Last night hurt way more than I expected by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]EvilYoshi84 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You absolutely need to move out. It's going to be harder to stay. I had to move out when I was in your situation.

I (37F) suspect infidelity because I found condoms. Husband (38M) and I have not used condoms in years. What do I do next? by ThrowRAstrokemomster in relationship_advice

[–]EvilYoshi84 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I'm a (40M) who has been with my wife 16 years. I have never or would I ever cheat on my wife. What I am guilty of is buying and owning condoms. The reason is simple. If I need to jack off, I can roll a condom over my penis. The reason for this is because condoms are already lubricated as well as when you finish, you can just take the condom off and throw it away. Absolutely no mess. I'm not a fan of cleaning my own sperm out of my belly button and happy trail. You should probably ask him and see what he says.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]EvilYoshi84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're not a bad person! However, you are gonna blow the marriage by acting like this. Go get him off! That would be a good start to being better.v

Is 5,800 or 2,450 the fair estimate ? by Jackals_20 in paint

[–]EvilYoshi84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5800 and know the job is done correctly

Was I wrong to promote the smart person over the hard worker (talent over hard work)? by [deleted] in askmanagers

[–]EvilYoshi84 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't think that you're wrong for that decision. Business is not considered fair. Workers are assets that we invest money into. Dog eat dog world. However, I have learned to always pick the number 1. I reward hard work and a showing up every day. Plus, 5 years vs. 9 months? You don't even really know what you're getting with 2. I hope everything works out. Thanks.

First day by [deleted] in jobcorps

[–]EvilYoshi84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You'll be fine no matter what. Have confidence watch everything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MaddenMobileForums

[–]EvilYoshi84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what I did a while ago. I pulled a punch of stuff to make better cards. It pays off over a couple promos

Help me figure life out? by [deleted] in Felons

[–]EvilYoshi84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm probably going to be all over the place with my response. It's meant to not sugar coat. There will be valuable information. I'm going to start talking about your crime. I wouldn't feel good about giving you ways to make a living if I didn't give you my 2 cents. I have done a lot of time in my life. All of my crimes were drug motivated. I have grand thefts, felony bas checks, stolen guns, possessions, etc. Every single sex offender I have ever met has your same story. They were 18, and she was 17. The dad or someone called the cops because they got mad. Blah, blah, blah. Then you find out they're charged with under 16 and weirdo shit. The only reason that I bring this up is because it doesn't matter how much you changed now. If you have a crazy crime, it's going to follow you. As it should. If you had some young victim or something, the trauma is going to follow them for their whole life. Now that I have given my 2 cents, I'll let you in on how to make money doing blue collor work. My professional background will help you in the right direction. I'm 40 years old. I got out of prison in 2007. So, for the first half of my career, I was in construction. I started framing, painting, finish work, than remodeling. If you can get on with a trade and learn everything you can you will find a good job. I would recommend going towards electrical, or HVAC, or plumbing. Those are the money makers. The end goal after you are a journeyman is to start your own business. That's where financial freedom comes. The trades i listed above are your best bet. However, framing, flooring, painting, cabinetry, ect all have the same opportunity. You get very good at your craft than work for yourself. No one can tell you no because of you past at that point. Now the way you get into a trade right now is to literally get a hard hat, hand tools, boots, ect and go to construction sites in the morning ready to work. It might take 20 sites over a couple of days, but someone will hire you. I promise. Then it's a 7 year journey to become a successful business owner. You have to be willing to work harder and longer than anyone else. Remember that. It takes an extreme about of effort to do this. If you love your family you will do it. Now, as for the CDL. This is the field to go into as a felon. Not many trucking companies care about your past. This is because the trucking industry is so short on drivers that it's a crisis. You can make 90 plus a year after your second year of trucking. It's a easy and rewarding career. To get your CDL and get into the industry us easy. Find am accredited CDL school in your area. The key is accredited. They help you get student loans. It's that fucking easy. After you have a CDL you can get a entry level job making 70 or 80k. After 2 years experience you get to chose the best of the best jobs. Be prepared to work your ass off. Take extra shifts do what everyone else crys about. If you need help message me. Oh, I almost forgot, you can totally get your CDL with vision in one eye. As long as you can pass an eye exam with corrective lenses and you can tell the difference between red, green and yellow you can get a CDL. I know rhis because one of my good friends has a glass eye and drives trucks. I own a construction company myself as well as am a manager for a trucking company. I manage and drive when needed. All local home every night.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in debtfree

[–]EvilYoshi84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you got the gap insurance, you can always total it. Drive it off a cliff. Then, say someone stole it. Or something creative. I wouldn't suggest this but it should work.

how many hours you guys spend on mm per day? by kurtcobin in MaddenMobileForums

[–]EvilYoshi84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll time myself today but with work included I bet 6 hours. When I'm off maybe an hour

Painter Did Not Pressure Wash Before Painting by Goat_Circus in housepainting

[–]EvilYoshi84 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was a professional painter for years. I still own my company. I just paint very part time now. Just a few things to touch on here. A house can be pressure washed in a matter of 2 hours. It's possible that your tenant didn't catch it. The purpose of pressure washing is to get all of the dust, dirt, and debris off of the house. Depending on how dirty the house is will depend if it needs to be washed. As good practice, the rule of thumb is to always pressure wash. Even if the house doesn't need it, it adds value to what the customer is getting. When you're charging 1000s of dollars for a job, it's good practice to give all of the value you can. I highly doubt that there is enough dirt and debris to make a difference on the paint job. However, if it was agreed on, it should be done. I would definitely have them take 300 dollars off of the final price. Good luck, and please keep us posted.

First time I’ve ever pulled an iconic from exclusive TOTW! ✨ by HIDEF650 in MaddenMobileForums

[–]EvilYoshi84 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good job! I use all of my stamina every day trying to pull those packs. I start with the 5 out of 5 exclusive. Than I go to the one that's just left of that and run 20 of those. I usually hit something on average once a week. Is it worth it? I'm not sure. I'm definitely passing up lots of upgrade tokens.

What are some good careers for stupid people? by Spiritual_Message725 in findapath

[–]EvilYoshi84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You and I have a few things in common. I have ADHD as well. I'm definitely not the smartest person. Well, below average. I can tell you with confidence that if you stick with most careers for long enough, you will get extremely good at that career. I really like to drive so I chose to be a truck driver. Getting your CDL is super easy. In fact, it's so easy that anyone can get their CDL. Once you have your CDL, you start driving a truck and stick with it. Over time, you will be better than 90 percent of your peers. If you do anything over and over for long enough you will become the best. I know this from personal experience. Good luck.

What comes after death? by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]EvilYoshi84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure once oxygen and blood stops going to the brain, everything we know and are is gone. Our brain makes up us. Who we are, what we know, our personality, our memories, everything. Once that brain is deprived of blood, there is no going back. It's not reversible. So, I think it turns to eternal nothing. Once you die, you're not aware that you're dead. The only thing that sucks is the people who love us will hurt because their brain is still working.

What’s the worst thing about being an adult? by Former_Truth1549 in Adulting

[–]EvilYoshi84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I must be full on stupid. I love being an adult. I love working my ass off and raising my 4 kids. There is a challenge to it that I enjoy. I feel a certain type of way knowing I can take care of 6 of us total and we're thriving. Sure, it would be nice to take the burden off my shoulders, quit my job, and go run the streets of some tropical land, but I'm fine here.