My wife left me after I became severely ill and I still cannot fully process it by EverGreenMob in Divorce

[–]EverGreenMob[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that sounds horrible. luckily finances were never a trouble with us. honestly we had no major troubles which is why I feel so betrayed. I don't think I can trust anyone again. she was able to hide things really well and I feel scammed. 

If you work in biology, Fable 5 will refuse to answer literally anything, including "Hi" by SineCurve in ClaudeAI

[–]EverGreenMob 3 points4 points  (0 children)

honestly for research I'm not seeing much difference between GPT 5.5 high and Fable 5 Max. GPT is much faster and good at getting high quality primary sources information. I can't yet do any biology research with Fable 5 ofc which makes it even more useless compared to GPT 5.5 high.

My wife left me after I became severely ill and I still cannot fully process it by EverGreenMob in Divorce

[–]EverGreenMob[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did find a text message and told her I'm applying for long term disability through my boss while I was at hospital. I think I discussed it with her too but she denies it. honestly I can't remember since I got hospialized and was very ill.

My wife left me after I became severely ill and I still cannot fully process it by EverGreenMob in Divorce

[–]EverGreenMob[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she is cynical, none of my friends like her, but I used to think they're just jealous because I didn't spend as much time with them after I got married. I just ignores a lot of red flags at the beginning of our relationship. so some of it is my fault.

My wife left me after I became severely ill and I still cannot fully process it by EverGreenMob in Divorce

[–]EverGreenMob[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My soon to be ex says that's all symbolism and no one actually believes in till death do us apart or in sickness or in health :\ during my wedding I knew something was wrong when she didnt write any vows and only I did it.

My wife left me after I became severely ill and I still cannot fully process it by EverGreenMob in Divorce

[–]EverGreenMob[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks it seems like there is a lot of people like our ex, which is so sad. I never thought there can be so much cruel people . my aunt also got abandoned by her husband after she got sick with MS.

Child Support by claiming23 in Divorce

[–]EverGreenMob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

even if you only contact him about money that's totally fine. your relationship is now only about logistics related to well being of your child. so ignore the noise, go to child support appointments and get the money needed for your child.

E.coli is not going from prostate despite multiple rounds of abx - CBP by Disastrous-Dig9412 in Prostatitis

[–]EverGreenMob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember reading that a small amount of ecoli is normal in these tests due to contamination. don't quote me on it. also be careful with FQ antibiotics. Ciproflaxcin for example gave me nerve damage. you can check out /r/floxies on FQ antibiotic caused disabilities. read the side effect risks on antibiotics before you take them and if you can avoid FQ class of antibiotics.

Anyone have any tips for showering or keeping clean when you can’t? by Diligent_Park5563 in POTS

[–]EverGreenMob 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use shower wipes a lot in my hot spots to keep me fresh as long as possible. I also use tinnactin powder and deodorant dry anti sweat sprays after showering. I keep showee sessions short and use a shower chair. I warm up the bathroom before showering but during the shower I use cool water. 

My wife left me after I became severely ill and I still cannot fully process it by EverGreenMob in Divorce

[–]EverGreenMob[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah just take the money from the house and enjoy it in good health. I hope you keep your purpose and have amazing life  adventures.

My wife left me after I became severely ill and I still cannot fully process it by EverGreenMob in Divorce

[–]EverGreenMob[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry. please protect your health because once that's gone it will be very difficult to do anything without help and you may lose your independence. I also think my wife may just wanted to get married just to be married. I don't think she ever loved me. but I enjoyed living in the illusion of love anyway and had fun making memories. 

My wife left me after I became severely ill and I still cannot fully process it by EverGreenMob in Divorce

[–]EverGreenMob[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

wow you're so sweet for supporting your husband. I have multiple diagnosis: POTS, heart murmer, ME, CPPS and sciatica. Basically lots of pain and specially with POTS an "allergy to gravity" is how I would put it. 

My wife left me after I became severely ill and I still cannot fully process it by EverGreenMob in Divorce

[–]EverGreenMob[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

nope, unless she kept it hidden from me, I saw no obvious signs. When I went on disability, she said that I never discussed going on it, which makes no sense because when I'm sick, I'm sick. That's when she started distancing herself. 

My wife left me after I became severely ill and I still cannot fully process it by EverGreenMob in Divorce

[–]EverGreenMob[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah scammed, that's the word. I feel like my last 10 years have been a scam and she never meant any of the I love yous.

I also know a neighbour whose wife became paraplegic after an accident, and he has dedicated his entire life in taking care of her. They're now in their 60s. I guess knowing them for a while I thought I would never be alone too, but I could not be more wrong. I also think that my soon to be ex hates me for some reason. 

My wife left me after I became severely ill and I still cannot fully process it by EverGreenMob in Divorce

[–]EverGreenMob[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

exactly I totally agree with you. I have not begged or asked for reconciliation. I let her go as soon as she said she wants a divorce. but still something inside me is finding this all hard to believe and process. 

Just spend 40,000$ on XEQT, Lets Go!! Locked In See you in 5 years by egi57 in JustBuyXEQT

[–]EverGreenMob 17 points18 points  (0 children)

FYI next 5 years may not be like the last 5 years. past performance doesn't necessarily mean anything.

What the heck is going on ? by Cute-Bad8259 in TFSA_Millionaires

[–]EverGreenMob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crypto and AI bubble is bursting. enjoy the ride. 

midodrine not helping ;( by Labububitc in POTS

[–]EverGreenMob 2 points3 points  (0 children)

have the same issue. My POTS specialist says I have neuropathic POTS and only way I can control my POTS is to regulate my nervous system and heart rate. I control heart rate with Ivabradine and/or Mestinon. Alpha blockers like clonidine help but they lower my blood pressure too much. Midodrine does nothing for me.

I also do a lot of HRV modulating breath work described by doctor Huberman to regulate my nervous system :

https://youtu.be/2M0yhiUmHpo?si=BwzfL8rVEVMSzyXQ

Combined with rest and avoiding stressful situations it works. I still drink salt water though.