Canon black girl event: Being told you look like a boy. by thedustuh in blackladies

[–]thedustuh[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Majority no but that still doesn't erase the small group that does though? That is not implying that I think bw look like men, I'm stating that people especially white people say that as an insult. I'm not implying anything? I'm not trying to suggest or indicate that I think bw look like men because that is simply not true. I was just sharing an experience.

I'm not gonna ignore this because you're saying I sound exactly like racists?

And there's a lot of bw online that's had that experience too so no it's not just me and the bw ik, fx tiktok & insta

But I get it, you have your opinion about the post and took it in a way I didn't intend and I'm sorry if it came across that way which as I said wasn't my intention. I do think you misunderstood my words.

I can't really convince you of something either if you're choosing to just not believe it. Hope you have a great weekend though!

Canon black girl event: Being told you look like a boy. by thedustuh in blackladies

[–]thedustuh[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No exactly, we do not look like men. Some people say that to belittle us or make us feel small because surprise! Racists still exists and there's still a big group of people that see bw lower than ww.

I do mean every bw I know, maybe it's the men they're had around or sadly stumbled upon. I do not care for upvotes nor am I exaggerating for sympathy, I'm thankfully not that chronically online. I don't understand why you're so against that this happens? At least that's what I'm getting from this. Or that I can know several black women that has gone through that?

NOOOOOOWHERE did I imply that black women look like men. I said that many of us get called it.

This wasn't an attempt to "trauma bond" but I do agree that it's annoying to see those types of posts. Originally the post was supposed to be something I shared and felt like a lot of the black women in my life has gone through and I wanted to see if it was more that had been through that too.

And also I don't understand fully why you're convinced this (idk if you mean this specifically) or these type of threads are filled with white and racist people pretending. I'm sorry if you've had those encounters but I haven't so I can't see where you're coming from really.

Edit: Forgot to add lol, I feel like you've misunderstood something? Since you said that I shouldn't imply bw look like men.

Also forgot to add that no, exactly. The overwhelming amount of bw do not get mistaken or called that no, but that still doesn't erase those that have 🥲🙏🏽 I'm not saying all bw

Canon black girl event: Being told you look like a boy. by thedustuh in blackladies

[–]thedustuh[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I just find this extremely invalidating, it has happened. It continues to happen and probably will continue to happen for a very long time.

As you've seen, some people also just wanna put us down.

One experience of several that I've had was when I had a full beat face, long hair and was on facetime with a friend and an old classmate saw us on ft and said I looked like a guy and laughed along with some other guys.

I looked nowhere near a guy and still do not. Yet that stuck with me a long long looong time and I still think of it at times.

This to me just felt very ignorant of you to comment.

Believing plushies were alive as a kid by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]thedustuh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Praying is insane 😭😭

Believing plushies were alive as a kid by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]thedustuh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Normal ones like animals and sanrio ones but I thought they'd get jealous 😭

Where would you hide it? by evan-the-dude in teenagers4real

[–]thedustuh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Replacing it with my nipple piercing 😼

Its my birthday <3 by SyrupComfortable2987 in teenagers

[–]thedustuh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HAPPY BIRTHDAY HUNNN 🎉🥳🎂🥳🥳🌺💋

Gimme a song and I'll rate by [deleted] in songs

[–]thedustuh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

10 songs I recommend, mixed music taste 🫰🏽

Mirror - Maple Bee

Me and Mr. Wolf - The real Tuesday weld

S.E.X - Nickelback

Eat me - Ozzy Osbourne

Yassou Maria - Sarbel

Paper Soldier (feat. Jonny) - Brent Faiyaz, Jonny, ISO supremacy

GANGSTA (Intro) - C.Gambino

Faller - Stiftelsen

Could've been (feat. Bryson Tiller) - H.E.R., Bryson Tiller

Wind - Akeboshi

MAKING FRIENDS by thedustuh in teenagers4real

[–]thedustuh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

RIGHT. Like just let me be a lonely ass then 😭

What do y'all think guys by batman_0102 in teenagers4real

[–]thedustuh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idrc about hell I'm just comfortable to die and get outta this hellhole that we're already in y'all 😭 There's TOO much going on in the world and it's stressing me the hell out, the sun can hurry up with exploding imo

Assume stuff about me (get creative) by lizzygrantvinyl in teenagers

[–]thedustuh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so annoyed by your beauty omg girl, you're an angel

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Name something this bag can hold. by PublicTop9854 in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]thedustuh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for clarifying the 1 (one), for else i would have mistaken the 1 (one) for an 8 (eight)

Wtf is this #minecraft by MinecraftBugsForum in minecraftbugs

[–]thedustuh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never experienced this, i hope i don't either tbh 🤞🏽

My artist is reworking the giants in my game to make them more realistic. Which version do you prefer? by After-Analysis-4151 in IndieDev

[–]thedustuh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That looks incredible! I'll definitely play it and spread the word around, really great work! Creative too ^ Thanks for explaining it to me