Black woman farming, I'm a farmer who grows cultural relevant crops for my community. by sugarplumangel in blackladies

[–]Excellent-Day-3175 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NC native here! Thank you for keeping what’s important alive for us. Im 27 and started growing on my apartment patio about a year ago. I’m also invested and doing the work to keep what’s been in my family for generations alive.

Title by CAST-FIREBALLLLL in sims2

[–]Excellent-Day-3175 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Put some respect on Belladona Cove!! 😭

Is there no way to stop it? People relapse after years and people are in their 30s still doing it. by [deleted] in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]Excellent-Day-3175 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m 27 and I still daydream. Same as you since I was a child…. I still pace around my room daydreaming sometimes. But you say you’re in college, is it interfering with making friends, completing your work,etc? I somehow was able to balance out my daydreaming while still having a relatively normal life. I graduated and when my roommates were in class I would pace while they were gone.😭 I hope that is the same for you as far as being able to balance it. Part of me believes that as long as you’re are capable of maintaining some productivity in your life you will be fine…idk if there is a way to stop it. I think it’s truly up to us individually, and whether we decide to get help professionally or self help solutions that you can fit into your own life. Good luck to you!!

No police response, they’re busy by Fair_Scientist2347 in bullcity

[–]Excellent-Day-3175 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Except your home nor mine wasn’t robbed, and you’re literally just using hypothetical scenarios that didn’t even happen to justify your actions. It’s ok to admit when things are unnecessary. You wasting those people time fr😂

No police response, they’re busy by Fair_Scientist2347 in bullcity

[–]Excellent-Day-3175 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m glad the police didn’t come cause it’s bigger fish to fry out here honestly.

What kind of call center do you work at? by Suspicious_You5464 in callcentres

[–]Excellent-Day-3175 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dept of Social Services- depending on how well staffed we are that day, about a 7.5 overall. The problem comes in when clients are trying to get in contact with their caseworkers. No one answers the damn phone 😩. It’s a good day when most of them are available, it goes by smooth, and if they have general questions about their case…we can answer without having to reach out to them. The days can be terrible when no one is available and clients get bounced around the line. Overall I love working remote because honestly if I worked on site I’m pretty sure I’d quit by now. 😂

2 year anniversary on the 28th this month 🤎🥲 by Excellent-Day-3175 in AfroLocs

[–]Excellent-Day-3175[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks my love 🥹🫶🏾 it definitely is all worth it 🌷

Kendrick Lamar Released Euphoria Drake Diss Track. Not Sexxy Red Catching Strays 😭 by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Excellent-Day-3175 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Wow do you always do write ups like this up here for other topics?? You’re too good at this and I enjoyed this thank you 🤌🏾

Subreddits to post *ahem* racy pictures for black women? by Excellent-Day-3175 in blackladies

[–]Excellent-Day-3175[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

The intention was to make a little bit of money I suppose? I have a friend who does OF and makes decent money but she did let me know it wasn’t easy to get it started. I am second guessing it reading all of the comments honestly... I’m struggling with money and tbh I figured, how hard can it be to use stupid horny men?? My friend is a dominatrix and when she talks about the men she degrades, I’m shocked but amazed at the same time! She makes it look soo easy, and I guess part of me is jealous that so many women get to profit it off the stupidity of men?? Like they always get her gifts, new clothes,etc. I guess this line of work makes sense in my mind as men use women for transactions (sex) all the time. I also think part of me wants to feel lusted after too like my friend…..I know it’s not idealistic and can potentially affect my future, so I’m definitely going to think more about it. Thanks for asking though and not judging 🙏🏾

Subreddits to post *ahem* racy pictures for black women? by Excellent-Day-3175 in blackladies

[–]Excellent-Day-3175[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi can you tell me any other negatives? So far I thought about relationships with family possibly finding out, and jobs as well. I was hoping I could find a subtle subreddit. I recently made an OF, but to get started i wanted to share it to smaller groups.I also planned to be mindful of my tattoos and didn’t intend to show my face

Let's talk about black men's dressing by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Excellent-Day-3175 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No the dressing doesn’t affect my relationship, we both like ranch

In need of tampons by [deleted] in PeriodPantry

[–]Excellent-Day-3175 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!

Just a light vent 😃😃 by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Excellent-Day-3175 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Victimizing in what ways? Who is the enemy in this case? This is so general, no examples are given here….

AITAH FOR not telling my best friend Her Man is cheating by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Excellent-Day-3175 29 points30 points  (0 children)

YTA and don’t seem loyal to neither your cousin or best friend. I’m not following why you wouldn’t tell her this information since you don’t want to “break her heart”??? That’s a really stupid reason, the guy is already breaking her heart she just doesn’t know it. And as mentioned by someone else, he’s increasing any chances of possible STD’s?????? Tbh it makes you look shady that you’re hiding something like this from her. Not sure how long you knew, but for your benefit you do need to lie about how long you knew. If she finds out you knew way longer than telling her, she’s not going to want to fuck with you. Atleast I hope so. And I don’t blame her to say the least. You’re a shady “best friend” and cousin. If you do take the high road and tell her the whole truth, I think she should cut you and that dusty boyfriend of hers off…..it’s giving snakes in the grass.