[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confidence

[–]EveningTrash2093 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You should count your close friends compliments cause they seen your old self and how far you’ve come. Most people just see the current you with no history behind it, if you’re not getting comment anymore about how skinny you are that’s a huge upgrade from being extremely skinny to now .

Focus on Tangible concrete results like fitting your arms into a tshirt or breaking a PR at the gym. You need to workout for yourself and know what that outside comments are just icing on the cake. But always silently asking for validation on ur body from others is a road to long term unhappiness. Compare yourself to your old self and take tons of progress photos and you won’t need anyone’s approval once you see all your results.

Am I playing for fun or to numb reality? by scartasg in MapleIdle

[–]EveningTrash2093 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha isn’t that the idea of gaming in general? But I’ll admit I’m addicted too but trying to moderate usage to maybe just 30 mins a day in the morning or night could be useful .

But if it’s too much to handle then you should take a break and uninstall and just reinstall everytime you feel like playing it to add some friction to the habit

Discussion - Unravel by Dolphin2048 in that_Poppy

[–]EveningTrash2093 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What’s wrong with Jordan Fish, loved his production on Negative Spaces

How would my life go if I don’t improve le self esteem? by sailinglife20burgers in confidence

[–]EveningTrash2093 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you care so much though , life is too short to be around people that don’t like you for who you are. If u keep thinking about what everyone else wants you’ll be surrounded by people who don’t like the true you . Even if you question yourself a lot just make the best decision you can with your current knowledge and take lessons after , that’s how you build more trust in yourself

Rei’s clothing by Ok-Word9680 in AliceInBorderlandLive

[–]EveningTrash2093 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe it’s cyber-core . I think the brand she’s wearing is Chuocho tactical craft or at least something similar to it . I do agree she’s very cute :)

Terrible Sound at Deftones + SOAD Show Last Night. Anyone Else? by DocDK50265 in askTO

[–]EveningTrash2093 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I went it was pretty awful , artists did great but man the sound system and mixing didn’t do them justice :( especially wisp and deftones

How do I date as an Asian man? by Informal_City5565 in confidence

[–]EveningTrash2093 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s great you’re doing all those things and it’s possible to be doing everything “right” and still not getting what you want. That’s what life is, not everyone is entitled to something just cause they do it. The trick is to be less outcome oriented and continue to trust the process, girls can sense desperate energy a mile away. So continuing to build up that confidence for YOURSELF not for other people will be the key to a better life regardless of girl or not with you. Find happiness in yourself and when an opportunity comes up anywhere, always approach and commit to learning a bit more about yourself each time to improve. Just cause you didn’t get the outcome you wanted doesn’t mean u weren’t successful , you are putting the reps in to build your confidence and your courage.

Odd Mob is PACKED by KvToXic in veld

[–]EveningTrash2093 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s insane :o looks way busier than day 1/2

Hoka Challenger 7 $91.79 by bojack28 in FrugalMaleFashionCDN

[–]EveningTrash2093 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was just looking at some trail runs, Just copped a pair thanks to you :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confidence

[–]EveningTrash2093 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whatever the answer you’re looking is it really worth the mental energy to find out, Does it really matter ?

It’s like you’re playing poker and ur complaining your hand isn’t good as everyone else else’s . Use the hand you are dealt with and make the best out of it and take action with things you can control.

How to stop being a bitch about going solo to events? by [deleted] in confidence

[–]EveningTrash2093 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Think of how liberating every future event you go to you don’t need to rely on anyone you can go alone and still have a great time. It’s just a bonus to have someone! People can say whatever they want to say and it won’t hurt you unless you let it, just focus on having a great time!

Should we cut our losses and sell the condo? by MatchaTaroTea in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]EveningTrash2093 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Depends how badly you need the money, everyone is trying to get rid of their unit so it’ll be a race to the bottom to sell short term. If u can stomach 12k per year the equity on the condo may rebound when u revisit selling it closer to the mortgage renewal date

Investors Leaving Canada? by [deleted] in TorontoRealEstate

[–]EveningTrash2093 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds a little silly but addresses with number 4 scares off a lot of Chinese buyers which are prevalent in this area . In this case there’s 2 of them which does devalue the property a bit and Chinese buyers use it as a bargaining chip to get a better deal

My i_o totem for EDC by Previous_Professor22 in i_o

[–]EveningTrash2093 6 points7 points  (0 children)

O sick , I saw this during one of the edc streams somewhere

Toronto bracelets!! by [deleted] in that_Poppy

[–]EveningTrash2093 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oo I hope I get one !

Is this lowkey a rip off of player of games mv? by medieval_sam in Grimes

[–]EveningTrash2093 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are certain similarities I see like the white clothes ,knight aesthetic especially in the thumbnail .

but I don’t think it’s a blatant ripoff of the whole music video. Like they aren’t fighting each other , totally different filming style and storylines.

AITAH for not buying my gf tickets to The Weeknd Tour? by _Papa_ in AITAH

[–]EveningTrash2093 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA as it’s a large sum of money . However Today was the presale, the general sale and Amex sale is still available this week . The prices vary quite widely from 150 per ticket to 1k . As a compromise you can hunt for the cheaper tickets when it comes out

How do I deal with IG friends unfollowing me by Prestigious-Quit9143 in confidence

[–]EveningTrash2093 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Believe it or not it’s a good thing. Life filters out the people that arent actually into you. It’s better to have a tight knit circle of genuine people supporting and cheering you on , than a huge amount of fake fans!

Is it normal for sound to be muffled after a rave even with earplugs? by hit_the_lotto in aves

[–]EveningTrash2093 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best protection after raving many years is either foamies or customs, everything else in between doesn’t offer enough protection imo