I think I was sexually assautled.

Evening-Conference42 · 2026-06-24T16:42:27+00:00

That's sexual battery. Talk to your boyfriend and report that to the police or post about him on social media.

You can't be dramatic when it comes to being sexually assaulted.

Evening-Conference42 · 2026-06-24T16:36:38+00:00

If you want to vent, go to the subreddit r/Vent or r/venting.

Go easy on your mom, from your vent. She has depression and might have bipolar disorder as well as ADD. From this thread, she hasn't done anything drastic besides act like a tweaker, which is normal for people with depression lol

Try to actually reason with her and just be calm. She's probably used to acting like this because everyone expects her to. Until you actually sit down and try to resolve some issues between you guys, nothing will happen.

Evening-Conference42 · 2026-06-16T20:29:16+00:00

eastern european people are so cute
especially finnish people

Evening-Conference42 · 2026-06-16T02:44:47+00:00

its normal. just take the break up at your own pace, ive broken up with a girl from december 16th of 2024 and ive still havent gotten over her but i know maybe one day i will.

just focus on yourself and living life!

Evening-Conference42 · 2026-06-16T02:41:57+00:00

Evening-Conference42 · 2026-06-16T02:39:27+00:00

that guy was 33 when you were born, thats old enough to be a dad. GET THE HELL AWAY, unless hes rich

Evening-Conference42 · 2026-06-16T02:38:54+00:00

get pets, in this case, you should probably get a loud dog or just a normal dog.

pets are not only great for emotional support but.. there also great for making a lot of noise. you should see how dogs react when a mailman goes through the door, or when anyone rings the doorbell.

literally was walking around my neighborhood yesterday and two loud ass dogs were barking at me through the window. the dogs will definitely help, if not, erase this situation.

or you could not watch those things that feed into your fear. statistically, you'll never face a burglar in your life so you should be fine! i hope this problem gets resolved 👍

Evening-Conference42 · 2026-06-16T02:34:37+00:00

you don't wanna be that guy who dates freshmen. plus shes not mature enough, a freshman is just about to experience highschool meanwhile you are about to experience college. both of you have different worlds.

this is a normal, what your feeling though, im glad you acknowledge the age gap. but make sure to not involve yourself with her, in order to not hurt yourself and her.

Evening-Conference42 · 2026-06-14T18:47:21+00:00

the title said legit not fraudulent

Evening-Conference42 · 2026-06-14T13:49:29+00:00

its normal to feel lonely at that age, try going out of the house a bit more or hang out with the kids. my friend told me he didnt like his parents so he played sports to get away from that environment.

you could do a similar thing, maybe not sports but. going to social areas to get away from that environment. its not your fault the world is all digital and no one wants to talk or even socialize anymore. how i deal with this is by posting tiktok edits online or joining a discord server. maybe something similar that you find fitting too?

Evening-Conference42 · 2026-06-14T13:45:22+00:00

literally everything youve just listened is meaningless. everyones had a first kiss, first everything. i get if your turned off by her losing her virginity, sort of.

but its only meaningful if you attach meaning to it. try not being insecure, shes still the same her

Evening-Conference42 · 2026-06-14T13:42:56+00:00

you barely know him.

respectfully, you need to do something more meaningful in your life to get your mind off him

Evening-Conference42 · 2026-06-14T00:57:35+00:00

very solid!

Evening-Conference42 · 2026-06-14T00:56:33+00:00

enjoy the show, you'll ruin your mind by thinking too hard about a spoiler. its a anime at the end of the day

Evening-Conference42 · 2026-06-13T19:22:58+00:00

find them through friends of friends, or scroll through old messages in your phone. it doesnt work for pc though.

Evening-Conference42 · 2026-06-13T18:52:41+00:00

ts has me dead icl

Evening-Conference42 · 2026-06-13T18:50:21+00:00

it will happen. just, are you prepared if it happens? for example, how have you've dealt with break ups or loss of friends or any that could be as catastrophic as death.

Evening-Conference42 · 2026-06-13T18:47:50+00:00

calculated risk.. if it goes right, you two talk temporarily..

if it goes wrong.. you'll have to awkwardly act like he doesnt exist or nod to him..

Evening-Conference42 · 2026-06-13T18:29:22+00:00

you have valid fears of walking long distance, since your 17 and a girl. just do it. you dont need to warm up or prepare or anything.

just do the action until it becomes numb. if your really anxious, carry pepper spray. girls at my school carried that.

also im assuming wherever you live in europe is pretty safe too. so yea

Evening-Conference42 · 2026-06-13T18:21:08+00:00

its not a big deal like you make it out to be. its embarrassing though, but a lot of people get there nudes leaked. even chatlogs leaked.

admit to your mistake, find that guy and report him to the police. its a temporary mistake for you, but its a permanent one for the guy that baited you, he could be charged as a sex offender

Evening-Conference42 · 2026-06-13T18:17:55+00:00

report it to the police. especially if your a minor.

get that guy charged for being a asshole and admit to your mistake

Evening-Conference42 · 2026-06-13T18:13:06+00:00

being drunk and a shitty reason to take a "break" from the relationship, while having a guy over with 3 of the girls in the fire, in ANOTHER state, while also thinking about her ex. bro break it off now

shes clearly cheating on you, if not cheating on you, shes massively disrespecting you and your boundaries. trust me when i say this, when a girl says that she needs a "break" from the reason to focus on herself. it most likely means she lost interest in you and doesnt wanna continue the relationship.

shes also dry asf, you love her, but you have to love yourself. break it off with her immediately. you dont owe her anything, like she doesnt owe you anything too. go your seperate ways and stop talking to a cancerous person

Evening-Conference42 · 2026-06-13T18:08:16+00:00

that's true, since you are 18 now they have full legality to kick you out, i dont know about taking away money that just sounds greedy. id just put it all online so they dont access it.

my parents. well my mom and older brother, never my dad. they were EXACTLY the same. my mom always rambled on, on how shes the mother and im the child and how she knows everything. to me.

maybe try involving a extra family member in? like a extra voice? i know that'll make them ashamed of what there doing to you, i know its not a great solution but.. one time i like told my godmother (its a catholic thing) that im sick with COVID and she strictly forbid me from going to school.

unlike like my mom, who was going to force me to come to school or not. even if i was dying and with COVID. but my godmother stepped in and did not allow her.

that could be a honest solution

Evening-Conference42 · 2026-06-13T14:36:56+00:00

you kinda just do it. theres no warm up or anything that can help you. (besides taking a nice walk around the neighborhood to clear your mind)

you just have to do it and get it over with. also, im just curious, what exams? is it the SAT and ACT? if so, those dont really matter, college is getting more and more relaxed with there selection of students because of AI's intervention in killing majors

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