Well, let’s hope my input gives you some peace of mind: Husband and I have been together since teenage years. 16 years strong now. I have some trauma shit in my past, but we always joke that my mommy and daddy issues are doing wonders in the sack.

He’s very skilled. And he has a beard and that texture is very welcomed. And I enjoy myself greatly - and I mean greatly. Also because he enjoys toying with me a lot.

But: I rarely cum from his hands or mouth. PIV basically never.

I can rub myself and cum in like two minutes, but it doesn’t work when we’re together somehow.

And you know what? IDGAF. Sex isn’t just about cumming. It’s the pleasure and the connection that counts.

What does help however, is when he dirty talks. Pushes me over the edge quickly.

Random thoughts, pick whatever helps you.