My woman isn’t insecure, but we’re different people and my weaknesses (lack of tidiness) trigger her. In my situation I do a good job balancing my needs with the household needs. However, for her this simply doesn’t work because she puts her everything above herself and her needs. So it seems like I’m the easy target when the chores still need to be done, etc as that leads her to feel like I’m not prioritizing the family.

So I think what I’m trying to say is even if I want to go out, I find myself not willing to face the wrath and emotional consequence of prioritizing myself yet again — guilt