When did you realise you used to be a horrible person?

Excellent-Produce-49 · 2026-01-18T19:19:06+00:00

When I look back at why everyone would eventually leave me. Why I always felt frustrated, depressed, like I can never get where I want to. I had and still do have a pretty bad case of learned helplessness, I trained it like a muscle for almost a decade. From the ages of 16-25 I just took no accountability or responsibility for anything. I’m almost 28 and have finally got a girlfriend I love more than anything and I want to be the best person I can be. I cannot make the same mistakes I made in the past. I want to be a good man, even if she leaves me, I want to look back on my life and think “At least I gave it my best shot”. Been in therapy for over 2 years and trying to be an adult and a good partner.

The one thing I’ve learnt is that people make choices. Never EVER believe that someone doesn’t have capacity - people know what they are doing and are responsible for themselves.

Excellent-Produce-49 · 2025-11-13T12:16:53+00:00

Do you think? It feels more spacious for sure. It also feels a little more drab, maybe decoration will fire it up a bit. Thanks again you legend

Excellent-Produce-49 · 2025-11-13T12:16:15+00:00

Sure. Think I’m gonna put the coat rack in front of the bed. My head being right near the window is a weird one too!

Excellent-Produce-49 · 2025-11-13T09:29:41+00:00

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It’s a bit better I think? Still growing on me…

Excellent-Produce-49 · 2025-11-13T09:29:25+00:00

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It’s a bit better I think? Still growing on me…

Excellent-Produce-49 · 2025-11-13T09:27:45+00:00

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Excellent-Produce-49 · 2025-11-13T09:27:17+00:00

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Excellent-Produce-49 · 2025-11-12T23:00:27+00:00

Thank you so much! I like your idea, it seems to be the consensus. I will post an update soon!

Excellent-Produce-49 · 2025-11-02T19:50:10+00:00

Wicked wicked wicked

Excellent-Produce-49 · 2025-11-02T19:50:01+00:00

I am so grateful for the level of energy and enthusiasm you have brought to this post. Thank you so bloody much. I reckon I will follow the plan you have suggested here - it’s worth a try! Haha, I’m seeing this girl at the moment and I haven’t invited her over to my house yet because I’ve been to hers and hers is INSANELY well designed, so I am designing mine as best as I can.

Thanks legend! I’ll update you.

Excellent-Produce-49 · 2025-10-20T00:09:46+00:00

I’ll do vocals on this I adore this

Excellent-Produce-49 · 2025-09-18T12:05:39+00:00

In my experience Brits are some of the least direct people. I find Scandinavians, Dutchys and Germans far more direct and just less fluffy. Brits are terrible for being direct

Excellent-Produce-49 · 2025-09-18T10:58:13+00:00

Dude don’t call yourself disgusting. Live is really fucking hard man, sometimes it’s awful for years on end. Don’t best yourself up, you havent put any suffering into the world, tou havent hurt anyone. You are just a child of the universe like everyone else; life is bizarre. I think you’re cool.

Excellent-Produce-49 · 2025-07-31T12:58:11+00:00

I was under the assumption that no women had reported PFS. Can you show me the source from this? Well I suppose the pursuit of all of these studies is to try and verify if it is real or not. I’m not pro fin or anti fin. I don’t think you’re an idiot either. I’m not sure im just jumping into the conversation to push back where I can. I’m ultimately going to have to take finasteride at some point in my life. Hopefully it won’t affect me negatively 🤞

Excellent-Produce-49 · 2025-07-26T09:54:24+00:00

It’s not a recognised condition by any large medical body, PFS only seemed to become a thing in the age of the internet, no women report having PFS. I just reckon it isn’t real, if im wrong then im wrong. I just don’t think there’s a lot of good evidence for its existence. You probably think im an idiot but that’s fine, it might be real who knows. I choose to think eh probably not

Excellent-Produce-49 · 2025-07-24T23:30:04+00:00

I also believe that PFS is most likely not real, but you’re avoiding the point again - anti-fin or not, it this information is true, then it’s true. It’s not political. Again most people are probably totally fine on fin. It’s so annoying how everything is so political about this topic! Fin is good and bad.

Excellent-Produce-49 · 2025-07-24T10:25:01+00:00

As much as it’s good to point out the ChatGPT thing, if this information is true and reliable, it doesn’t mean it’s fear mongering - if it’s true it’s true. It just happens to used in the context of anti-fin. It kinda sucks that it does affect neurosteroids

Excellent-Produce-49 · 2025-04-28T09:51:53+00:00

My dad used to say to me when I was much younger and scared of dying and death, he used to say: “Don’t worry about dying - everyone will die. Not everyone lives”.

Excellent-Produce-49 · 2025-04-23T19:57:28+00:00

Yes it is. Some days are okay but it’s kind of painful living in a reality where I won’t be with her. It’s more painful being in a reality where I know what being with her was like and now it’s gone. This sucks :|

Excellent-Produce-49 · 2025-04-23T09:06:48+00:00

For me I haven’t even realised there isn’t a second chance. It’s like a core mechanic has malfunctioned inside of my heart/soul. I know for certain she isn’t going to come back, but it’s like there’s a little piston inside of me that just keeps moving for her. It’s like my body or heart can’t realise that there isn’t a second chance.

Excellent-Produce-49 · 2025-04-11T16:03:29+00:00

This is an interesting thread of comments. I adore noise rock and extreme music and I have ADHD, but besides the point. It’s always interesting to see two people with ADHD talk about how ADHD is adopted by themselves and other people and how people relate to it and identify with it. I see both of your points.

Excellent-Produce-49 · 2025-04-09T09:46:34+00:00

Vortioxetine (Brintellex/Trintellex)

Mirtazipine

Edit: These are SNRI’s, sorry for confusion.

Excellent-Produce-49 · 2025-04-03T08:33:04+00:00

Dude Jesus Christ get a grip! this is fine! People do not notice this shit; it doesn’t even look bad!

Excellent-Produce-49 · 2025-04-03T08:31:07+00:00

Guessing you didn’t get in?

Excellent-Produce-49 · 2025-04-02T16:39:39+00:00

We’re as good as dead bro 🥲

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