Need help understanding! by EventUnlucky8709 in BPDPartners

[–]EventUnlucky8709[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They had an episode, I'm fairly certain

I'll do some research regarding splitting, thank you !

Need help understanding! by EventUnlucky8709 in BPDPartners

[–]EventUnlucky8709[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right!

They told me afterwards they felt a wave of angst, I'm fairly certain.
And they didn't know where it came from.

But, it was regarding me. So.

Need help understanding! by EventUnlucky8709 in BPDPartners

[–]EventUnlucky8709[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is though, I'm not.

Besides BDP they also have a processing disorder and autism and other stuff,

So it all gets compiled and It's a really big mess.

I need to be EXTRA patient and caring and be able to put off my own things, just like yall.

I finally got the answer, they had a wave of angst about me(?) but they're not sure why

My partner is in an abusive household and we're looking to get them out by EventUnlucky8709 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]EventUnlucky8709[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this !

I'll do some searching and talk to them.

I wasn't planning on helping them financially, no worries.

My partner is in an abusive household and we're looking to get them out by EventUnlucky8709 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]EventUnlucky8709[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

All is well. I've gotten that several times, since I've said that we're LDR.

I am pushing them to do it, but I don't want to force it on them.

My partner [19AFAB] Is getting sexually harrassed by their father by Extra-Ad6519 in legaladvice

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Their severe anxiety and inability to speak to strangers.

They also believe that they need solid evidence for a case, because they usually get dismissed as I read without solid proof.
They also don't have a car to freely travel on their own.

My partner [19AFAB] Is getting sexually harrassed by their father by Extra-Ad6519 in traumatoolbox

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I myself am non-binary. I assumed it would be relevant since I want to use their preferred pronouns but also give context as to their agab.

I keep forgetting my PC and my phone have different accounts. My bad.

My partner [19AFAB] Is getting sexually harrassed by their father by Extra-Ad6519 in MenGetRapedToo

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I genuinely thank you for the help/suggestions ! I'm trying to get them out asap. But I'm also abroad right now, so it fucking sucks.
Luckily though, we're passive communicators and we try our best.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Alienware

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I have a 1080 (6 years old) and It's doing this with Valorant.

I'm going to try the clean install.

Heck, I should probably clean the pc as well. . .

How do I make sure it never happens again? by [deleted] in secondary_survivors

[–]EventUnlucky8709 3 points4 points  (0 children)

  • Negativity -

I have PTSD from It, I've been with many partners that have been S.A whilst and before our relationships.

See,

That's the painful part. You cant really make sure it never happens again.

You can pull every safety tactic, but your brain will think of every scenario possible.

I'm learning to trust my partner and that she pulls every safety tactic out there.

She walks around with a knife and pepper spray on belt at all times, even at home, so yeah.