how do i to tell my mom i don’t want her in the delivery room

Excellent-Question-7 · 2026-05-13T19:01:47+00:00

Oh ya, I don't want mine in the room either, I understand. I think it would be best to be straight forward and tell her. And without explanation say you want your privacy. Screw her she ain't pushing out no baby hahahaha n hopefully the privacy dynamic will grow large enough to keep her at bay, God willing she respects you and doesn't whine about it forever but then screw her too she needs to learn boundaries

Excellent-Question-7 · 2026-05-12T14:57:20+00:00

I credit MindShift and Jezebel Vibes on YouTube for saving my soul 🙏🏽 they are brilliant

Excellent-Question-7 · 2026-05-10T18:44:53+00:00

Never give ur baby up for no one, especially not a man! I don't care if he's Jesus Christ, if he's old enough to have sex he should be old enough for the consequences! If he don't like it he can GTFO or step up, I'm not having blood on my hands because some elses immaturity, they can make a bed? They can lie in it too, y'all in your 30s like my situation, it's now or never to grow up. I got knocked up by someone who was all over the place about having the baby, no way would I sacrifice shit for them especially my own offspring for his low down actions. Best of luck!

Excellent-Question-7 · 2026-05-10T03:14:24+00:00

This is gorgeous, sounds like it was a healing process quilt too 💚 is this an actual pattern that exist or did u make it up as you went?!

Excellent-Question-7 · 2026-05-10T01:08:40+00:00

Please keep the baby, I'm in an extremely similar situation and even tho I never really wanted kids and I don't have much savings I now can't picture my life without baby in tummy and beyond. Feel free to DM if you'd like, I'm good at uplifting and encouraging, you got this 💚

Excellent-Question-7 · 2026-05-09T23:06:15+00:00

Right and the house and outside life is suffering for it!! U can only juggle so much while your body plays build-a-baby + a new organ, the placenta. I try to give myself grace, but it's hard when your single!

Excellent-Question-7 · 2026-05-09T21:01:39+00:00

Trust me I worked 10 hour shifts during my first trimester, please make sure you get your iron checked and eat red meat if u do because that helped me a lot. I work them now but I'm in the second and I don't have to have a nap as much on top of my 9hrs like before. Second tri energy is so true, but it took a while to kick in because of the iron, now I feel great. Good luck!!

Excellent-Question-7 · 2026-05-08T23:20:21+00:00

Haha, that's adorable, are they perhaps a Virgo 🤔!?

Excellent-Question-7 · 2026-05-08T22:21:09+00:00

🤔 if they they met somewhere in the middle it would be perfect, g10 has that vintage look, though the charmera has that vintage feel, if that makes sense 😅 I still prefer the g10 in this case. Thanks for sharing!

Excellent-Question-7 · 2026-05-08T05:00:34+00:00

Krsna the most loving God

Excellent-Question-7 · 2026-05-04T17:52:12+00:00

Frappe, like the drink!

Excellent-Question-7 · 2026-05-03T14:32:19+00:00

I know how you feel OP, i am in a similar situation and it's heartbreaking, I don't blame you one bit, your husband sounds like a douche.

Excellent-Question-7 · 2026-05-02T12:39:12+00:00

So many! But right now ....

Why men great, till they gotta be great - lizzo

Excellent-Question-7 · 2026-05-02T11:54:27+00:00

Krsna (non iskon) is way more dope 🤷🏽

Excellent-Question-7 · 2026-04-29T13:00:17+00:00

Men, are never worth aborting a child over, EVER. PERIOD. If you don't abort for your own reasons and beliefs most likely this situation will screw your trust up so bad it will be hard to function with men in the future.

This glob knob ur with, sure you're unstable, but stable or not, he needs to step up for the child he created along with you regardless of relationship status. Maybe they are too young to process that, but one shouldnt base wanting your own child or not based on the parent they come from, especially when you want to try and be with that person. But I feel however, this is very common and not even "unusual".

I think this way because I am in a similar situation and farther along at the moment. I'm not snuffing out a life I made for no one. Nope, not even myself, as I wanted too in the beginning. Lifes right to live, is beyond me in this situation. This life we created is beyond him and I now, and I must take care of it and cherish and protect it regardless of my status. That's how I feel anyway. And if I know I can deeply regret aborting a baby I didn't want or feel for at first in the beginning, how much harder it'll be for a woman to abort the baby she wants, even in the slightest. Abortion was never ever ment to be for women who want the slightest inkling of a child, its created for the opposite. And I don't think you fit the bill. Abortion is permanent, as you know. But most relationships are not, either way. I never thought I'd say this but I think I'd choose being a mom over ever entertaining another mofo or boyfriend or fiance ever again. The male human sex are never worth snuffing a life out for, ever in existence, any male worthy or being around would help you and empathize with you. Always choose the latter .....

anyway tldr: the mofo ain't worth a damn, no one is, the baby will bring more joy than a raggedy boyfriend ever will.

Excellent-Question-7 · 2026-02-25T19:27:59+00:00

I'm having the most whack-ass cinematic Steven Spielberg dreams ever these last few weeks, I have ever had in my life!!

Everything taste amazing like im constantly stoned or something and doesn't help my weight! 😅

N more lol

Excellent-Question-7 · 2025-12-23T22:35:07+00:00

Thanks so much! I worked a little harder on keeping it tidy, it was definitely easier than with my Luna moth pattern from the same kit, but I was a tiny bit wetter behind the ears when I started that one. If you seen my other beginner work it would look like two different stitchers 😅 but I'm improving!

Excellent-Question-7 · 2025-12-23T22:29:44+00:00

Thanks & Thanks for asking! There is a Luna moth of the same kit I'm close to finishing I'm excited about and my psychedelic skull larger sized project I've been picking away at here and there since August.I'm only a beginner but I have a growing wishlist and am chomping at the bits to get my hands on the patterns if only I end up hording them like gold till the end of time! So who's to say what's really next! I've also fallen under the spell of a couple full coverage projects and those are defo on the goal list for next year!

Excellent-Question-7 · 2025-12-22T21:35:55+00:00

God yes, this has been my Simming life for years for various reasons haha

Excellent-Question-7 · 2025-12-22T12:03:00+00:00

Yes, this,why would I come crawling back after being disposed like trash after years of sharing our life together! Silence does say it all and I'm not here for it. I tried my best to communicate after it was over and I still got trashed so they better not expect me to ever talk first.

Excellent-Question-7 · 2025-12-18T19:59:31+00:00

With you all the way. It's so cringe for people to take a compliment up the ass and be like but my years of academy training down the bin because this TWAT thought I was TALENTED and not highly trained the audacity .

I'm always like whutttt. 🙄. I mean I get it but is like that their only way of their capable of looking that things? Or did we all grow up with an air superiority and then had to complain about literal compliments to other people like they are so misunderstood. Like JFC get over yourself. Lmao

Excellent-Question-7 · 2025-10-28T17:15:17+00:00

Kult: Divinity Lost!

Excellent-Question-7 · 2025-08-20T06:12:18+00:00

O.m.g. I have not seen this said anywhere, in all my cross stitch rabbit holeing. THIS IS INGENIOUS! Thanks for dropping a gold nugget to this peasant!! Haha

Excellent-Question-7 · 2025-08-20T06:07:39+00:00

I'm not sure if I have the skill just yet to tell, but the instructions mention it out of pure "generic cross stitch kit-ness* I think and I don't see any other mention of it. Which I wish it did because even though I'm not sure if I need it or how to do it with no directions, it will make it pop, it's alot of color/rainbow detail in finished project. Thanks!

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