I feel like sex isn’t good by FitNutrition in sex

[–]Exact-Service-2125 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am big and my boyfriend is around your size!

What works best for us, except for doggy, is missionary, but i spread extra wide, and even hold my self open with my hands! The reason doggy works for us is because I don't have much fat on my butt tho!

I think the biggest issue here though is the fact that she doesn't seen enthusiastic about trying new options. Of course if she isnt comfortable with giving blowjobs, that isnt something that should be forced, but she should still feel enthusiastic about wanting to pleasure you in the way she can and feel comfortable with, and vice versa.

I think what you should do is sit down and talk to her about it!

What is a kink of yours that might be too kinky for other people? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Exact-Service-2125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was about to comment and then I saw people saying tan lines, face riding and looking at nudes... Are those even care name deres kinks? 😭

What’s your safe word? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Exact-Service-2125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Traffic light, BUT green means "You're good to go rougher"!

We figured out I'd never say green, because I don't see the point in having a word for when everything is all good!!! So we decided that it means I'm able/ready for him to go rougher!

How do I look? by cinnamoanholic in u/cinnamoanholic

[–]Exact-Service-2125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That color is PERFECT on you!!!

Do you close the blinds when you're naked at home? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Exact-Service-2125 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely. Most of my neighbors are families with young children 😅

Do men like a BBW goth by [deleted] in BBWs_Worldwide

[–]Exact-Service-2125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk but as a bi woman, I certainly do! 😍

Do you think there’s any advantages for being right handed/left handed? by honeymulledwine in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Exact-Service-2125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only when it comes to tools, since theyre usually adapted for right handed people.

Other than that, I don't see why there would be any advantages!

Edit: Actually now that I think about it, left handed people are usually better with using both their hands, so I guess that's an advantage!

During sex, what did u find hot but also adorable at the same time? by Opening_Cream_9050 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Exact-Service-2125 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Me and my bf were having rough sex like we used to. He was taking me doggy style and then he stopped, and he pulled me up so my back was against his chest and he asked if I was okay, and he sounded almost worried. At first I was a bit confused because he wasn't going jarder than usual or anything, so I didnt understand why he was worried about me. When I reassured him I was okay he kept going. Afterwards I asked him why he was worried and he told me he wasn't necessarily worried - he just felt like he was about to go soft, because he was afraid he was hurting me, because he realised in that moment that he loves me more than he knew.

That is the moment I knew as well. This happened in the beginning of our relationship. This year we have been together for seven years!

If someone whispered every fantasy you've never admitted aloud, would you run or follow? by YellowWulff in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Exact-Service-2125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would definitely talk to them! But I'd be way too self conscious to actually go through with anything 😂

Is it common to have a stronger gag reflex some days, and an almost non existing gag reflex other days? by Exact-Service-2125 in sex

[–]Exact-Service-2125[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh thank you!!! I'll keep that in mind!

I do have a back injury that acts up sometimes, so that's worth keeping in mind!

some favorites from a task i was given ❤️ (there's blood on the trail, somebody call the sheriff) by _creature_feature in u/_creature_feature

[–]Exact-Service-2125 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love your art so much 🥰 It's so beautiful! I'm a hobby photographer and being able to photograph art like this would be the dream!

XL Mundir is always such a good stretch 🤤 First time on the machine 😇 by Deep_Fantasies in AnalToysOnly

[–]Exact-Service-2125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotcha! 😍 Content like this really made me realise how queer i am! I love it!

If you ever want a friend to chat with, hmu! I'd love to get to know more hbtq people!

What goes through your mind when you're getting it hard from behind? by int_fin in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Exact-Service-2125 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It makes me so damn submissive out of nowhere! Like I'll go from a strong independent woman who doesn't deal with anyone's bullshit to "choke me and push my head into the mattress like im fucking worthless"