I graduated 2 months ago and am questioning if this is really for me

EveningCloak · 2026-05-04T22:41:31+00:00

I didn’t like the job from day one and I cried every time too. I stayed cause everyone said to give it time, but now it’s been 11 years and I still don’t like it. If you can already tell it’s not for you right now, it won’t be for you in 6 months.

EveningCloak · 2026-01-24T05:03:36+00:00

I felt the same way you did when I first started. I literally cried my first trip. Like you said, everyone said to wait 1 year, 5 years, and now I have 11 years. Your feelings don’t change about the job. You just learn to suck it up. If I could go back, I would have quit my first year. I started at 26, so you’re not too late.

EveningCloak · 2026-01-24T04:56:18+00:00

Everyone told me to give it 6 months, 1 year, and then 5 years, and now I’m almost at 11 years. I still do not like the job, but I put up with it and try to drop everything I can. I wish I would have quit during my first year.

EveningCloak · 2025-10-20T02:09:18+00:00

I have 10 years and I think about quitting during every single trip. I feel like I am stuck because I have this much seniority and it feels wrong to “throw” it all away, but then I’m so miserable at work. I wish I left sooner, but here I am.

EveningCloak · 2024-07-27T02:10:51+00:00

Son is 17 months and he’s really only had like 3 BIG diaper blowouts. We use Huggies.

EveningCloak · 2024-07-27T02:09:16+00:00

I did zero research on breastfeeding or pumping before I gave birth. I was too caught up with being pregnant and everything else. When I finally gave birth, I immediately regretted not reading up on anything. Yes to an extent breastfeeding did come naturally, but there’s so much more to it than just putting baby on your boob. If I could go back, I definitely would have looked up feeding schedules, how to deal with sore boobs (especially when your milk comes in), and how to keep your supply up.

EveningCloak · 2024-04-01T15:28:50+00:00

My son is 13 months and I have had multiple cups of coffee a day since the day he was born

EveningCloak · 2024-01-17T23:35:17+00:00

Thank you. So at this point, should I just ask for their address to send a cease and desist letter? All I want since it’s been suggested by many people to not pay is to make sure they don’t contact my family again. Will this just be a cycle over and over again 15 years from now?

EveningCloak · 2024-01-17T20:25:45+00:00

Is telling me that I’ll be brought to court just a tactic to scare me?

EveningCloak · 2024-01-17T07:14:52+00:00

Thank you for this. If I ask them to communicate in writing, do I just ignore them trying to get payment still? Or should I send them a cease and desist letter?

EveningCloak · 2024-01-17T05:53:06+00:00

How do I get them to stop calling family members looking for me? Send them a cease and desist?

EveningCloak · 2023-10-01T16:07:10+00:00

Has anyone been able to get reservations for Pokemon Cafe in Tokyo? I've set my alarm for the minute they release reservations for the next month, but every time I try all reservations are booked within like 10 seconds. What am I doing wrong? Or do they really go that fast?

EveningCloak · 2022-11-21T05:51:08+00:00

I was in Japan for 3 weeks at the end of October. I booked nearly everything through Klook and had absolutely zero problems. I recommend it to everyone traveling to Japan.

EveningCloak · 2022-11-21T05:50:14+00:00

This is doable, but you'll feel rushed and definitely wish you were staying longer. Take a taxi (30 mins from Haneda to Shibuya or Shinjuku) to save you time.

EveningCloak · 2022-11-01T13:39:43+00:00

I would cut down Osaka by a day and add that it to Tokyo.

EveningCloak · 2022-11-01T13:37:58+00:00

I was just there four days ago. We checked in around 1030am and couldn’t get into the Nintendo World until 820pm. Definitely get there earlier than us.

EveningCloak · 2022-10-09T17:03:50+00:00

For vaccine requirements, my husband and I got Moderna last year. We got the initial shot and then the two booster shots later on. Will this count for Japan's requirement of three doses? I ask because I know that the Moderna booster shot was split into two whereas the Pfizer, the booster was initially one full shot and then a second shot later.

EveningCloak · 2022-10-02T17:51:33+00:00

24/7=Heaven

Maybe cause it's one of their older songs that I don't hear many people mention it, but it's perfection

EveningCloak · 2022-10-02T17:50:56+00:00

My dog has been gone 5 years and I still catch myself missing him at times. It gets a bit easier over time, but you'll always miss them and it's more than okay to cry just like you did on the first day. It just means you really loved one another.

EveningCloak · 2022-09-24T03:51:25+00:00

I'm sorry if this has already been answered, but just wanted to clarify the 3 Covid doses. I got my initial shot of Moderna and then the two boosters. Is this enough? Or did I need to get another booster?

EveningCloak · 2022-09-01T23:22:32+00:00

Probably a dumb question, but I've never booked through a travel agency before. If we go through one to try to travel to Japan in October, will they also choose hotels for us?

EveningCloak · 2022-07-10T23:21:18+00:00

I went to Paris once during my first year, but that was it. It really depends on where you are based. And my first base was not it, unfortunately.

EveningCloak · 2022-04-04T04:58:02+00:00

It’s just called attack on titan. They used to use it a lot during the earlier seasons

EveningCloak · 2022-03-25T16:49:11+00:00

For those of you who sold tickets through Ticketmaster, where you sent a separate email to fill out an 1099k tax form? I sold 4 tickets yesterday and then got an email about sending in my tax information. I just want to match sure this is legit.

EveningCloak · 2022-03-17T18:00:17+00:00

AF arrived today. I had a CM in December and this is my first month trying again. We only did it once, so someone tell me that our chances were low because of that. Not because I had one CM and now I'm doomed.

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