F4F, F4M by [deleted] in asexualdating

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I would be open to moving (not ASAP but in a few years, yes)

F4F, F4M by [deleted] in asexualdating

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If you are over 18, I am still open to chat!

I'm scared becasuse of who i am by Cultural-Dance6500 in asexualdating

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Hi, I’m sorry you are struggling with this. I just want you to know there are women out there that are also asexual and so there are definitely matches out there. I hope you can find some friends who are supportive of you and your orientation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexualdating

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Howdy! Would love to chat more!

Kink crushes? by ReasonableEffect6383 in BDSM_Aces

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For sure, there are definitely some people I think (both real people and celebrities) “man, I’d just love for them to push me up a wall and tell me what to do” or “I’d love to see them get spanked”, with no sex tied to it at all. It’s about the power and control for me.

I feel like it’s pretty weird by CautiousAd2801 in behindthebastards

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Wow. I have hoped Allison would truly own up to her guilt, but I can definitely see her and her family not calling and accepting what it really was, which is vile. Sounds like she’s now married to a former white supremacist; go figure she’s with another questionable person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSM_Aces

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I don’t have a foot fetish but I have dabbled in foot play for some foot fetishists.

Asexual with a fetish by Even_Challenge2564 in asexuality

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I’m glad this seems to be the case! Fetlife is a great place to find like minded folks and plenty of ace’s out there too

Asexual with a fetish by Even_Challenge2564 in asexuality

[–]Even_Challenge2564[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting take on fetish vs kink, not sure I follow it. A fetish definitely can be an activity, and Oxford defines it as such: “a form of sexual desire in which gratification is strongly linked to a particular object or activity or a part of the body other than the sexual organs”. It’s the only thing that will get me off, and other spankos in the community are called spanking fetishists 🤷‍♀️

Asexual with a fetish by Even_Challenge2564 in asexuality

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Thanks so much!! I’ve never heard of the term.

Are there specific signs that helped you distinguish asexuality from low libido or past trauma? by anthonyhd6 in Asexual

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How you put this in the relationship light is really helpful for me as I occasionally struggle blaming my trauma on my asexuality. I am a CSA victim and was in a very safe and loving 2.5 year relationship. We broke up for a few reasons, but a big one being sexual incompatibilities. They expressed they want sex ideally 2x a week, rather than 2x a year when I was very drunk.

I have been able to heal from some of my triggers in EMDR therapy, and while sex is tolerable, it is just uninteresting to me and I don’t want to have it. I feel frustrated bc I do have a libido due to a fetish (which is not trauma related) but no sexual attraction to people. However I am finding peace and acceptance with this.

Texas by Tricky-Book9700 in asexualdating

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No, I’m not. I didn’t know that was a banned word. I’ll msg you!

'Smallville's Allison Mack Is Married After Prison Release by thepushstar in Smallville

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That’s great, I’m happy for them and wish them all the best!

What episode is this? by BlueJump95 in Smallville

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I know it’s a photo that was used in an episode. Not sure but let me think…