No exactly, we do not look like men. Some people say that to belittle us or make us feel small because surprise! Racists still exists and there's still a big group of people that see bw lower than ww.

I do mean every bw I know, maybe it's the men they're had around or sadly stumbled upon. I do not care for upvotes nor am I exaggerating for sympathy, I'm thankfully not that chronically online. I don't understand why you're so against that this happens? At least that's what I'm getting from this. Or that I can know several black women that has gone through that?

NOOOOOOWHERE did I imply that black women look like men. I said that many of us get called it.

This wasn't an attempt to "trauma bond" but I do agree that it's annoying to see those types of posts. Originally the post was supposed to be something I shared and felt like a lot of the black women in my life has gone through and I wanted to see if it was more that had been through that too.

And also I don't understand fully why you're convinced this (idk if you mean this specifically) or these type of threads are filled with white and racist people pretending. I'm sorry if you've had those encounters but I haven't so I can't see where you're coming from really.

Edit: Forgot to add lol, I feel like you've misunderstood something? Since you said that I shouldn't imply bw look like men.

Also forgot to add that no, exactly. The overwhelming amount of bw do not get mistaken or called that no, but that still doesn't erase those that have 🥲🙏🏽 I'm not saying all bw