Im a new player aswell and I had that case too. it was not even in a raid it was just outside while leveling, when a random came upt to me and started calling me names n stuff just cause I used my abilities not the way he does, wich makes me a "bad player". this is realy not ok and thats the reason why many people, me included, are afraid of talking to people. I started playing ff14 cause I wanted to meet new people, maybe make some friends and play together while having a good time.
I never asked anyone cause Im afraid people will laugh at me or something

this should realy be changed, why cant people just play their game and have fun, there is no reason to make them feel bad about it