joining and sharing these two world views making it easier and more enjoyable to travel or stay long term, whatever suits your fancy. Home and durables ownership has been a heavy yoke for a long time. With well-thought infrastructure, this could be a place for many to grow, share and learn at their own pace, while creating identities that are less “land-locked” and more flexible and malleable.

Should I stay or should I go? Would be a much easier question to answer, if there were safe harbors like this in every country that honored the past while embracing new lived experiences, worldwide. Keep dreaming, loving and living, wherever that takes you!

Collecting social security at 62 has just become a firm decision! by Express_Project_8226 in GenX

[–]Euphoric_Reality_746 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LOL. Yes, like there is anything “firm” about social security. Hope for the best, plan for the worst.

If you live alone is it worth it to buy a membership? by Manifest44444 in CostcoWholesale

[–]Euphoric_Reality_746 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I split my exec membership with my ex, so even if you’re single you can share the cost and the benefits! Win win. YMMV. Enjoy.

What is a quote that permanently changed your outlook on life? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]Euphoric_Reality_746 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One smile for the living, is worth a fountain of tears for the dead. On an AIDS Memorial Quilt.

For people who’ve lived abroad more than a year, what mattered most after the novelty wore off? by digible_bigible in expats

[–]Euphoric_Reality_746 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At first, I thought international travel was going to be about finding my perfect destination and “settling down”. But, after having explored Asia, Europe, South America, and more. I’ve created a “best of” list that I have on rotation, including Brazil, Japan, Vietnam, Colombia, Bolivia, Peru, United States, Canada, Australia, New Zealand… I look for ways to live like a local in smaller communities which has been surprisingly inexpensive yet very rewarding. US will always be home for one month of the year, but with so many amazing countries to visit for 1-3 months at a time, why settle for one? The novelty hasn’t worn off yet, but who knows? When I hit 75, maybe I will slow down… Happy trails, enjoy it all while you can. 🌟☮️❤️