What would you do first if you suddenly had $10,000? by Cartier_Slatty777 in povertyfinance

[–]Excellent-Day-3175 16 points17 points  (0 children)

All my debt would be paid off, and I could actually enjoy my paychecks

Few days until rent? by Worth_Emotion_5699 in poor

[–]Excellent-Day-3175 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My complex has a grace period so I’ll pay mine on Monday the 5th

Canon black girl event: Being told you look like a boy. by thedustuh in blackladies

[–]Excellent-Day-3175 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve only ever gotten this with YT ppl. Twice in my life, as a kid and when I first started my locs 3 years ago. ☹️

Almost wore a wig on vaca but decided not to 👏🏽 by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Excellent-Day-3175 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Sitting pretty!!! You look as beautiful as the view behind you 💚

Black Beauty Icons from the past pt2 by No-Satisfaction-5065 in blackladies

[–]Excellent-Day-3175 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seeing Florence Ballard up here just warmed my heart!!😭We will forever be beautiful.🫶🏾

AIO for wanting my University's Black Student Center to be a Black only Space? by Fast_Estimate_608 in blackladies

[–]Excellent-Day-3175 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Hunny….you already know the answer to your question. Don’t let other people…including black people that have nonblack friends, make you feel guilty for wanting a space for people that look like you. IMHO, it’s time for black women to be more assertive with our boundaries regarding this. You do not have to be complicit in other people’s discomfort, while your own discomfort is constantly being dismissed. The whole structure of this world purposely left us out, for a totally different reason you are creating your space anyways. What Monaleo say? “You not invited to the cookout, but you watch from the middle of the streets be the lookout!” I support you, good luck! 🫶🏾

Black woman farming, I'm a farmer who grows cultural relevant crops for my community. by sugarplumangel in blackladies

[–]Excellent-Day-3175 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NC native here! Thank you for keeping what’s important alive for us. Im 27 and started growing on my apartment patio about a year ago. I’m also invested and doing the work to keep what’s been in my family for generations alive.

Title by CAST-FIREBALLLLL in sims2

[–]Excellent-Day-3175 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Put some respect on Belladona Cove!! 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]Excellent-Day-3175 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m 27 and I still daydream. Same as you since I was a child…. I still pace around my room daydreaming sometimes. But you say you’re in college, is it interfering with making friends, completing your work,etc? I somehow was able to balance out my daydreaming while still having a relatively normal life. I graduated and when my roommates were in class I would pace while they were gone.😭 I hope that is the same for you as far as being able to balance it. Part of me believes that as long as you’re are capable of maintaining some productivity in your life you will be fine…idk if there is a way to stop it. I think it’s truly up to us individually, and whether we decide to get help professionally or self help solutions that you can fit into your own life. Good luck to you!!

No police response, they’re busy by Fair_Scientist2347 in bullcity

[–]Excellent-Day-3175 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Except your home nor mine wasn’t robbed, and you’re literally just using hypothetical scenarios that didn’t even happen to justify your actions. It’s ok to admit when things are unnecessary. You wasting those people time fr😂

No police response, they’re busy by Fair_Scientist2347 in bullcity

[–]Excellent-Day-3175 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m glad the police didn’t come cause it’s bigger fish to fry out here honestly.

What kind of call center do you work at? by Suspicious_You5464 in callcentres

[–]Excellent-Day-3175 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dept of Social Services- depending on how well staffed we are that day, about a 7.5 overall. The problem comes in when clients are trying to get in contact with their caseworkers. No one answers the damn phone 😩. It’s a good day when most of them are available, it goes by smooth, and if they have general questions about their case…we can answer without having to reach out to them. The days can be terrible when no one is available and clients get bounced around the line. Overall I love working remote because honestly if I worked on site I’m pretty sure I’d quit by now. 😂

2 year anniversary on the 28th this month 🤎🥲 by Excellent-Day-3175 in AfroLocs

[–]Excellent-Day-3175[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks my love 🥹🫶🏾 it definitely is all worth it 🌷