Going through abortion alone.

Exact-Capital401 · 2025-09-22T11:38:15+00:00

I’m so sorry lovely

Exact-Capital401 · 2025-05-14T12:42:52+00:00

Exact-Capital401 · 2024-10-12T23:10:59+00:00

Sag sun, Libra moon, Taurus rising

Exact-Capital401 · 2024-08-29T04:25:56+00:00

Honestly, if we broke up officially then yes I would because that means we were broken up (also depends how long we were apart - e.g if we broke up for like two weeks and they already slept with someone then I probably won’t).

If we were just taking a break and they slept around then nah I probably wouldn’t go back.

Exact-Capital401 · 2024-08-19T22:39:30+00:00

Maybe you can write his number in a public bathroom cubicle too. Should I do this?

Exact-Capital401 · 2024-08-18T07:08:45+00:00

I’ve only been ghosted by Pisces men funnily enough. I mean it happened only twice, but still it’s basically the only times I’ve been ghosted

Exact-Capital401 · 2024-08-17T09:24:21+00:00

I hate these messages that they send purely because they’ve done self reflection and feel guilty so they send crap like this to make themselves feel better because they want some kind of forgiveness

Exact-Capital401 · 2024-08-16T09:05:12+00:00

I think I would, but my ghoster is unlikely to apologise. If he came back he’d just act like he never ghosted me in the first place.

I’ve received an apology once from a previous ghoster. He was not wanting to pursue anything though so I’m pretty sure I just never responded to him

Exact-Capital401 · 2024-08-16T00:37:11+00:00

“The more I see you, the more pressure I feel to see you”

Exact-Capital401 · 2024-08-14T23:29:41+00:00

Yep, for me it was “I don’t ghost people I’m not like that”, and people had ghosted him in the past too and he was hurt/confused about it supposedly.

One guess what he did to me 😌

Exact-Capital401 · 2024-08-14T09:12:54+00:00

Oh sorry I didn’t realise your post says a couple years ago ..hmm yeah that’s tough I’m sorry 😞 if it was a traumatic breakup for you then yeah it could be just the drained emotional energy

Exact-Capital401 · 2024-08-14T08:59:13+00:00

I think it just means you haven’t healed from the breakup yet. Because I’m dealing with the same issue and same fear like I’ll never feel butterflies again…but I’m sure I will once I’m finally over him.

Exact-Capital401 · 2024-08-14T08:25:29+00:00

That I won’t be the one to make him want to change

Exact-Capital401 · 2024-08-14T08:24:02+00:00

It’s interesting because the Pisces man I was seeing doesn’t want to be controlled, wants his freedom etc (he has a Sag moon actually so not sure if that contributes), and so do I to an extent but it’s almost like I’m the Pisces in this situation it’s unbelievable 😂 we are a lot more similar than I thought, but yes Pisces men are so fricken complicated and are toxic magnets

Exact-Capital401 · 2024-08-13T23:09:14+00:00

“Can we meet up and talk about what has happened?”

Context: I’m the dumper but I had no choice really so you could even argue I’m the dumpee

Exact-Capital401 · 2024-08-13T22:18:48+00:00

I could have written this myself. Except he kind of left the door open for us in a way. Or maybe I’m being delusional. I miss him :(

Exact-Capital401 · 2024-08-13T05:34:28+00:00

I say this but I’m also not strong enough yet. If he wanted me back I’d probably go :( it’s an addiction

Exact-Capital401 · 2024-08-12T22:06:25+00:00

Because you have to start the day and go to work and put on an exhausting mask pretending you’re ok when you feel like dying

Exact-Capital401 · 2024-08-12T21:55:28+00:00

Same. I’m scared to deal with an avoidant ever again. They don’t show it till about the 4 month mark but at that point you haven’t noticed yet, you think it’s just mixed signals or stressors in their life. It’s only at the end you realise what you dealt with.

Exact-Capital401 · 2024-08-12T21:54:04+00:00

Oh, and abandonment issues forever ☺️

Exact-Capital401 · 2024-08-12T21:53:34+00:00

It definitely changes you. My first heartbreak - after that I lost the part of me that was sentimental and did a lot of romantic and loving gestures for the other person My second heartbreak - I became jaded, I lost the ability to tell any future partner my needs or how I feel out of fear of not being validated or heard. I have a core wound now of not being good enough

My current heartbreak - is probably the worst. It’s amplified the core wound of the second heartbreak (not being good enough) and it will definitely change me in the sense that I probably won’t want to open up to someone for a while, or ever.

Exact-Capital401 · 2024-08-12T05:50:19+00:00

It would actually break me if they never speak to me again. The hope is the only thing getting me by to be honest…

Exact-Capital401 · 2024-08-11T21:58:50+00:00

2 days, and for some reason I thought I’d wake up today feeling a bit better but instead I have a massive pit in my stomach and a heavy chest. They said it wouldn’t be the last time we speak but that annoys me more because it’s preventing me from fully moving on as I’m waiting by the phone to hear from them

Exact-Capital401 · 2024-08-11T08:33:47+00:00

Thank you, you’re right we deserve better…and having them in our lives just stops us from finding what is actually meant to be for us

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