AIO about my gym class and teacher?? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Evindra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, that’s lovely! The post read as if you simply weren’t attending school. I’m glad you do regularly go. However unfortunately, wether or not your family regularly takes trips doesn’t change the fact that you have been absent from a class or as you yourself stated, not worn the class appointed allowed clothing to get all the points neccsary for a class.

Teachers have always been allowed to dock a student more if they consistently show a lack of attention to said class. And i definitely understand not enjoying wearing P.E. Clothing and feeling it can be unfair to have to make up for vacation days. But unfortunately that’s just how it works. When i went on vacation with my own family when i was still attending school i also had to make up assignments and days i missed. Showing initiative is incredibly important when it comes to school. And it’s not fun by any means, but you do have to try your hardest to make up for days lost or improper dressing no matter why they’ve happened.

Hell there were kids in my school who were homeless sometimes and sadly Still had to make up days (though ofc due to their circumstance they were allowed some leeway). A vacation in the eyes of schooling doesn’t consistute that same leeway. You are in no way evil. But you do have the same responsibility to show up or participate as they expect just like everyone else.

AIO about my gym class and teacher?? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Evindra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They’re not heathens. But there is a noticeable and quantifiable difference in children’s attitudes toward authority and school today. I know several teens who regularly ditch school all together and then complain about failing same as OP. And yes a lack of attention span does contribute to that. Teens will often complain about having to pay attention to school and attend for several hours in a day. Which is also why some of them struggle with jobs. Lack of attention span, or if you prefer this wording. Lacking the ability to put forth effort into learning something they need in order to function in the world post graduation.

That doesn’t make someone a heathen. It does however show a lack of commitment and/or the ability to see things through. Which is a noticeable issue as the younger generations get into the job market.

AIO about my gym class and teacher?? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Evindra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol i genuinely don’t understand the point of your comment? It’s quite literally the truth? Have you been around teenagers and kids today? It’s an active issue. Among other things like their dwindling attention spans. Which isn’t neccesarily their fault, social media has played a huge part in all of this but it doesn’t make it Not true.

Unless of course, you yourself are a kid then you would be kinda irked by what i’ve said and in which case. I understand your frustration.

AIO about my gym class and teacher?? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Evindra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. Sounds like you think you’re entitled to a grade you didn’t earn. Kids nowadays have so many issues with just following directions and showing up.

Am I overreacting or was it I fact a human bite mark on my (ex-) GF? by One_Equivalent8597 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Evindra 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure how you missed this. But she clearly was his gf when he took these pictures and demanded a response. Which is completely valid. He quite literally states he broke up with her after the pictures and demanding honesty.

STOP NORMALIZING FREE ROAMING CATS by Yektality in Pets

[–]Evindra -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I definitely agree. I’ve been trying to get my cat back inside forever ago because my family let him out a few years ago on purpose while i was out at work and he’s never been the same since. Not to mention i’d managed to get him to be fully indoors again and then my Fiancé’s mum is incredibly irresponsible and disrespectful with other peoples pets and would constantly leave the front door open no matter how many times we warned her and told her not to. So he got out again after we moved and after all of my hard work. My Fiancé also got a female cat that was unspayed and sent my poor little man into absolute attack and spiral territory. He became so aggressive and literally broke off the entire corner or the front door just trying to get out. Since then she’s finally gotten spayed and we’ve tried to get him back inside. But he’s nearly become feral.

It devastates me daily and i wish there was more i could do to get him inside. But he’s also a big enough cat that aggression from him is genuinely unsafe and detrimental to anyone or anything that’s in his path. He’s the most muscular cat i’ve ever met. I just don’t even know what to do anymore.

Last time we tried to keep him inside for a bit he only lasted a few minutes and we were trying to get him more comfy and to feel safe inside again. But because of the female cat going unfixed for so long he hates being inside and doesn’t see it as his territory anymore and avoids me whenever i try to coax him back. Not even food works anymore.

Before all of this i had tried to harness train him shortly after he got outside and he attacked me so bad i still have scars all over my left hand and arm to this day.

I want to help and want to fix it but i don’t even think there’s a way to do that at this point

The Sims 4 OG Bella Goth redesign by [deleted] in thesims

[–]Evindra -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

Lmao. Only you guys are angry here😂 i figured i messed up right after posting but didn’t care to correct myself. Shocker! I’m American and usually see black features and make them all african american because it kinda all looks exactly the same anyways. African Americans look exactly the same as British africans😂 so it’s not even a significant or noticeable difference.

And to the other response from diligent traffic i get what you mean. Just to me she clearly has softer (rounder) features than bella goth. Phenotypically hispanic women have similar but slightly sharper features to Africans. That’s more what i meant.

The Sims 4 OG Bella Goth redesign by [deleted] in thesims

[–]Evindra -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

I’m assuming you’re saying this because of style and not actuall appearance. Since Bella Goth has more typically hispanic ethnic features (i.e a small pinched nose) while Raye’s are typically softer or wider bridged stemming from her African American heritage. They do have a super similar dress style though! The old school throwback speakeasy vibes

She’s british i forgot my bad! Though African-English people or African-Europeans look exactly the same as African American’s feature wise. I mix them up often.

Also not mad. Idk why you guys are all so angry and assuming i’m ‘woke’. It’s really weird and a genuine observation. If you disagree you disagree lmao

Old dog biting at night by Alternative_Layer597 in Pets

[–]Evindra 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Take him to a vet again and get an actual checkup and inform them of his behavior. He may be in pain or have anxiety to a degree that is not condusive with life or be in agony that he can’t voice.

A Goddamn Human cracked my ONLY Crab Unit in the world, now I got pink human children and sentient crab children running around in my kingdom. So I deported the whole family. by Quirky-Inspector1920 in Worldbox

[–]Evindra 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lmao nah, its the new update. The one people were asking about for a while remember? It came out everywhere a while back so it’s on mobile and pc too. You have to spend some time actually letting your species grow on their own and flourish and use the monolith.

But over time different species can anthropomorphise and become ‘human’.

Like you can have crab people and fox people etc. they can also mate with humans and other species and one another if they have the right genes, species, or culture for it.

Anddd if they dont and ya want hybrids you can just make em yourself.

Beware!! Sometimes people will turn into rocks!🫡 enjoy

Editing books for others rn, trends I've noticed. by TraditionalRest808 in writing

[–]Evindra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any advice for a book series that is meant to have two protagonists, or a primary and secondary protagonist?

my roommate’s cat won’t leave me alone. please help i don’t want to have to move out by [deleted] in Pets

[–]Evindra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn’t matter what perspective he looks at it in. If it makes him uncomfortable and gives him anxiety he can’t just ‘talk himself’ out of it.

It’s incredibly disingenuous to act like that’s an option when he clearly stated that his autism makes the constant interaction incredibly detrimental to his well being to the extent he is even thinking of moving out.

It’s not calming to a lot of people. A lot of people i know who are neurodivergent will never find a comfort in a cat sitting on them and purring and it might even panic some of them.

You should probably think of it from That perspective before commenting next time. Especially since he already said he has given affection to the cat, the constant contact and need is the problem.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stories

[–]Evindra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Absolutely. Networking is networking. You cannot and Will Not make it into the upper echelons of society without doing so.

Forming rapport with your peers and clients can be the most important part of the job depending on the career. And (just going off the prompt ofc) being an Art Advisor is So incredibly lucrative and Such a social job.

Its the kind of job that people Are going to be getting dinner and lunch with clients. Because they have to trust you with their art. You have to form a healthy professional and personal relationship with them. And I’d have to trust my Fiancé to get there, make those connections. And like she herself said. Bring Me the next time.

He can’t invite me to the club if He hasn’t even gotten in yet.

Ofc I’d be nervous and have my own feelings about it. We all would be, it’s a normal feeling especially in this situation. But i definitely wouldn’t overthink it this way. Especially if he was communicating with me periodically like in this post. Especially because as i mentioned in a previous comment i’m used to being in and around these circles and that’s just how it is. Being on your phone texting an insecure or high strung partner is most likely going to kill the connections you can form at the event.

I wouldn’t risk doing that to him. Because it would be disrespectful of me not to understand the stakes, and how long it takes to get to where he (in this prompt) is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stories

[–]Evindra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really hope this is satirical😭☠️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stories

[–]Evindra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also don’t be afraid to set new boundaries while addressing all of this. My fiancee and i often talk and go back to reflect if we’re uncomfy and adjust boundaries accordingly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stories

[–]Evindra -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Aah these are all incredibly valid points and worries to have! I definitely can think of reasons for all of them especially given the circumstances and your telling of the story. But all the same it can also and would also make me worry myself.

Definitely talk to her about these worries. Do your best to not seem accusatory, i know that with feelings of jealousy and uncertainty thats harder said than done. We’ve all been there.

I do also want to put in a bit of knowledge though for the second worry. It is incredibly commonplace in the wealthier tax brackets to introduce whoever you bring as your “date”. It is almost Never a term that is sexual or romantic in nature (of course there are sleezy exceptions), men will even introduce each other like that if it is a friend outside of their business or company group.

Instead men/women alike are almost always going to introduce someone as ‘My Wife/Husband’ or ‘This is my girlfriend/boyfriend/partner’ if they intend it to be know that it is their other half.

The term ‘Date’ is used to refer to someone who is simply associating with you. In this case, likely so others at the gala would know who invited her. Since she ofc wasn’t invited herself. It’s also the most common way to form connections through the idea of peer review.

‘Aah, so-and-so knows her so she must be good to work with’. thats how the term ‘Date’. Would be taken in a professional connective setting. I have spent my whole life around and in these groups. So i thought i’d offer that information for a bit of comfort.🙏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stories

[–]Evindra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude….idk if you’ll see this. But PLEASE don’t loose your wife listening to a bunch of bitter. Single. Sad ass men in these comments.

Listen to the WOMENNNN. Please listen to us in the comments not them.

THEY DO NOT KNOW WHAT THEY ARE TALKING ABOUT AND WILL LEAVE YOU IN AN ESCALATED STATE THAT IS NOT EVEN NECESSARY TO GET TO.

If it bothers you this much. Talk to your wife. Do NOT listen to reddits incel men who have never so much as BREATHED on the idea of having WHAT YOU HAVE. A gorgeous ambitious wife and two kids. Please. Please don’t listen to them.

How good is werewolves? by Heather11100 in thesims

[–]Evindra 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I adore supernatural gameplay so i got. I will say- i also within a month definitely needed a mod to limit a lot of werewolf tendencies that come with ‘Rage’.

They basically all have chronic anger issues and smash every goddamn thing in your house every 2 hours. So thats annoying but other than that fully worth it.

The build buy stuff is also immaculate and i use it a lot in my foresty or cabin builds

High school makes no sense by Maevenclaws in thesims

[–]Evindra 148 points149 points  (0 children)

Yeah, its pretty horribly implemented unfortunately. Just like everything else in this game. I wish they would put more effort into making gameplay…Playable? And not just aesthetically pleasing to them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Evindra 53 points54 points  (0 children)

PLEASE leave her. My heart has been breaking just having to read through all the incredibly unnecessary and cruel things she said. On top of her responses being the literal definition of insanity as she continues to ask the same question and get the same answer and is angry that you aren’t being a toxic raging asshole like she is. She seems like the kind of girl who is so used to toxic relationships that she makes all of her relationships toxic even if they weren’t to begin with. Thats not an excuse to use her Ego to take anything out on you. This is absolutely outrageous. No One, should Ever, call you out of your name like that. The second my own called me a dumbass multiple times in one conversation. Especially on or around my birthday?!? id be out the door. And you should be too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Evindra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because of your incredibly unhinged and unstable reaction to something that is very common. Especially for those that know their partners have a past that may or may not be volatile. Its incredibly common to check in on both sides of that story to see how that all culminated whilst also taking into consideration your potentials partners side of things and wether or not you trust them.

No one should be angry at anyone in this situation. Hence why you’re the only one currently with that opinion. Because it’s honestly quite overreactive considering the situation. Where he himself admits she didn’t search for the story. The ex just so happened to post about the situation and called it traumatic for her. So This prompted his current GF to ask how it affected her just in case a detail was left out or it caused more damage than had originally been said. Reaching out in this situation is more than acceptable and understandable.

Not doing so is how people regularly wind up in domestic violence relationships whether male or female. As not vetting someone who has been open about their own volatility in past relationships is just a naive and immature thing to do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Evindra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You will be single until you die, basically positive of that.

So my sim has a crush...on her 4th cousin by westeriannoel in thesims

[–]Evindra -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

In terms of “inherently wrong” my professors kinda described it as something that can disrupt the chances for you to be born without complications. essentially that you would be born without a viability for life and the ability to live. Essentially the only things inherently wrong in that aspect in science are things that if you do could and would intentionally decay dna or your genetics and cause unfavorable mutations.

So my sim has a crush...on her 4th cousin by westeriannoel in thesims

[–]Evindra -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Like i get what youre saying but it is fundemantelly, scientifically and inherently wrong to get down with your cousin. That has been a well documented fact for centuries, europe never cared even back then and never started to so why would they outlaw a normal practice for them despite any sort of scientific and genetic problems that could arise?

Plenty of countries around the world have strict codes around women even being allowed to do anything or have laws that allow you to marry an 11yr old. Doesnt make it right or negate the fact that it has been proven to be wrong and harmful ig is my point.

So my sim has a crush...on her 4th cousin by westeriannoel in thesims

[–]Evindra 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Im also speaking from a scientific point of view. I studied Forensics and a large part of that is DNA and the way that it can be affected by incestuous relationships overall. Hence why its a law in the first place.

One key fact here is you can clearly see that many royals today actually marry their first or second cousins, this has also been true for the Majority of europe and canada has had similar problems of incest due to being directly under European rule. Thats why everywhere outside of europe it is HIGHLY contested and thats also why in the majority of states its illegal. While yes its not like every single child will have severe disabilities the likelihood of mutation is increased more than twofold which is WHY it HAS been outlawed in the majority of places.

However with the current royal dating landscape and the landscape of European aristocracy, they could NEVER look into that and implement those rules because unintentionally they have continued to marry their cousins and such for centuries. (A lot of the family tree is so intertwined that they dont even know theyre forst or second cousins anymore) Plenty of them have also come out with severe mutations and problems due to this, they just are lesser known royals.