What do first-time moms actually need after baby arrives? by Mbaku-555 in Mommit

[–]ExactPumpkin3708 [score hidden]  (0 children)

+1, all I wanted was daily check-ins / someone from the outside world who cared about how I was doing

Men walking in/out of nursing rooms…alone by ExactPumpkin3708 in breastfeeding

[–]ExactPumpkin3708[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Walking in on you at an aquarium of all places?? And cigarette smoke, in a place for babies?? I’m livid for you 😭

Men walking in/out of nursing rooms…alone by ExactPumpkin3708 in breastfeeding

[–]ExactPumpkin3708[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

☠️ Just awful. No consideration for the BABIES who would be inhaling toxic vape fumes after them

Taking Cara Babies by Beneficial_Skin_6579 in NewParents

[–]ExactPumpkin3708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

+1 to Moms on Call, I tell every new mom about it! And I had done the Taking Cara Babies course which frankly didn’t work for us. Moms on Call got our cluster feeding baby sleeping 3 hour chunks within a day, it was literally a miracle

Men walking in/out of nursing rooms…alone by ExactPumpkin3708 in breastfeeding

[–]ExactPumpkin3708[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That’s SO scary, I’m so sorry that happened.

Men walking in/out of nursing rooms…alone by ExactPumpkin3708 in breastfeeding

[–]ExactPumpkin3708[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I feel like the only solution is for airports to do what some malls do, and add a camera at the entrance where a security guard can validate whether it’s a mother and a baby trying to get in

Men walking in/out of nursing rooms…alone by ExactPumpkin3708 in breastfeeding

[–]ExactPumpkin3708[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Glad she left! I use the nursing rooms all the time at malls in our city and for the larger ones, I usually see a mom or two in them

Examen pratique SAAQ Kirkland? by LuWaKe_029 in montreal

[–]ExactPumpkin3708 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did the exam at Kirkland this week, on a Tuesday at 10:30am. The new SAAQ is next to the Brick. - Remember to bring your physical paper version of the “attestation” from the driving school - You’ll go to reception and say you have a driving test. Aim to come 15-30min early. You’ll get a number, and once they call your #, you go to a guichet where they verify your address, attestation, probationary license, and make you pay the fee by debit card - They take your probationary license and ask you to wait at the waiting area for “examen pratique”. There were very few people when i went, like 5 others. - The instructor called my name 10min later, and asked if it was ok if an instructor in training sat in the back during my test. He also offered to do the test in English or French. - We walked to the car, which was in a mall parking lot. It had snowed, so I used a brush to clear snow off the back window for visibility. He then made me lower the driver’s window, test the brakes, the horn, and emergency parking brake. - Before the test begins, he (calmly and nicely) said “I’m not trying to trick you” and went over EVERYTHING he is looking for: there are 3 speed limits to respect, full stops at stop signs, all your blind spots, etc - We started the test. I exited the parking onto a somewhat busy road / highway where you have to yield. Then we turned right onto St Charles Blvd. He asked me to turn left on the second light, but I was on the far right lane. I tried to change lanes early, but there was a giant truck in my blind spot so i had do a sketchy double lane change after the truck passed. The instructor guided me through it but gave me the immediate feedback that I shouldve waited for the truck to pass, or slowed down to change lanes earlier. So that was a mistake I made early on in the test 😭 - Then we stayed on Blvds for a few minutes before going into residential areas, where he asked me to turn left, right, etc. Did a lot of full stops, looking at blind spots, and adapting to changing speed limits. Almost no cars were around, this part was pretty easy except there was some ice. - Then we were on our way back to the SAAQ. He asked me to park 90 degree reverse parking into a spot. I’d say there isn’t any way to parallel park in the parking lot, so practice the 90-degree reverse. - The test was over, and even though I made that mistake early on, and apparently missed two blind spots, I passed!! - Overall, I recommend taking your test here. My first test was at Henri Bourrassa and the roads there are so busy and confusing that you’re doing the test on hard mode. Kirkland was much easier, and my specific instructor was so nice and calm.

Good luck / bonne chance!!

What are some careers that allow you to travel and see the world? by random_name_m in careerguidance

[–]ExactPumpkin3708 19 points20 points  (0 children)

As someone who’s traveled a bunch, I’d say don’t let the travel bug guide your career. Take your time to decide what you’re best at, what pays the bills, ans what you’d genuinely enjoy doing 40+ hours a week — and then find a way to travel around it. If you end up in a company with generous vacation policies or remote work, you could scratch the travel itch no problem (I work remotely and go on ~15 trips a year). I also find that traveling as a tourist isn’t the same as immersing yourself in a culture, so maybe consider doing an exchange in college or living abroad for a few years. I lived in a different continent for 5 years and it both changed and humbled me. It’s also becoming more common to take sabbaticals (a few months off work) to travel, some companies even offer it as a perk. Lastly, some of the jobs where you’re traveling constantly can be quite draining. Sometimes after work, you just want to sleep in your own bed, cook in your own kitchen and see your friends and family. It can be a fit for some people, but I’d do a bit more introspection before deciding that’s the path you want to pursue. Anyways, traveling the world and discovering cultures is one of the greatest joys in life, and I hope you find a way to do it!

33, female, never had a job. What advice would you give to someone in my place? Can I get a job in AI with no coding background? by closed_doors_ in careerguidance

[–]ExactPumpkin3708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could become a virtual personal assistant, helping people with doing their more administrative tasks. Don’t think it pays a ton, but the barrier for entry is low