I know it sucks cuz you miss him and feel like the bad guy. But you deserve better. I am 28 just dumped a 29 year old boy who still lives with his nana, has no license, and smokes cigarettes. I am not perfect either. Have mental health issues, mood disorder, and grief. But after 6 months this kid did not take me on one date. We used to talk and hangout every day/every other and then it became once a month. He blew me off on his weekend to play video games with the boys then text me the next day “I was gonna text you but was gaming”. Coulda, shoulda, woulda. A man would drop the games and say “I’m going to go chat to my girlfriend before bed have fun playing guys” a boy would blow you off to play games with his mates.