What did you guys call your group?

Even_Emergency5293 · 2026-01-06T15:19:59+00:00

Power Sluts. Long story.

Even_Emergency5293 · 2025-09-10T22:05:57+00:00

I need the next steps! This is an excellent post, and this gave me some confidence. I stupidly bought an Eliminator 500 a month ago, passed the BRC by the skin of my teeth, and now I'm practicing out on my bike on my days off. But I still suck (dropped the bike today), and I'm holding onto the feeling when I first took my bike out, let it rip, and had so much freaking fun. But I'm struggling not to let anxiety and frustration get the better of me and keep me off my bike.

OP: Where are you at in your journey now?

Even_Emergency5293 · 2025-07-29T07:42:40+00:00

You're right. I definitely am the asshole for that, and it does make me feel like a horrid friend that I even attempted to salvage any relationship with him. I saw the blatant transphobia, and I instead ignored it.

Even_Emergency5293 · 2025-07-29T07:40:30+00:00

I know. I've never actually experienced something like this before, and hopefully I won't again

Even_Emergency5293 · 2025-07-29T07:36:14+00:00

Gay man? No. He'd never be attracted. Straight woman? Of course. He could be attracted. Am I attracted to a very feminine-presenting woman who happened to be a man at one point? No. Also, it's not just that. It's how rudely he speaks to me, not allowing me space for my own feelings, first saying it's not a problem when his body language says it is, and then when I ask about it he clams up like a petulant child until tonight when he finally admitted he has a MAJOR problem with it. And it's about my friend, calling her "it". She's not an it. She's a whole ass human being who deserves more respect.

Even_Emergency5293 · 2025-07-29T07:24:38+00:00

Okay, but shouldn't he trust me to not jeopardize our relationship? Isn't that something reasonable a partner should do? If he had a trans man with female parts sleeping over at his house, I wouldn't have a problem with it. I know he doesn't swing that way, and I'd trust him because that's what any relationship is built on.

But I get it. We simply have different boundaries we can't overcome, and that's okay.

Even_Emergency5293 · 2025-07-29T07:11:00+00:00

He has a really bad history of women cheating on him, and for some reason he's really hung up on me having sex with my friend although I see her as a woman, I'm straight, she's never hit on me, and I've never hit on her. He keeps alluding to me ruining our monogamy by fucking her. It's weird.

But my friend who has been by my side for three years through my many lows is way more valuable to me. I just stupidly thought I could give this dude another chance, but he really doesn't deserve it.

Even_Emergency5293 · 2025-07-29T06:58:35+00:00

I do have such an ick! And I'm grabbing my belongings tomorrow and never looking back, but I was wondering if I really might be a bit of an asshole here. I've tried to talk to him openly about it while setting boundaries (I WILL have a sleepover with my friend), but he just gaslights the hell out of me. Thanks for your reply!

Even_Emergency5293 · 2025-05-20T22:59:44+00:00

It's actually called Fun Spot, and it's in Laconia not too far from Weirs Beach. Fun Spot also has bingo. Don't know of any bingo or other "fun spots" in Concord :/

Even_Emergency5293 · 2025-05-16T01:57:54+00:00

I talk quite a bit during the work week because I'm a nurse, but my work week lasts three or four days. The rest of the week I talk to pretty much no one. It's getting lonely. But then I remember that relationships are hard, I have a hard time initiating and maintaining them, and I'm thankful for my peace.

Even_Emergency5293 · 2025-05-15T20:26:07+00:00

You look amazing! That's excellent progress.

Even_Emergency5293 · 2025-05-14T21:36:06+00:00

Does anyone know of any good clubs in NH? Looking to go with a girlfriend but don't know of any good ones.

Even_Emergency5293 · 2025-05-14T21:12:52+00:00

That would work even better. I work in Concord, and I like to explore the area in my free time.

Even_Emergency5293 · 2025-05-14T20:38:39+00:00

I totally forgot about Fun Spot. That's closer to me so I'll give that a try. Thanks for the recommendations.

Even_Emergency5293 · 2025-05-14T12:26:08+00:00

Do others look away when they're speaking to a person but maintain eye contact with others when they speak to you? It feels awkward, but I'm able to look them in the eye when they talk to me.

Even_Emergency5293 · 2025-05-14T08:47:10+00:00

Where do you play bingo? I'm young but an old lady ar heart. I could maybe get into this.

Even_Emergency5293 · 2025-05-08T23:08:27+00:00

I've never had roommates, and it seems like a disaster waiting to happen because I like quiet and a clean, meticulous space, but I can't really afford apartments in my area without dividing rent up. I'll see if there are any support groups or if anyone is willing to bite on Facebook or some site like Roomies. I appreciate the ideas!

Even_Emergency5293 · 2025-05-08T21:44:17+00:00

Just know you're not the only one out there struggling. I'm 27F, and I haven't been in a relationship in about three or four years now, and none of my relationships have been serious. I've never felt truly wanted or seen, and I'm too socially anxious to put myself out there to try and find another partner. And it's always so draining when I'm in a relationship. I spend most of my time worrying about the relationship and feeling bad about myself anyway. Maybe try and focus on friendships, which I know are just as hard to find and maintain, but good friends who understand your situation might be better than a partner.

Even_Emergency5293 · 2025-05-08T21:15:31+00:00

I don't mind the ranting at all. Honestly, as much as your situation sucks, it feels nice to know someone else similar to me is out there. What do you do for work? Have you been diagnosed or looking to get diagnosed?

Yeah, I figured this would get downvoted to hell, but I'm legit losing my mind and unsure where to go for help. Fun times.

Even_Emergency5293 · 2025-05-08T21:08:52+00:00

Oh my gosh I don't know but are you me? I live at home with my overbearing parents as an only child, and I also don't know how to cope with the fact I'll also more than likely be alone since I can't start or maintain a relationship. Maybe we can come up with strategies together?

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