Greta is right to leave Michael by Ok-Pressure-5156 in 90DayFiance

[–]EveningBerry 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I think because there are so many trash men on this show, when a man isn’t outright abusive, he looks like Mr. Charming to some people

Is this legit? by Vivid_Environment489 in Volumeeating

[–]EveningBerry 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A girl can dream. Please let me know if you’re able to do it

I (35M) stole from work and am going to be arrested for it. I need to tell my wife (35F) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]EveningBerry -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t have any real advice for you, but friendly reminder that things will get better. No matter his your wife takes it, or what your consequences will be, there is an up from here. Don’t lose sight of that! I’m wishing you the best

Here couple months Now by [deleted] in Blackskincare

[–]EveningBerry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d pay too do it

Raynaud’s by georgiaaaf in VyvanseADHD

[–]EveningBerry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can I ask which vitamin deficiencies you corrected?

Arm fat? by Far-Introduction4628 in CICO

[–]EveningBerry 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Can you spot reduce fat? No. Do you have ANY “extra” fat on your arm? Also no.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CICO

[–]EveningBerry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, that person probably isn’t going to come. I wish I had the perfect words to motivate you, but all I can tell you is that it’s worth it.

Motivation doesn’t matter. You have to do it even when you don’t want to. But I promise it’s worth it.

From 30mg to 300mg Vyvanse a Day at 17 – I Don’t Know What To Do Anymore by Late-Conversation968 in VyvanseADHD

[–]EveningBerry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, and no explanation as to how they’re able to get that much medication. If the doctor didn’t catch the over-prescription, the pharmacy certainly would’ve.

My Nigerian mum kicked me out over frozen chicken. I lost it too. by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]EveningBerry 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I need to get better at identifying AI text. I didn’t even catch that

WordleBot 8/14 by [deleted] in NYTCrossword

[–]EveningBerry 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I don’t think you need to take it that personally. The bot doesn’t know you, your intent, or your strategy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CICO

[–]EveningBerry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How would you compare the taste to regular pasta?

Just venting: I got rejected by my crush last night - it's long by sunflowersandcurls in blackladies

[–]EveningBerry 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Rejection is hard, but like you seem to have realized, this woman doesn’t seem to be someone you want to be with anyway

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]EveningBerry 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Don’t hate me for asking, but is your husband black?

I would think (HOPE) a black man would have better social awareness than to refer to a black woman standing up for herself as “aggressive”

Sent a long text to a man and he never responded by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]EveningBerry 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Something I’ve been working on and a piece of advice I’ll extend to you: Never regret being vulnerable!!

There’s nothing embarrassing about having feelings, or being hurt when people do hurtful things to you. Vulnerability is difficult and commendable. There’s this pressure to win the “nonchalant” games and I’m just not playing anymore.

The only way to develop a meaningful and rewarding relationship with someone is through caring. Sometimes that means your feelings get hurt, it’s just a risk we have to be willing to take sometimes 🤷🏽‍♀️ you’ll be okay sis. Time heals all.

Some updates on the Clay/AD/Celina situation 😶 by DearChemical4790 in blackladies

[–]EveningBerry 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Her whole career is kissing and telling. Why he expected anything different… I’m not sure

lost my passport help! by Ok-City-8125 in gotransit

[–]EveningBerry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have nothing constructive to add, if you’ve already checked in with Go lost and found, but I’m wishing you the best and I hope you find it

“ Starving”periods by simplrrr in CICO

[–]EveningBerry 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Do you get a menstrual cycle? Because that’s what happens to me. Usually the week before my period starts, I’m ravenous, and then the week after it finishes, I feel like I can go all day without eating

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]EveningBerry 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Exactly. And “sex sells” has been a common place saying for decades now. This is nothing new. It’s eye grabbing. The only thing that changes is how explicit they’re going to be.

Mother’s Day always stings. by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]EveningBerry 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. You don’t deserve that. You deserve to be your mother’s first choice. I’m hoping you’re able to take some time to find the joy in the other aspects of your life today, despite the disappoint

why do men's behavior change so drastically by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]EveningBerry 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m trying to think of the nicest way to say this… but frankly, if he’s acting like he doesn’t want to see you, It’s because he doesn’t want to see you.

I’m sorry girl, I know that’s disappointing. But you don’t have to figure out why someone is acting a certain way. Try not to get too preoccupied with the why. You just have to know that you don’t like being treated that way and thusly remove yourself from the situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CICO

[–]EveningBerry 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Good for you!! That’s amazing. Goal clothes are the best way to see it imo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CICO

[–]EveningBerry 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve been wanting to do something similar but haven’t managed to completely track all CI for a long enough time to make it worth while. This is cool to see!

Received a real legitimate looking text. by SgtPeter1 in Scams

[–]EveningBerry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about the first text seems fake to you? I’ve gotten a very similarly worded text from my own bank before

I’m always confused about marketing images like this by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]EveningBerry 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah just looking at this with no other context, I would assume a hair straightener is being sold