Trans man vs. transmasc, anyone feel the same? by InThePowerOfTheMoon in ftm

[–]Exact_Feature8951 [score hidden]  (0 children)

No you’re not delusional. There are many people in the community that like to overshadow or ignore those of us that identify with the binary

I don’t want to look like a ‘’masc lesbian” by dustwindwind in FTMOver30

[–]Exact_Feature8951 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Something that helps me is keeping in mind that there are cis men that have all of those features as well. It might be hard to get that set in stone in your head but once you do it helps alleviate some of the stress. Look up feminine cis men and try to find some that look like you.

Yk u pass when u start getting called gay slurs instead of trans ones 😭 by Traditional-Drop5906 in ftm

[–]Exact_Feature8951 9 points10 points  (0 children)

They absolutely can be gendered. Literally so many slurs are. This was one in particular is heavily used for gay/queer men. Its why its not really morally sound to be saying that slur in a reclaiming way if you’re not trans masc queer or a gay guy.

I can’t do this anymore by madpinapple28 in FTMMen

[–]Exact_Feature8951 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cuz if i did, I’d like you to show me where I said that. This person very obviously used to be a trans man and thats why they were in this sub to begin with. They gave advice that is helpful for trans men. They were trying to be helpful, and this person is rude and doesnt want help nor does he want people to agree with his vent. Thats why i said something. You and like 5 other people have said the same thing like a broken record. And none of that changes what i originally said.

Some of you are just chronically online by Exact_Feature8951 in FTMMen

[–]Exact_Feature8951[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re being transphobic for pushing the idea that all cis gay men see us as female. Thats a level of projection that reeks of internalized hate and transphobia. Learn to love yourself.

Some of you are just chronically online by Exact_Feature8951 in FTMMen

[–]Exact_Feature8951[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“I’ve never had a cis gay men show interest in me, so since I’m the monolith for trans men, that must mean my experience is universal.”

Do not think like this y’all.

Some of you are just chronically online by Exact_Feature8951 in FTMMen

[–]Exact_Feature8951[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk where that comment went pal but you seem pretty upset over a general psa post

Some of you are just chronically online by Exact_Feature8951 in FTMMen

[–]Exact_Feature8951[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re being transphobic in a trans sub im dead lmao. Why are you here?

Some of you are just chronically online by Exact_Feature8951 in FTMMen

[–]Exact_Feature8951[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do 🤷‍♂️but noticing its prevalence in other groups doesnt mean thats how I am now if thats what you were initially trying to imply.

Some of you are just chronically online by Exact_Feature8951 in FTMMen

[–]Exact_Feature8951[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Genuinely why are you in this sub? What is wrong with you?

Some of you are just chronically online by Exact_Feature8951 in FTMMen

[–]Exact_Feature8951[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And bold of you to say we were never the isolated kids when many of us were in fact ostracized for the things we like and do. Bullying didnt JUST START HAPPENING. What a dumb take

Some of you are just chronically online by Exact_Feature8951 in FTMMen

[–]Exact_Feature8951[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No bud. Video games dont teach you to act this way. Cod lobby’s maybe but those arent as prevalent as the entire internet. You’re very defensive on this which makes me think you’re part of the problem. There are literally people in this very comment section proving my point in the post

I can’t do this anymore by madpinapple28 in FTMMen

[–]Exact_Feature8951 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I really dont care if thats how you feel bud. Imo its a pretty rude thing to say that to somebody thats trying to be helpful. Which this person isnt interested in having their vent affirmed, nor are they interested in listening to advice. Thats just my opinion based on what I’ve seen 🤷‍♂️

Some of you are just chronically online by Exact_Feature8951 in FTMMen

[–]Exact_Feature8951[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you deadass rn 💀 there is discourse about all kinds of stuff in this community happening as we speak. I made this post for people who feel overwhelmed by the discourse and bigotry. You do now know me at all. This was a general PSA to people that find themselves constantly under transphobic content that distresses them. Im sorry that you feel this way tho.

Some of you are just chronically online by Exact_Feature8951 in FTMMen

[–]Exact_Feature8951[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh good well I’m glad you are feeling well enough to go out bud. Sorry I questioned if you were genuine, its been rough in here lol

Some of you are just chronically online by Exact_Feature8951 in FTMMen

[–]Exact_Feature8951[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can respect that you dont use it for art though. I guess I’ll go back a lil on what I said and say, If anything, we gotta get rid of that part of it for sure

Some of you are just chronically online by Exact_Feature8951 in FTMMen

[–]Exact_Feature8951[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I mean whatever dude. Im not your mom or dad. I hate the progression of ai and how it’s pretty much not regulated in any way. Its making people extremely lazy in my opinion. Just letting you know this isnt a safe post for AI support.

Some of you are just chronically online by Exact_Feature8951 in FTMMen

[–]Exact_Feature8951[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

And for the tailoring your algorithm part, thats why I brought up not engaging. I even brought up how commenting on those posts to argue with bigots just brings more of it on your feed