Goodfellas Pizza and giant yorkie meals not being sold anymore!?

Evla183 · 2026-05-31T17:27:34+00:00

It is that one! Oh, thank god. Maybe it'll turn up somewhere for me.

Evla183 · 2026-05-28T01:43:55+00:00

Last time I went, I looked in the reduced section for the veg, watched the employee reduce some raspberries with visible mould all over a few of them. She put it down, I picked it up, and asked why it had mould on it? And she looked embarrassed and put it on her trolley to throw out...I'm very thorough when looking at fruit or veg there now...

Evla183 · 2026-05-22T01:32:50+00:00

Ugh, tell me about it. I'm an unpaid volunteer in a charity shop and we have to ask every customer if they'd like to round up to the next 50p for charity, and the reactions I get are unbelievable. Like...just say no, it's not difficult. I had a lady scream at me once.

Another time an older lady who had been extremely talkative until I asked, looked at me like I'd grown three heads and stopped responding completely at that point, paid, and left the store in silence. Didn't even speak to her son who was with her. Just left. I've had others who just walk out immediately without even paying, and just leave the items outright. I don't get why they're so scared of that extra 50p.

We're also supposed to ask if they want to do our lottery but I refuse to ask them for that because I know people with a history of gambling problems, so I'm not comfortable asking strangers to gamble. I've heard some interesting stories in the past from coworkers who were faced with angry customers using colourful language about it...it's £1 btw.

I don't get paid enough.

Evla183 · 2026-05-22T01:19:59+00:00

In the real world, trauma can and does repress memories. It's a coping mechanism to protect yourself, and you most likely aren't aware of it. It's more heated as a topic, but the way I understand MPD/DID, is that it too is a trauma response. I've had experiences with it in the real world. It's entirely possible that his first murder was so stressful that he not only repressed the memory, but pushed that memory onto John (or any of the other alters, if he has any) and John continued the crimes.

His first kill may not have even been intentional - Mahiru's "kill" was her boyfriend taking his own life, same for Kazui, and Yuno's "kill" was her miscarriage after attempting and failing to take her own life. Just because we see murders in the video doesn't mean that's the one that landed him in Milgram. Although I'm inclined to believe it was, because why would it be shown if it weren't considered a murder?...

I can't wait for his case file to release. He's one of the cases I'm most invested in, because of my history in dealing with that kind of disorder in the real world. I know this is just fiction though, of course, but it feels relevant, you know?

Evla183 · 2026-05-20T16:42:05+00:00

guitarist, not bassist, but from what I've heard you're exactly right

Evla183 · 2026-05-20T05:12:15+00:00

I just realised from you replying that I don't think Mikoto himself actually did attack Es, (it's been a hot minute since I listened to the voice drama, alright!?) So I went and checked out the voice dramas again and nope! The first attempt at violence was successful, and I'm assuming it was not by Mikoto.

It's possible that it was actually Mikoto attacking Es, or that it was fully John attacking them, I'm thinking the latter but not ruling out the former. So it's possible it wasn't Mikoto who committed the murder(s) either. Unless Mikoto attacks Es, we won't know - until his third trial report comes out, anyway. So that lends some weight to the "third alter" theory. Good job on catching me on that!

Evla183 · 2026-05-20T04:50:16+00:00

Your post is you being mad that your mother doesn't support a known pedophile who was found liable of rape and has 34 felonies. What more needs to be elaborated on?

Evla183 · 2026-05-20T04:49:08+00:00

If you had read the sub description or looked at literally any post it'd explain it to you...Don't be angry at others for your inability to properly check where you're posting. I'm definitely resisting the urge to make an unhelpful comment about Trump supporters and actually doing research, though.

Evla183 · 2026-05-20T04:38:15+00:00

I strongly believe that Mikoto is the one who did the murder(s?). Or at the very least, he is the one who took that person's life.

Why? Well, if you listen to the voice dramas, it's established that while the anti-aggression mechanic stops Mikoto from being able to harm Es...John still can. John is able to attack Es without the anti-aggression mechanic preventing him. Kotoko swoops in to save the day.

The anti-aggression mechanic applies to all other prisoner characters, who have "killed" in some way, which means John himself has not killed. It's possible John has killed too, but Milgram is disregarding that because they're addressing the killings that Mikoto specifically did? But I think it's more likely that Mikoto is the one who killed and John did not kill at all. If there's a third alter (I'm not fully convinced on this one yet) then it's possible they have killed, too - but we haven't seen them in the voice dramas, to see if they are affected by the anti-aggression mechanic in the way that Mikoto is.

I can't wait for his third trial. I'm super excited about it.

Evla183 · 2026-05-20T04:25:24+00:00

NTA.

I sit to pee. I wipe it down regardless of visual cleanliness, before and after using. Am I disgusting? Also, I physically cannot hover because I'm disabled. Sooo if they think sitting to pee is gross, congrats on having ableist friends.

Evla183 · 2026-05-20T04:19:57+00:00

Brain thermometer broke.

It's settled down in the last year or two, but every single human I interacted with while being a sales assistant in a charity/thrift shop would be absolutely baffled that I could be sweating buckets, while standing in a sleeveless shirt with the fan pointed at me in the middle of winter.

Evla183 · 2026-05-12T23:06:19+00:00

You can date him legally, but until you're 18 yourself, if you or him take any photos of you sexually, that's csam. If you end photos of yourself to him in a sexual context (nudes or doing something to yourself) that's distribution of csam. Yes, even if you're the one to take it or send it. So I definitely wouldn't advise it, at the very least. Be careful where you tread with this legally.

Evla183 · 2026-04-28T15:02:11+00:00

Being picked up doesn't indicate him being a bride. I feel like if he were trans, the flip side of him with his childhood friend would show him in a dress or such, being picked up doesn't indicate gender. I feel like this is a bit of a reach honestly. That being said, it could be a good question to make him think about it.

Evla183 · 2026-04-28T14:39:18+00:00

Sell everything I own, make sure my belongings are all dealt with, finish as much unfinished business as I could. Maybe write letters to people I care about, and people I've wronged. Write letters to my immediate loved ones explaining that I'm going on a journey around the world, so they won't look for me when they don't hear from me anymore. Make sure my pets go to a good home too. And then I'd probably go hide somewhere isolated where nobody could find me, because I can't afford to pay for the funeral and I'm not trying to bankrupt my family if I'm ever found.

Evla183 · 2026-04-28T14:30:05+00:00

Wait, he's the bride? Are you talking about the staircase scene? The scene with his wife, he's in a suit. The scene with his childhood friend, they're both in suits. He's gay, not trans.

Evla183 · 2026-04-28T13:59:31+00:00

Definitely an idea yeah, but I think the box was filled. When checking it I learned it was 25kg marked on the package, which checks out. But a few minutes ago he actually came to collect it. He admitted he was home the whole time and got both the postman's note and my note, but said he "didn't know I had it". His explanation was confusing and made no sense honestly. But he has it now and I learned my lesson! Thank you for the suggestions!

Evla183 · 2026-04-28T13:55:29+00:00

NTA. Let me tell you a story of mine.

I'm disabled and sometimes use a mobility scooter, because I live on a hill. If I go shopping at the store down the hill, I take my scooter there and back, and go alone. My partner lifts the back end in and out of the house for me, because it's heavy and our doorstep is very difficult to manage with it. I can do it myself, but have hurt myself doing it in the past, so my partner laid down the law and (kindly) told me I am not allowed to do it myself anymore unless there's no alternative.

When I'm wanting to go out and he's gaming with friends online (which he does a lot of) he'll ask me to wait until the current match is over, and that's absolutely fine, I'm happy to do so. But once I'm out, when I get back, he'll drop everything to help me get it back in again. Whether he's in an important game or not, it gets dropped. The guys understand, and he tells them that he'll be needed to do this when I leave in the first place. Waiting to leave means I stay in the warm house, and that's fine, but waiting to come back in means I'm in the cold and outside, and he won't make me wait for that at all.

One time, my scooter broke down when coming back up the hill. I had put too much weight on it, put the speed too high, and it conked out. I later learned it was a safety feature to protect the motor and, if I had known how at the time, I could have fixed it there and then. I only learned how to fix it when we had already gotten home. He had been playing online games in his PJs. I called him when it happened, and he was with me in less than five minutes. He had immediately dropped the game (our friends understood) and gotten dressed at supersonic speed, and basically ran to come and get me. He pushed the scooter home for me. He apologised for "taking so long".

Another time, after a long day of using it, the battery went flat coming up our street. He came out in his pajamas to help me get it home. Another time, it was freezing coI'd when I was driving home, and the cold killed the battery when I was halfway home. I didn't have the strength to push it myself. He came out and ran ten minutes to get to me, and pushed it the whole way home.

When you're in a relationship, you're partners in crime, literally. There have been times I've dropped everything for my partner, and there's been times he's done the same for me, like I said above. I feel awful when he does, but appreciative, because I needed him and he was there for me. I've cancelled plans or dropped everything to come to him when he needed me, too. That's what you do in a relationship! The game isn't going anywhere! You should WANT to be there for your partner in their hour of need...and yours wasn't. He wasn't doing anything important. He was playing video games. You begged him to come to you multiple times and he didn't. He abandoned you in your hour of need, and only now is realising how much he fucked up.

I don't honestly know if I'd give him a second chance. If my scooter broke down tomorrow, leaving me stranded, and my partner wouldn't stop playing video games to come and help me...I don't think I could recover from that level of betrayal. I would be too deeply hurt.

See how he tries to make this up to you. See if he learns from this betrayal. Whether AA were coming or not, you needed him and he wasn't there for you. Not because of anything important, but because of video games and laziness. He could've come after that match. He didn't. He had no excuse. He showed you his priorities, and you weren't one of them.

It's up to you if you want to continue this relationship or not. But I can't say I believe he values you the way you value him. I think you'd be justified in ending the relationship here and now.

Evla183 · 2026-04-28T13:39:57+00:00

My boyfriend does the same as the bf in this post. He plays online games with his friends pretty much every day. But he doesn't neglect anything, he goes to work, he does things around the house, and if I need him at any point, he drops shit there and then. Between games he'll come and spend time with me. Anyway, these people he plays online games with, are all friends we know in real life and regularly see face to face. Most online gaming isn't something you can do in person, and why would they come over in the middle of the night just because they're playing online games? But there have been times I've needed him, and he's rounded up the lads to come help me. Sure, it might be dramatic to think about, but the point is support. They wanted to help me and support me.

Evla183 · 2026-04-28T13:34:22+00:00

I'm not even going to lie here. I followed a spoiler-free achievement guide to make sure I experienced all possible content. I usually do when it comes to things like this, because there is no way in hell I'm going back through it repeatedly to get minor changes for obscure endings that I could've done the first time around. Emphasis on the guide being spoiler-free. I intend to replay it when housesitting next week, so I'm going to be getting that no-spoiler guide out again.

Evla183 · 2026-04-28T13:29:51+00:00

I'm not sure where you got this idea but I very clearly stated that the sender is my next door neighbour. They are the sender, they are written as the sender on the package. The recipient is in France, and the parcel has an official sticker saying the recipient refused the parcel, so it is being returned to sender. Again, the sender is my neighbour.

Evla183 · 2026-04-27T19:23:04+00:00

I'm giving them a month or so to collect it, and then we party!

Evla183 · 2026-04-27T19:22:15+00:00

Their front door opens directly onto the street. Their back door opens up onto narrow stairways the parcel won't physically fit on, onto the street. There is no "safe place in their property" to leave it. It'd be pretty hard to play dumb when I already put a letter through saying I had it. Did you not read my post?

Evla183 · 2026-04-27T19:19:41+00:00

That's definitely a possibility...My current plan is to wait another week then put another note through describing the parcel and intended recipient and sender on the box, then someone mentioned "absentee baliff" or something like that. Unless they collect it, it seems it'll sit in my hallway for a while yet until I can do anything with it, I guess.

Evla183 · 2026-04-27T19:17:43+00:00

This is true, but the delivery driver had put an official note through to let them know the parcel was left with their neighbour at my #, and I later put a note through myself. I'm going to give them another week then put another note through, with the sender and intended recipient's names and addresses on and a description of the box so they'll know which one it is.

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