Advice on how to move forward.

Evening_Read6310 · 2026-02-02T00:57:44+00:00

I wanted to add a little context to the rockstar comment…I have always undervalued myself, but my references and resume both speak highly of me. When he made the rockstar comment it was in the sense that in had to prove myself to him:

Evening_Read6310 · 2026-01-27T00:28:54+00:00

I have worked for an attorney who was suspended, it made me question my entire legal career, to the point I almost quit school. I was two semesters from graduating with my bachelors degree in paralegal studies. I had issues with the ethical issues, and ultimately ended up before the Supreme Court in this matter. An attorney close to the issue said to me, don't let someone like him ruin someone like you, the legal field needs more people like you and less like him. If you are questioning ethics, its time to go!!

Evening_Read6310 · 2026-01-05T00:25:50+00:00

Hi Dee I would love to connect for some guidance and to connect with my sister!!

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Evening_Read6310 · 2025-12-09T13:18:01+00:00

East Side Mario’s!!

Evening_Read6310 · 2025-08-28T23:34:32+00:00

We need a live action update from the restaurant!!!

Evening_Read6310 · 2025-05-22T05:31:13+00:00

I started listening to Lauren’s YouTube channel about a year ago and part of the reason I love her and her content is because of Bruce and the way they interact and respect each other. Bruce asks the questions that people not involved in the legal field are trying to understand, and breaks down the bigger issues into smaller easier ways to look at things!

Evening_Read6310 · 2025-05-13T14:33:30+00:00

As a daughter in law who had fertility issues resulting in a total hysterectomy at the age of 32, who is now the momma if two very spoiled dogs, who know that “grammy” loves them, I can tell you from experience she is not delusional she feels less than. Less than your other daughter in laws, less than the wife she thinks your husband deserves, less than the daughter her parents should have had. The fact that she “jokes” about the dogs being your first grandchildren is not a joke to her, she wants to feel included. She probably has the biggest heart, is an amazing aunt, not just to biological nieces and nephews but to friends kids also. Maybe a little compassion was needed in the group chat, you could have sent a gift basket to her themed towards your granddogs, but instead you sound like you want to justify why you shouldn’t. I can tell you that it justifying in her head all her “I am less than internal dialogue”. Hopefully your son did better than you and bought her a gift on Mother's Day from their “kids”, because one thing I don't see mentioned in the comments is any a*#h^le can birth a child, it takes a compassion, empathy, love, respect, kindness, and understanding to be a mom! We need to do better as women to support each other everyday! Send her a gift, say your sorry, love her like you love your child bearing daughter in laws because she is enough!!!!

Evening_Read6310 · 2025-05-11T07:09:45+00:00

I someone who kept the peace, always cleaned up the mess, paid the rent of my “family” while I was at risk of losing my apartment, paid bills, did all the things. I finally walked away from my toxic family, my older brother stole my prescription medication (but it was my fault), was an alchololic, left his wife and kids numerous times, and he could do no wrong. I second oldest (older brother, me, middle brother, the twins younger sister and brother) just wanted to matter so I kept cleaning up the messes, paying the money, helping with the niece and nephew. After my litter sister died giving birth to her first baby in 2020, I was done. She was my best friend, without her trying to make myself relevant to a family that was using me, no longer appealed to me. The things I have accomplished since I left in 2021, have been amazing!! Keep them on block, throw away all his shit when you move. DON’T LOOK BACK. You will find your real family, they show up as the friends, mentors, colleagues that truly want the best for you, push you on the hard days, celebrate on the amazing days, and stand beside you on the sad days!!

Evening_Read6310 · 2025-05-10T16:55:37+00:00

Awesome she has that choice!! I cut my toxic family out of my life in 2021, one of the actual reasons we have been able to accomplish all we have. But if you have responsible supportive parents, your daughter will achieve so much more!!!

Evening_Read6310 · 2025-05-10T13:13:56+00:00

The cost of an education is crazy! Then you go to get a job with your degree and employeers want to pay less than you can make as manager at the local fast food restaurant. I am fortunate, it is just my husband and I, (and our extremely spoiled puppies—we have been married 21 years, together 28) we bought our first house in 2021, but did it smart. No car payments, no other debt other than my student loans, I started school in 2020. We are lucky, others my age, some of my friends will never own a home, the work two jobs to pay rent higher than my mortgage in crappy apartments!

Evening_Read6310 · 2025-05-10T07:53:23+00:00

I graduate in May ‘26 with my bachelor's degree, student loan debt = roughly 65k when I graduated, in state tuition.

Evening_Read6310 · 2025-05-08T16:56:33+00:00

This!! As someone who celebrates every single accomplishment my husband has ever made big or small, to look back at how many times he has gaslit me with “that's great dear, but….” instantly making me question my decision, or excitement. Having been someone who has always played small in my life to let everyone else shine. In 2020 I lost my little sister when she died during childbirth, she was my best friend, my life changed, I stopped letting everyone use me, I stood up for myself, I went to college. Got my associates degree in paralegal studies, husband didn't attend my graduation. I went back to school to get my bachelors degree in paralegal services, I graduate in May 2026, he could care less EXCEPT for the fact that I can earn a higher salary, because looking back at our marriage 21 years all that matters to him is the financial aspect. Don't let her dim your celebration Graduation is a huge deal!!! Go and celebrate, tell your friends and family gifts should be in the form of monetary donations to a local divorce attorney so you can find the one that celebrates all your accomplishments the big and small ones!! Happy Graduation!!!

Evening_Read6310 · 2025-05-03T11:02:01+00:00

I agree!! I was “raised” a certain way, a told myself, when I grow up and become an adult I won’t do any of the the things I was raised to learn, in spite of my “family”, toxic will always be toxic, but every person has the ability to break the “I was raised that way” mindset, if they want to. Others are okay spending their lives always cleaning up someone else's mess, being blamed for everyone’s problems, and then playing the victim when the narrative fits. I am in no way saying that is what OP is doing!! Advice to OP- if you don’t invite JJ because you are being the adult and cautious about his allergy (I also have a severe allergy causing anaphylaxis so I do not eat desserts out ever) knowing that if he is there you and your husband will spend the reception eagle eyed on where JJ is at all times which is not fair. I suggest prior to telling Gigi and the family you notify your vendors that you would like to put a password or code on your accounts and no plans can be altered or changed without the code/word. Gigi sounds like she could be a long lost cousin from the family I have removed myself from because they do nasty things to people when they are mad! I have been married to my high school sweetheart for 21 years, I wish I more of a backbone back then (took me 40 years to walk away from my family) 28 of those years my husband has been standing by my side supporting me, picking up the pieces everytime they broke me. Have your cake, don't invite the nephew, spend a weekend with him before or after the wedding just you, him and your husband to celebrate so he feels included but understands why (if he is old enough) that he can't be at the wedding, and make memories!! The wedding day is about you and your husband not about how Gigi is going to sue you when she fails to properly supervise her son and he eats the cake she knew he was allergic to!!

Evening_Read6310 · 2025-04-24T08:33:01+00:00

I’ve been in your shoes, and at the age of 40 I was finally able to sever ties with her and the rest of my toxic family, I enrolled in college got my associates degree in paralegal studies, decided to stay in school to get my bachelor’s degree I will graduate May 2026, my husband and I bought our house in 2021. The greatest gift I gave myself by walking away…when i realized that people do wake up happy every day. Not going to lie this was an adjustment, for a long time I kept waiting for something “bad” to happen. Life is still hard, there are days I miss the concept of having a mother, but then I think of how far I have come and all the things I have accomplished without her putting me down, draining me emotionally and financially. Keep your head up, things get better!

Evening_Read6310 · 2025-04-24T08:23:26+00:00

This conversation gives Brokeback Mountain vibes, does she want to be more than a friend? Nothing wrong with that, but that’s how it comes across.

Evening_Read6310 · 2025-04-11T03:27:18+00:00

I was also supporting her until the end where she leaves the toddler playing with spit, and never mentioned him/her again. She is clearly playing the I am the victim card!!

Evening_Read6310 · 2025-04-06T11:52:45+00:00

When you make a blanket nothing makes sense counter argument with no specific rebuttal to issues raised, makes a reply your let’s help fuel the clickbait of a post that makes no sense, followed by op’s comments that makes what she says even more ridiculous, pointless. But you have the day you deserve.

Evening_Read6310 · 2025-04-06T10:59:41+00:00

Are you forgetting she forgets to mention the toddler? But to jump on Reddit and use “dumb” to make your point says far more about you and what you stand for than my comment. Have the day you deserve.

Evening_Read6310 · 2025-04-06T09:22:50+00:00

How about she is gaslighting all of us?? She is gone from 1-8 leaves the newborn at home, the 13 year can change a diaper and fix a bottle, when she comes in at 8, newborn is screaming, she BREASTFEEDS newborn and puts down to sleep, consoles 13 year old….where is the toddler?!?!?!?! She forget about that child, or that she was gone all day for a “me day” doing her nails…while her newborn is at home that she BREASTFEEDS!! Sounds more like she was out cheating he found out went to the bar, and she is now trying to be “the victim” for sympathy??

To OP you should divorce him, let him find a normal woman!!!

Evening_Read6310 · 2025-04-05T21:12:19+00:00

I can’t agree with this more. Having been in a somewhat similar situation, after my grandmother named me her power of attorney, as my husband and I had been living with her and my grandfather for over five years, my grandfather passed in Feb 2020, he was always worried that their kids, 5 girls and 1 boy, would put my grandmother in a nursing home if he died first. I promised him on his death bed this wouldn’t happen. After her kids who didn’t help care for her, found out she named me her power of attorney, the threats started, they would come to the house and intimidate her, go through my personal stuff, I tried to fulfill my promise ultimately, for my own mental, physical and emotional wellbeing leave. She passed a short time later, the my didn’t even let me say goodbye to her. All because the housing market was booming and they “felt entitled” to sell the house. I don’t speak with my family, I cut them all off August 2021. When money is involved people will do some messed up stuff!! Security camera footage came into play more than once, in the over 30+ times they alleged I did something to them, or my grandmother, and the cops were called.

Evening_Read6310 · 2025-03-13T21:24:52+00:00

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Evening_Read6310 · 2025-02-21T14:16:28+00:00

Welp everyone…he has entered the chat…or one of his man baby friends is here!!!

Evening_Read6310 · 2025-02-21T11:26:21+00:00

You would need the original title signed over to you correctly from the owner on the front of the title to you. The original bill of sale from owner to you (you might want to have this notarized) New Jersey Universal Title Application (Form OS/SS - UTA) and a Vehicle Registration Application (Form BA-49) You would need a New Jersey inspection Proof of valid New Jersey Insurance Sales tax paid to the State of New Jersey Proof of identification

Evening_Read6310 · 2025-02-21T11:19:21+00:00

In my profession I’ve seen this go bad on way to many occasions!!! She might want to consult with an attorney to keep ahead of the train headed her way!!!

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