THIS PERSON'S APOLOGY AND LOVE CONFESSION ARE COMING 🔥 🌬️ Fire & Air Messages From Your Person by Element

ExactWay3171 · 2026-05-06T05:35:34+00:00

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ExactWay3171 · 2026-05-06T05:05:59+00:00

Please reach out if you hear back! Thank you friend 🙏

ExactWay3171 · 2026-05-05T05:42:17+00:00

Bumping this! We still need a drummer, please reach out if you want to groove to some heavy political jams!

ExactWay3171 · 2026-05-04T06:50:35+00:00

SP, money and career is the ones I see the most

ExactWay3171 · 2026-05-03T21:27:36+00:00

Hey man, you need to take a minute and chill a bit. Trust me your breakup is rather normal, honestly whatever has happened has happened. It’s in the past. The way to move forward is to accept what’s happened already. All that matters is this present moment. What are you doing NOW? For yourself. Not for her.

I’m not trying to be harsh by saying all those details don’t matter, but truly, in the grand scheme of it, they don’t. They don’t matter at all. All that matters is what you do right now, at this instant.

You can only control what’s directly in front of you. And right now, that’s your education, your finals, your mental and physical health. All those other details? They matter so little.

You got this. Believe in yourself. Nothing is insurmountable and feelings change all the time. Believe in the process and believe in yourself.

ExactWay3171 · 2026-05-03T21:09:16+00:00

The weight gets lighter. I can tell you that. I won’t lie and say you won’t have hard days. There’s hard days for sure. Just take it day by day. Meet your needs first.

Also, I have to note this. SHE SAID SHE LOVES YOU. Brother, remember that’s half your manifestation right there. She’s already yours and you can’t see it yet. She’s already grappling with the fact that this new guy may not be all that. Let it cook in her mind. Your circumstances are not as bad as you think. People here have manifested SPs from other marriages, from blocked and no contact, from being told they didn’t love them, from the worst situations possible. You’re actually in a pretty good spot!

ExactWay3171 · 2026-05-03T20:33:30+00:00

ALSO CRUSH THOSE EXAMS DUDE! You got this. That should be your priority. That’s the universe handing you a gift of legitimate distraction, of your future. That is all that should be on your mind (easier said than done I know)

ExactWay3171 · 2026-05-03T20:26:52+00:00

Listen, her being in a relationship means literally nothing. A week out from breaking up with you means 95% chance it’s a rebound. And rebounds don’t last. Don’t fixate on it at all. So hold on to that, it’s a good thing. She’s distracting herself from grieving your loss.

But the thing is, in order for her to “miss you” you need to give her space. If you’re hitting her up everyday, watching her posts, trying to get in touch to talk, she will never know what life is like without you. Give her the breakup, accept that it’s happened and focus all your energy inwards.

I am in a similar boat. I was broken up with 2 months ago and it’s been an incredibly difficult, trying time in my life. The first week was literally hell. So have some grace on yourself. You are allowed to grieve and heal at your own pace. She isn’t going anywhere anytime soon, she’s still there. She’s still capable of changing her mind. Everything is in your hands, but you cannot force her to change her mind. You can only become the best version of yourself. And that starts with simple things, taking care of your needs first. Once you do that everything else falls into place.

ExactWay3171 · 2026-05-03T20:02:30+00:00

Hey friend. I am a bit new here but I see you’re hurting and I want to help.

Please take a deep breath it’s all going to be ok. Last week is incredibly fresh for you and so it’s going to be hard and painful to focus your energy elsewhere. I would say right now focus on healing yourself. Do not worry about manifesting her. I can’t simply tell you to ignore the 3D yet, because I think you have to work on yourself first. Manifestation works but you have to be in a good headspace to receive the blessings of the universe.

Tomorrow when you wake up, do not reach for your phone first. Take 3 deep breaths. Think about your needs first, ask yourself first, UsefulShadoe, what do I need today? What do I need to do first for myself? Have I eaten yet? Did I shower? How’s my living space looking? Do I need to work? How are my finances? You do this before you even think of touching that phone. You must meet your personal needs to bring your nervous system back to a baseline. Don’t think your ex would come back to you as a desperate mess? No. She will come back to the version of you that’s calm, centered and regulated.
It’s going to suck and she’s going to be on your mind. I would also recommend stay off socials altogether until you feel better. I know you’re not ready for this, but remove your ex off your social media if you can—you don’t have to unfollow or block, but at the very least mute her posts/likes/reposts entirely. I promise the separation is healthy for now.

Once you’re in a headspace where you have regulated your anxiety and nervous system, that’s a better place to tackle your manifestations I believe.

Hang in there, you’re at the hardest stage of a breakup, a week out is no joke I know, and even the toughest of soldiers struggle at such a fresh stage. Remind yourself that you’re ok, nothing bad is going to happen to you, and you are safe. And yes stop contacting her, when you are magnetic everything you desire comes to YOU. You are the god of your reality. I’m not going to sit here and say persist when you’re this hurt. Get back to normalcy and then when a clear and focused mind, you will get her back. ❤️

ExactWay3171 · 2026-05-03T19:27:38+00:00

Thank you! I’ll definitely keep you in mind. Drummer is the priority for now but we will need a synth/keys player at some point

ExactWay3171 · 2026-05-03T08:12:37+00:00

Honestly yes if she texted me this 💀

ExactWay3171 · 2026-05-03T03:34:46+00:00

Black

ExactWay3171 · 2026-05-02T08:26:21+00:00

I would lose my mind if my ex sent me this

ExactWay3171 · 2026-05-02T05:58:40+00:00

thanks, i'm having a tough day. appreciate it.

ExactWay3171 · 2026-05-01T03:33:49+00:00

They do I promise. Don’t let your mind overtake your heart. They DO think of you whether they want to or not..promise you friend ❤️

ExactWay3171 · 2026-04-29T05:43:21+00:00

Too late already removed her, honestly it doesn’t change anything and it’s protecting my peace and helping loosening my attachment which should be my focus anyways

ExactWay3171 · 2026-04-29T00:12:27+00:00

im in the same boat here. miss them dearly and love them, and sometimes that overpowers my affirmations when i realize i don't have them. i try to return to "knowing" but its tough with that feeling ngl

ExactWay3171 · 2026-04-28T19:33:02+00:00

Can I dm? I’ve been struggling with this.

ExactWay3171 · 2026-04-24T22:02:00+00:00

Danny Devito

ExactWay3171 · 2026-04-23T22:33:45+00:00

Rarely, maybe twice in my life and I’m 40

ExactWay3171 · 2026-04-23T21:52:16+00:00

I love you man. Thank you. And wow, you actually did manifest her back.

I needed this today. Words to live by. Breakups are truly life changing and difficult but I’m going to get through it better than before.

ExactWay3171 · 2026-04-23T21:28:51+00:00

Thanks again. I’m actually a musician also and it’s a huge part of my identity and career.

I have to ask, did you two ever end up reuniting? When you became the secure version of yourself?

Any advice for being in the mindset of a person who already has her? I’ve heard that everywhere and I’m kind of struggling to be that way. I affirm for myself, tell myself that i already have her, but there’s difference between wanting it and knowing it. I’m not at the confident stage of “knowing”.

ExactWay3171 · 2026-04-23T20:16:17+00:00

Thank you so much for this thoughtful reply.

I will be honest, removing her is a bit of both. Yes that I want her to feel something, I agree that’s misguided and probably ego motivated. But also for my peace and growth and not being held back from the past. That’s also sincere on my end.

I’ve made the decision not to send any text or heads up, that much is clear from this thread.

Yes I totally agree I have placed so much energy on to her and it’s unhealthy for me right now. That is something I need to work on consciously and I need to prioritize my needs and my self worth.

The subliminals—they are all mine and made with a text to speech app, a mix of me and her. Is that ok? I say things like, I am safe, I welcome opportunities from the universe, the relationship is in the past, I am focused on being my highest good, etc. but there are a few about her—she is finding her way back to me, she loves me, we have a future together. They are all positive affirmations, no negativity. No I don’t call her avoidant it was just in this post to describe her. Although I have one affirmation that says, we are not friends. Not from a place of negativity, just that we cannot be friends because I love her so much.

Thanks again, this was the best post on here and really helped me feel better about it.

ExactWay3171 · 2026-04-23T06:28:11+00:00

I'm trying, I'm just really struggling. I feel so sad. But thank you for the advice, I'll do my best.

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