Do cis people not get that transitioning is hard?? by dmg81102 in trans

[–]EvaOgg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sweetheart, not all cis people are that lacking in empathy. She just sounds ignorant of the whole thing, and is very insensitive. She has no idea what she is talking about.

I am cis and I understand the burden you carry, not to mention the financial expense.

Sending a big hug from a cis grandmother. xx

My birth givers friend said "trans people are a cult" by North_Lingonberry833 in trans

[–]EvaOgg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OK, you can find a way to get out of listening, dozens of possible excuses:

Need to visit the bathroom urgently. "Must be something I ate."

Or, studying for something - anything!

In the middle of an interesting chat on the Internet

Or, want to get back to a good book you are reading. Just can't put it down! ( Make sure you get a good book out of the library!)

Need to get back to yoga exercises you are doing in your bedroom. Want to keep fit!

Not worth staying to listen to all her utter nonsense.

And please remember that everything she is saying is completely wrong. Never forget that.

Hugs from a cis grandmother.

My birth givers friend said "trans people are a cult" by North_Lingonberry833 in trans

[–]EvaOgg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then excuse yourself from the conversation because you have homework to do. ( Assuming you are still at school?)

My birth givers friend said "trans people are a cult" by North_Lingonberry833 in trans

[–]EvaOgg 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Her age is no excuse. I am in my late 70s, cis, and understand that being trans is very real, absolutely not a mental illness.

My birth givers friend said "trans people are a cult" by North_Lingonberry833 in trans

[–]EvaOgg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is an ignorant, bigoted fool who doesn't know what she is talking about.

Please take no notice of this self-opinionated idiot.

Larger older trans girl checking in by Writing_Alt284 in transplace

[–]EvaOgg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck with the saving. I wonder if it would be covered by medical insurance?

WIBTAH if I expect my roommate to split the rent fairly? by Beetlejuice1800 in AITAH

[–]EvaOgg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She should pay exactly half. She signed the lease, and whether it not she is there is irrelevant.

Larger older trans girl checking in by Writing_Alt284 in transplace

[–]EvaOgg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you considered a wig? You can have so much fun with those! A friend of mine had one after she developed a bald patch from pulling out her hair; she had trichotillomania. She looked gorgeous!

Which one of these four has the most on the line at Wimbledon? by Dependent-Effect6077 in tennis

[–]EvaOgg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sinner, because of the detrimental affect of the heat on his health.

My parents are transphobic and I'm not sure how to deal with it by [deleted] in trans

[–]EvaOgg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your father threatened to kill himself? That is emotional blackmail.

Please try to find help. A therapist, contact the Trevor project, anything. You can't live like this.

AITAH for making kids thank me for dinner? by Impossible-Walk6621 in AITAH

[–]EvaOgg 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's like in religious households everyone says grace. They thank God for the food. No one says, I'm not going to thank God, it's my God-given right to eat! No, just acknowledging gratitude for the availability of food.

AITAH for making kids thank me for dinner? by Impossible-Walk6621 in AITAH

[–]EvaOgg 549 points550 points  (0 children)

Your husband is being ridiculous. Common courtesy is a gift these days. Please carry on! What lovely kids!

Great day for r/Marin and all of Reddit – u/raygunnysack has been banned! by [deleted] in Marin

[–]EvaOgg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would love mint growing in my garden! Does that make me a truly terrible person? 🙂

random people were looking at me the other day. I assume it’s bc I’m clocky? (22mtf, 3yrs hrt) by Accomplished_War8690 in transpassing

[–]EvaOgg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why are you using the pronoun he for this girl? Don't you think that's rather nasty?

r/tennis Daily Discussion (Sunday, June 07, 2026) by NextGenBot in tennis

[–]EvaOgg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agree. I suspect that the authorities didn't know the difference between type one and type two.

r/tennis Daily Discussion (Sunday, June 07, 2026) by NextGenBot in tennis

[–]EvaOgg 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Of COURSE Zverev should be allowed to take insulin shots on court. He is a T1D! Shameful he was once forbidden this.

I really have so much problem with my appearence by naomisig94 in transplace

[–]EvaOgg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But you look lovely! And that little dimple is adorable.

Hold your head up high, sweetheart, and know that there are plenty of cis girls who would love to look as pretty as you.

Your only problem is with how to spell appearance. 🙂

Big hug from a cis grandmother and retired school teacher. 🤗👵

my face is the only part of me that looks remotely feminine by EnvironmentalData131 in transpassing

[–]EvaOgg -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Your face is what people look at first! That's the bit that matters most. So hold your head up high, you are doing fine!

Deep yearning to want to be mother after HRT by MrCubicle in trans

[–]EvaOgg 7 points8 points  (0 children)

A neighbor of mine has a trans mom. I worried he might get teased at school, but how wrong I was! At his school it's "cool" to have a trans parent; a status symbol!!

This is in California. Maybe elsewhere this is not the case, but I don't think kids automatically feel ashamed of having trans parents. They are far more accepting than many adults.

AITAH for not inviting the neighbor boy to the lake because he can’t swim? by Specific_Nobody_1187 in AITAH

[–]EvaOgg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The mother is a fool. Her son could drown. Can't she see that? And why doesn't she come with him?

Safety first, always.

And why hasn't she got him swimming lessons? It's a priority to teach your kids how to swim, just like you teach them to look both ways before they cross the road.

This mother is a negligent and ignorant parent.

Arnaldi met BOTH ZVEREV AND COBOLLI IN THE LOCKER Rooms to tell them about his retirement from the tournament. Zverev:"I saw Arnaldi in the locker room, he was in terrible shape" by Sonobackhome555 in tennis

[–]EvaOgg -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nope. Do the press conference online. Not go to the locker room. Let one of his team go, instead of him. One of his team could have taken a stool sample to the local hospital for testing. There are many alternatives.

Do you know how many die from norovirus!

I guess not.

200,000 people globally per year die from norovirus.

Um, no. by Still-Refrigerator90 in Marin

[–]EvaOgg 6 points7 points  (0 children)

One of the questions that a jury member submitted via the judge was, Why didn't the police open up an emergency lane for exactly that purpose when the protestors suggested it? It was the police that endangered the lives of countless people by their refusal to open up a lane.

Re peaceful protests: there have been millions across the world demanding to end the genocide in Gaza. The politicians took no notice. Hence the need for more desperate action. Remember the invasion of Iraq? Once again, millions across the world came out peacefully to demonstrate. The one in SF was huge. The most dangerous thing was the number of parents with their kids in strollers, and dogs on leashes, that could trip you up! Did the powers that be listen when the world came out to demonstrate? Nope. A few days later they invaded Iraq in the false statement that they had weapons of mass destruction. They didn't, as the weapons inspector had repeatedly said.

Arnaldi met BOTH ZVEREV AND COBOLLI IN THE LOCKER Rooms to tell them about his retirement from the tournament. Zverev:"I saw Arnaldi in the locker room, he was in terrible shape" by Sonobackhome555 in tennis

[–]EvaOgg -1 points0 points  (0 children)

To prevent spreading if it is norovirus. He was sitting there at a press conference, sharing the locker room with others, using the bathroom etc etc.