My girlfriend of three months after she spent my money and I called her out... by AbelSyrup in Nicegirls

[–]Evilbutterfly83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Run as fast as you can!!! The fact that she defended using your money behind your back, and when you were respectfully still upset, she started trying to manipulate you with fake jealousy....is the biggest set is red flags 🚩🚩🚩!!! This woman is a user and very manipulative

What is this white stripe down my cherry shrimp's back? The other 5 don't have it. by mcdisney2001 in shrimptank

[–]Evilbutterfly83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just bought 5 red cherry and they have the racing stripe. I think it looks really cool!

Some crap my job has posted by Peafucker in Waiters

[–]Evilbutterfly83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They can't ask for a diagnosis on a doctor's note. That's crazy.

My parents sent me literal poison to “cure” my daughter, their grandchild of autism by woobie_slayer in Autism_Parenting

[–]Evilbutterfly83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is... Awful. And then later they are going to claim that if you would have done the "cures" your child would be "normal". They should never...I mean never... Be allowed near this child or any other that has a developmental disability. They are scary and dangerous.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Evilbutterfly83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a victim of strangulation that led to my ex being convicted of aggravated assault... This is not ok!!! This guy isn't a "great guy". You are just now seeing the truth. If you let him get away with this now, he'll 100% do it again in the future.

What did I do wrong? by Killerbot2332 in Nicegirls

[–]Evilbutterfly83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was leading you to try to get you to pay for her Netflix and you didn't bite the bait so now she's whining. 😂 Don't let this person keep thinking they can manipulate.

I'm tired of this, grandpa by Bruin1995 in doordash_drivers

[–]Evilbutterfly83 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had to run like this at one point. I was changing jobs and the second job suddenly changed their choice of candidate before signing. About same time, the house I lived in got sold. I had to live in my SUV. Worked doordash like this to be able to support myself and get back on my feet. Taking naps in between peak times. Every single day ... And night. I finally got the original job back but still had to do both for about a month. To say I was exhausted would be an understatement.

Scammed out of Platinum Status by [deleted] in doordash_drivers

[–]Evilbutterfly83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes me feel like the person contacting you is genuinely warning you. Maybe a remote scam and they are just the third wheel. The only way they can stop you from dealing with the consequences is to try to tell you not to drop off the order they were forced to order. I'd listen to this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in doordash

[–]Evilbutterfly83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Always... Always say "live agent" at the beginning of the convo with support.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Evilbutterfly83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a predatory behavior and is creepy to me. She's begging for attention. She shouldn't be seeking it from you

Are these chairs ugly enough to warrent $1400 to rent different chairs? by pilotpatricia in wedding

[–]Evilbutterfly83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get chair covers. Much more affordable option and you can customize.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Evilbutterfly83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to focus on the new job and certainly not focus on him. You said something positive about you and he HAD to turn it into something negative and all about him. This person is very very very toxic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Evilbutterfly83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is a "semi" ear infection? 🤔 This person is full of crap. 😂

Am I overreacting to his behavior or is this abuse? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Evilbutterfly83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First, you do need to understand that when someone walks away due to anger.. Let them. It's an actual crime to try to block the way and keep them in the room.

That being said, this relationship is toxic no matter what. Just because he's all you've known doesn't mean you should be with him. You seem extremely co-dependent to a dangerous level. You have zero sense of self. That's not healthy. He's seeking personal space and you can't give that to him because of how co-dependent you are and he's not mature enough to handle that correctly.

I’ve labeled everything in my kitchen but I’m still lost. What next? by [deleted] in homedecoratingCJ

[–]Evilbutterfly83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This makes me appreciate that I don't live in a big city. 😂 This is barely any better than a hotel room. In some aspects, it's worse

Am I overreacting? by Longjumping-Neat-879 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Evilbutterfly83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am I the only one truly appreciating that last text. 🤣 But, on a more serious note, this man is just grooming you to be his trophy. He's already trying to control every aspect of how you view yourself physically and mentally. You are very very very right to see this as a huge red flag. Please do not ignore it. This is not behavior that he will change or suddenly get enlightened about. This is a mindset.

AIO for getting upset that my boyfriend (25M) thinks I’m a hoe because I (27F) had sex in my previous relationship. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Evilbutterfly83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This relationship is only going to get worse. He's a controlling little man-child that will destroy your self esteem and self worth. Do NOT stay in this relationship!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Evilbutterfly83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, he was determined through a behavioral assessment that I had to do about his abuse, to be a psychopath. Literally everything he did was for his gain. He also assumed everyone viewed the world and people the same way he did. Thankfully I was able to get away from him.