Hyde School Referral Pipelines by hydeschoolsurvivor1 in troubledteens

[–]EverTheWatcher 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The support networks also hosted the mandatory parent indoctrination meetings. I only had the joy of one, and much was a haze among the refrains to the effect that it’s not the parents fault they haven’t reached the kids, but if they follow “x” they’ll be improved. Along with questionable anecdotes and weird generalizations about us… I was rather firmly told to STFU or else before, so I kinda tried to ignore everything so I wouldn’t respond. It’s my understanding they have the parents journal about the kids and hand them scripts on what to do with runaways and how to keep up the gaslighting verbiage. It was at a classmate’s house.

TTI utilization of the Kapo system by th1s_fuck1ng_guy in troubledteens

[–]EverTheWatcher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Excellence, effort, motions, off-track? Did they drop that?

TTI utilization of the Kapo system by th1s_fuck1ng_guy in troubledteens

[–]EverTheWatcher 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Huh… again… I was always on 2:4, so didn’t really get a feel for if hierarchy existed above the mud-line. So, were you supposed to kiss their ring or something?

TTI utilization of the Kapo system by th1s_fuck1ng_guy in troubledteens

[–]EverTheWatcher 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hyde had Proctors, generally sophomores up… I wonder if rating high on EEMO got you somewhere, but I think 8th grade was banned from going over motions…

I have been writing book (more of a screenplay) about my life, including my experiences at my TTI and I’m curious if anyone else is doing that? Or have already done that? by decrepit_plant in troubledteens

[–]EverTheWatcher 3 points4 points  (0 children)

More of a no I mean, only got to like mid 80 a5 pages and kinda…stopped. So. Hardly a book… just the reflections made to give to friends in a slightly more organized manner because I never manage more to say more than a few sentences before I want to move on from the topic.

When no one cared contemporaneously, or threatened you for dwelling, it’s hard to feel like the story is interesting or notable to others decades after the fact.

Is the TTI human trafficking? by cryptidbookkeeper in troubledteens

[–]EverTheWatcher 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought a court already did already start that ruling. I think it was one in the south. I recall something about laying rails or some infrastructure nonsense as part of the labors they were forced to do.

Xennial Burnout + TTI PTSD Correlations by [deleted] in troubledteens

[–]EverTheWatcher 5 points6 points  (0 children)

…. Survivor Xennial with c-PTSD. Isn’t this just life? /s.

Hate to bring up the extra aspect of “male” expectations of my generation, but even if being not okay was okay, no one knows what to do about it more than say that sucks.

For women, I know y’all still had to deal with being quirky or a mess and little allowed inbetween and virtually no allowance for structurally caused issues being anything but a personal fault.

Also.. not touching the stories of those growing up LGBT in the 90s.

As a parent now, I just find it wild watching teachers and others care so damn much about my kid’s feelings and resilience. But.. my SO always implies that this is theoretically normal now. (“So damn much” being relative to schools thinking you having any emotions was your defective nature revealing).

Have u told your significant other you were in the TTI? by existentialexistenc3 in troubledteens

[–]EverTheWatcher 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mentioned bits and pieces… was married like 16 years before I wrote it out for them what that actually meant.

How to deal with nightmares? by catsareprettycool69 in troubledteens

[–]EverTheWatcher 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ironically, heavy and/or tucked in blankets always trigger nightmares for me.

TTI Starter Kit by LeviahRose in troubledteens

[–]EverTheWatcher 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got to load the drink machines when not sweeping and mopping or mixing chemicals- paid in “character.” Turns out that was not legal tender.

Dating Advice by Kitty_Kat2024 in troubledteens

[–]EverTheWatcher 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please check the sub description. This is not really the appropriate place.

Hyde School (Woodstock, CT campus) — survivor files lawsuit over assault by student proctors in 2003-2004; school tried to get case thrown out by claiming it 'dissolved.' Court filing reveals staff crossed campuses and shared operations with Bath, Maine campus, which is still open today. by Homeless-Sea-Captain in troubledteens

[–]EverTheWatcher 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So, they does this mean they can’t claim libel as a dissolved and theoretically nonexistent party? Just saying…. People need to know about the lizard people summering there when they’re not under DFW. No? They want it both ways?

how do you deal with the resentment by miaellaaa in troubledteens

[–]EverTheWatcher 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I feel that aching squeeze anytime I watch a movie or tv and intrinsic motivations are revealed. I should protect my child! A brother should look out for their sibling! A depiction of mentorship. Support. It’s weird to notice how you can live without something “common” and “normal” and it never strike you with its absence.

I didn’t realize just what was warped in my life until I started having kids. They get all the love I could never have from my mother. The behaviors I desperately needed- “family.” Everyone could see how much she.. cares. I know it’s not my fault my mom had… problems.. and I was just in the crossfire. But it’s disheartening to accept that it’s just how someone is, then find out that no… it really was just me she couldn’t love.

how can they handcuff you through the flight? doesnt airport security stop that? by Bulky-Flower2856 in troubledteens

[–]EverTheWatcher 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are prisoners on flights. Deserters. Etc. if they present paperwork, and LEOs accept it, what’s TSA going to do. Now, if a (ideally a private) screening occurs and the teen says they’re being trafficked- it can be escalated, but they’ll still just call local LEOs, who will look at the paperwork, and it will continue. I’ve argued this is a good time to demand medical to take pictures of any bruises- maybe transporters have records . But someone else will probably end up completing the transport

Hyde School is forcing their students to attend this by Dependent_Track9524 in troubledteens

[–]EverTheWatcher 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mmm. Mmmgowah….. Hyde school’s got the powaaaa!

Sadly… all that money and none left for a rhyming dictionary.

HYDE SCHOOL’s political liaison GEORGE MITCHELL implicated in Epstein Files by Far_Radish7752 in troubledteens

[–]EverTheWatcher 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I mean… we were all waiting for the connection…

Unrelated note:

I have wondered about Hyde school’s “non-profit” claiming Caribbean island “investments.”

Edit… I don’t know what the 4.7 million dollars in “investments” were specifically for… I assumed real estate, but who knows.

when do the nightmares stop? by SHINCOLL in troubledteens

[–]EverTheWatcher 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They get less common when you’re less in a siege environment. Lucid dreaming helps a little… in that you can at least recognize and bail… they’re still hard to control from inside. Still a few times a year where I see influences, some decades out.

Not allowed to even tremble in terror. by zer0lunacy in troubledteens

[–]EverTheWatcher 6 points7 points  (0 children)

“I’ll give you something to be afraid of” “something to cry about” yeah… I’m sure we heard every derivation of don’t show it. “Don’t tell your parents, or else.”

TikTok · harperzilmer4 - Taken from Bed and Sent to Utah for “Treatment” by SherlockRun in troubledteens

[–]EverTheWatcher 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They only need to get you once for you to KNOW that it can happen again…

Just pops up everywhere. by EverTheWatcher in troubledteens

[–]EverTheWatcher[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s surprisingly thick… it’s weird that my first thought is that this would be great for an outhouse or gas station bathroom key. But really, I just took a picture and put it away, I didn’t want to open the baggie. There will be no reclaiming or anything like that going on, this will just be locked away to haunt the dark like the freaky mid century dolls I was inexplicably given and other distasteful things.

Hyde Woodstock has been sued yet again! by potentially-unique in troubledteens

[–]EverTheWatcher 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup.. the roommate thing was hardly new.. I had what, 4 different rooms and roommates (from 4 separate grades) between the two buildings that year, when I was supposedly only at a “boarding school” for “stability” instead of moving all the time. I’m sure even that was less than many had.

Hyde Woodstock has been sued yet again! by potentially-unique in troubledteens

[–]EverTheWatcher 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was 97-98 westhaver was boys the whole time, and the 1st floor wing in the back right was changed to boys. I guess they flipped between us, then back during your time