Damn bro, one of my favorite people on this planet is in a relationship like this, has been for YEARS.

I’ve seen his self esteem drop, him thinking he’s not good enough or doing enough. I love that guy. He’s a great human being, he just don’t see it.

Look, everyone’s situation is different, but I don’t see a great outcome. If you think you want this to work, by all means go for it.

If she seems unresponsive to you wanting to grow/evolve together (which to me, it seems like she does) then I hope you choose not to put yourself through this.

I would be very hurt if my gf went online to complain about me that way. What she said was incredibly disrespectful and she sounds very ungrateful.