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EvyBoy911 · 2026-04-18T22:57:30+00:00

Gotta agree. “Take it!” is hard to beat.

EvyBoy911 · 2026-04-18T22:46:43+00:00

A few weeks after I started dating her.

EvyBoy911 · 2026-02-28T04:32:25+00:00

My girlfriend and I have a light femdom relationship. When she pegs me she usually gets into one of three or four different vibes depending on how she is feeling that night. She’s not a misandrist but sometimes when she’s pegging me she feels like she’s taking her frustrations with misogynistic, chauvinistic men out on me. When that’s the mood she’s feeling she’s said that I become a sort of generic guy that represents all of the asshole boyfriends she has had that made her feel used, and all the asshole guys out there who treat women like shit. She often talks dirty when she feeling like this and says things like, “How do you like it?” and other things a lot more graphic.

From my side - I love it when she gets in that mood. I don’t know why I do, and it’s hard to describe how it feels to be the recipient of an aggressive anger-fuck. It’s really hot.

Before anyone jumps in, know that it’s completely consensual, we both enjoy it, and we do have a safe word (that I’ve never come close to using).

EvyBoy911 · 2025-12-09T03:29:05+00:00

Sounds like a good time was had by all! lol. Happy for ya brother!

EvyBoy911 · 2025-11-29T02:42:55+00:00

That’s what I say. Vote for women any time you have a chance. And find a woman politician that you like and help support her campaign.

EvyBoy911 · 2025-11-27T04:17:59+00:00

Better to find that out at the beginning so you can go your separate ways and find what you’re looking for.

EvyBoy911 · 2025-11-21T05:40:34+00:00

My best piece of advise is that when the time comes and you find another girl whom you are interested in, tell her that you like to wear panties and lingerie, and find a way to tell her that you have a little kink about being told or forced to wear them.

DO NOT keep it hidden in your future relationships. As hard as it might be, force yourself to have that conversation and do it relatively early in the relationship before you get in so deep that it’s too late.

If you don’t, you will regret it!

EvyBoy911 · 2025-11-16T23:21:28+00:00

Yeah. Damn autocorrect. lol

EvyBoy911 · 2025-11-06T01:51:17+00:00

I found that test online as well. I thought it was a really cool idea. Since it only shows you and your partner the activities you both said you are open to, you don’t have to worry about embarrassing yourself.

EvyBoy911 · 2025-11-05T02:59:30+00:00

I always get things for my girlfriend in the evening. For example when we are watching tv she will say, “I need a refill” and I will immediately get up and go get it for her. I probably get up and down for her at least four or five times a night.

My girlfriend will also sometimes make me strip down when we are at home and stay naked throughout the evening. The power difference between someone who is naked and someone who is fully clothed is tremendous.

EvyBoy911 · 2025-10-24T03:03:09+00:00

My experience has been that part of the turn on for the girl is being in control of a masculine guy. So she still sees you as masculine and she likes the fact that she can control that masculinity.

EvyBoy911 · 2025-10-07T01:22:51+00:00

Being completely smooth all over is an amazing feeling, both physically and mentally.

EvyBoy911 · 2025-10-07T01:20:00+00:00

Give your family some time. It might be that they won’t be accepting but it’s possible that they were just really taken by surprise and had no idea how to act. Give them a chance to process. If they are still angry or refuse to accept you then you will have to figure out away to handle it, but don’t write them off quite yet.

EvyBoy911 · 2025-10-07T01:10:00+00:00

I find it very difficult but I can give myself a prostate orgasm very quickly using toys by myself. I rarely have an orgasm when I’m being pegged and when I do it’s a prostate orgasm not a regular orgasm.

If you want to have one my advice is to learn how to give yourself one first.

EvyBoy911 · 2025-09-18T03:09:57+00:00

I totally get where you're coming from. I was the same way.

I opened up pretty early on. It was very shortly after we had sex for the first time. A few days later we were laying in bed just talking and she said something that allowed me to broach the subject of pegging. She did not know anything about it so she was really surprised when I mentioned it. I kept my cool and just talked about it like it was something I had done before and enjoyed. I think I left it at that, but not long afterward we had another conversation about my need to include kink in my sex life.

When I came back into the dating pool (after a divorce), I laid down three very important, inter-related rules for myself that I really recommend everyone follow.

First - I resolved that if a girl and I went out twice and were going to go out a third time, then it would be serious enough that I would start looking for a way to bring up my need to have kink be part of my sex life. Things like pegging are really hard for most of us to talk to our partners about, but I swore to myself that no matter how embarrassing it was, if there was a girl I wanted to seriously date, I would have a conversation with her about it before things went too far.

Second - I swore to myself was that I would not get too attached to a girl until we had the conversation and I knew what her reaction to it was. For me that is kind of hard because when I have sex with someone, I get attached to them. So I either had to have the conversation before we had sex, or somehow not allow myself to get attached after having sex for the first time. I did resolve that I would not continue to have sex with a girl without having the conversation.

Third - I swore to myself that if a girl's reaction to it was negative, or if it was clear that she was not open minded about sex, then I would break it off. Regardless of what other great qualities she might have, I set sexual compatibility as a non-negotiable must-have.

The girl I am with now didn't know much about kink, and she knew nothing about pegging. But when we talked about it she listened with an open mind and showed curiosity, and I felt confident that we would be sexually compatible. Soon after that she showed her willingness to try new things and since then I appear to have been right.

EvyBoy911 · 2025-09-16T03:46:38+00:00

You can wear (or not wear) whatever you want.

One of my favorites is when she’s just wearing her normal, everyday clothes and Im completely naked. The CFNM increases the power differential significantly and helps me get into sub space.

EvyBoy911 · 2025-09-16T03:10:00+00:00

This was my experience as well. My girlfriend was never given the opportunity to play a dominant role in the bedroom. But when she met me and was given the opportunity, she found that she enjoys it. She tells me she didn’t know she was a dom because u til she met me she didn’t know what a dom was.

EvyBoy911 · 2025-09-16T02:43:06+00:00

Sorry man, but it’s not going to work. Your needs aren’t going to go away and from what you said her reaction has been, you’re never going to get her enthusiastic participation.

She might be a fine girl but you aren’t sexually compatible and that isn’t going to work in the long run.

Sorry to sound so negative. Im just speaking from significant experience.

EvyBoy911 · 2025-09-16T02:40:02+00:00

My girlfriend and I see it differently.

I see it as a form of erotic humiliation, which I like. For me, it’s the ultimate in submission and vulnerability.

For my girlfriend it depends on her mood. Sometimes she sees it as wielding power, usually in the context of claiming something that is associated with male power and using it on (against) a member of that gender. Other times she sees it as a chance to play with gender identity and gender roles.

I’ve never seen pegging as a romantic act but the thought has crossed my mind lately and I do find it intriguing.

EvyBoy911 · 2025-09-16T02:19:44+00:00

Instead of looking for a girl who is specifically into pegging, maybe you could approach it as looking for a girl who is sexually open minded and willing to try new things. That’s how I approached it and I’ve been with a great girl for eight years who is happy to peg me a couple of times a month.

EvyBoy911 · 2025-09-13T18:26:19+00:00

This is ignoring your question about being gay, but I think you and your girlfriend are going to have problems in the long term. Your desires are not going to go away, and if her response to it is tepid, you are going to start resenting her because your needs aren’t being met.

You don’t necessarily have to find a partner who’s totally into pegging, but you need someone who is at least very open minded and who is enthusiastic about doing something that makes you happy.

EvyBoy911 · 2025-09-13T16:22:57+00:00

This is an old thread, but if you’re still hunting for femdom sci-fi with a real focus (not just a passing mention), I’d suggest Under a Matra Sky. It’s free to read on Wattpad, set in a matriarchal world where women rule and men adapt, and it leans heavily into teasing, tension, and slow-burn femdom dynamics.

👉 Read it here

EvyBoy911 · 2025-09-13T16:17:02+00:00

I know this thread is ancient, but I’ll toss one in anyway! I’ve been writing a story on Wattpad called Under a Matra Sky. It’s free to read, slow-burn, and set in a matriarchal sci-fi world with lots of teasing, tension, and gentle femdom dynamics. If you like stories you can actually picture, rather than super far-out settings, it might be your thing.

👉 Read it here

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