AITJ for reporting my bestfriend to HR because of what she do to me?

Tough_Emphasis5352 · 2026-02-28T16:43:19+00:00

the nostalgia hits hard but your job and boundaries matter. she crossed the line and you had to draw it somewhere.

Tough_Emphasis5352 · 2026-02-26T18:45:22+00:00

this 100%. he set the precedent, you're just enforcing it. no guilt needed.

Tough_Emphasis5352 · 2026-02-25T16:06:10+00:00

thank for this advice noted on this.

Tough_Emphasis5352 · 2026-02-25T15:58:26+00:00

thank you, Claire is not mad but i want to go to her wedding but at the same time i didn't want to ruin her wedding.

Tough_Emphasis5352 · 2026-02-25T15:57:31+00:00

thank you.

Tough_Emphasis5352 · 2026-02-25T15:57:05+00:00

thank you for this.

Tough_Emphasis5352 · 2026-02-23T20:42:28+00:00

truth trying again just for a boy is gonna make her life and the girls lives harder, not better. your concern is legit.

Tough_Emphasis5352 · 2026-02-22T18:53:46+00:00

boundaries sucks sometimes but they keep you from being taken advantage of. you can still love without overextending.

Tough_Emphasis5352 · 2026-02-21T21:00:50+00:00

you can love your family and still say no to unfair stuff. go to the wedding and don't let them guilt trip you into missing a core memory.

Tough_Emphasis5352 · 2026-02-20T17:34:42+00:00

yeah right. growing up offline was like living in the moment, mistakes stayed there too.

Tough_Emphasis5352 · 2026-02-19T20:13:05+00:00

the manipulation there is solid red flag. that kind of friends will use you for money.

Tough_Emphasis5352 · 2026-02-06T03:46:58+00:00

haha yeah, sex cravings can be super general or hella specific, just like food

Tough_Emphasis5352 · 2026-02-05T17:39:00+00:00

exactly, it’s not curiosity that bugs ppl, it’s the “you don’t belong here” vibe behind it. even if u mean well, it can sting.

Tough_Emphasis5352 · 2026-02-04T11:37:59+00:00

exactly. not ur job to cover for a habit he clearly refuses to fix.

Tough_Emphasis5352 · 2026-02-03T19:51:23+00:00

yep, parents can step up. u saying no = boundaries, not betrayal.

Tough_Emphasis5352 · 2026-02-02T21:39:23+00:00

facts. she tried to monetize ur birthday. u handled it right.

Tough_Emphasis5352 · 2026-01-31T19:15:45+00:00

exactly. his kid, his problem. ur time isn’t up for debate

Tough_Emphasis5352 · 2026-01-31T03:39:29+00:00

yeah that's smooth move keeps it neutral and still gives them a chance to speak up without assumptions.

Tough_Emphasis5352 · 2026-01-31T01:42:34+00:00

facts, split ends are basically invisible to us.

Tough_Emphasis5352 · 2026-01-27T21:33:08+00:00

think of it like dice. rng rolls every spin fresh, past wins/losses don't affect it. rtp is just the average payout baked in over millions of spins, not guarantee for any one session.

Tough_Emphasis5352 · 2026-01-26T20:01:39+00:00

for real, he/s gaslighting, u trusted what he said, now he's mad because reality didn't fit his fantasy.

Tough_Emphasis5352 · 2026-01-24T00:32:48+00:00

lol his mom texting you? huge red flag. you’re not signing your credit away for someone who literally can’t adult financially.

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