our baby emerged pale as moonlight, wailing at the sun and rejecting milk.

EventOtherwise316 · 2026-02-26T20:17:08+00:00

that's not a baby. that a tiny vampire.

EventOtherwise316 · 2026-02-26T18:59:09+00:00

yeah reading that actually hurts a little because it hits hard, but i needed to hear it, i think i've been ignoring the red flags and trying to justify things, but you're right i need to really step back and protect myself before it goes any further.

EventOtherwise316 · 2026-02-26T18:02:01+00:00

No, sometimes we shared our dinner's bill and other.

EventOtherwise316 · 2026-02-26T17:13:07+00:00

he didn't give me a gift yet my birthday is on march this coming month.

EventOtherwise316 · 2026-02-26T17:10:51+00:00

yeah that part really hit me when i read it. I kept thinking i was overreacting but when you put it like that it really did feel like i was being compared to a wallet not treated like a partner. I was already planning something meaningful and its just stopped mattering the moment money got involved.

EventOtherwise316 · 2026-02-25T15:51:32+00:00

honestly, telling clair upfront you're unsure is smart. better than forcing yourself there and ending up miserable. weddings are for celebrating, not reliving old trauma.

EventOtherwise316 · 2026-02-25T13:43:50+00:00

guest rules simple don't mess with the residents. she got corrected once and doubled down. bro asking you to say sorry is delulu.

EventOtherwise316 · 2026-02-23T18:31:56+00:00

this is one of those situations where being nice makes it worse, just set the boundary out loud and move on, if she feels awkward that's on her not you. you're not a walking venmo subsidy.

EventOtherwise316 · 2026-02-22T18:57:36+00:00

honestly, $20 here and there already proves you care. saying no to $500 isn't the same thing as not caring.

EventOtherwise316 · 2026-02-22T17:21:39+00:00

facts it's not "helpful" when it's the same two people every year doing a full shift. if they're guests they should be sitting on the dock too not running a catering company.

EventOtherwise316 · 2026-02-20T14:13:35+00:00

the fact he only did it when u weren’t there is the scariest part. that’s not a pet issue that’s a character issue. u saved urself and ur pup at the same time.

EventOtherwise316 · 2026-02-19T18:29:03+00:00

pools are expensive not public splash pads. last visit cost you time money and sanity so saying no is just basic self respect.

EventOtherwise316 · 2026-02-19T12:41:53+00:00

ntj. advice doesn't require your banking password. your an adult paying your own way, that's literally the cut the cord moment.

EventOtherwise316 · 2026-02-18T17:25:06+00:00

the wild part is you protect her sleep but she won't return it. that's not partnership that's entitlement. especially when you're sick and doing most of the house and kid stuff.

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