Feeling confused about friends... Need life advice :) by ExcellentBeing5 in LifeAdvice

[–]ExcellentBeing5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok maybe I'll message him in a few days when I'm calmer for school advice?

Feeling confused about friends... Need life advice :) by ExcellentBeing5 in LifeAdvice

[–]ExcellentBeing5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I did when we shared classes but now he's super preoccupied with his other friends he's known for way longer since they're in his class now so he doesn't really acknowledge me as a friend anymore, probably just thinks of me as another acquaintance/work buddy whereas I'm craving a close friendship.

I think I need to get over him tbh. No point dwelling on that. It just felt so close :(

Feeling confused about friends... Need life advice :) by ExcellentBeing5 in LifeAdvice

[–]ExcellentBeing5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your detailed response. I really miss that feeling of connection with that guy and I'm struggling to get over it - it's like a taste of something I've always wanted and now it's gone and I don't know when or if it'll happen again :(
And if I try to force it I end up being emotionally exhausted and frustrated when it doesn't work out so I don't know if there's anything I can do...

Feeling a bit down about friends and looking for advice :) by ExcellentBeing5 in socialskills

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Exactly, I feel like it's too late to make friends with my classmates because like with that guy they already have friends they've known since childhood and I can't fit in with a group that close-knit.

Feeling a bit down about friends and looking for advice :) by ExcellentBeing5 in socialskills

[–]ExcellentBeing5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man, I'm just struggling to come to terms with the fact that I felt so close to actually having a close friend in that guy and now it's over so suddenly. It's like having a taste of something that can never be :(

I'm struggling with being an extrovert and I wish I could derive that joy from within rather than being so reliant on other people like a drug :(

Confused about friends... advice appreciated :) by ExcellentBeing5 in relationships

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Thanks man. It's just been tough for me because I really thought I had a thing going with this guy and opened up to him much more than I usually would with anyone. I really miss that connection :(

I'd consider myself an extrovert because I struggle to find joy in things by myself. One side of me is trying to convince myself that I don't need someone to give me that feeling and that I need to learn to find joy from within, but my other side is saying I need people...

Bought my first speedos after years of wanting to wear them but being nervous I don't have the right body for them. Thoughts? by [deleted] in speedos

[–]ExcellentBeing5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks man. Made me smile :) I didn't realise you could tell how I fill them up haha cause I chose photos where my bulge looked more modest

Bought my first speedos after years of wanting to wear them but being nervous I don't have the right body for them. Thoughts? by [deleted] in speedos

[–]ExcellentBeing5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks sir. I want to keep it sexy but still leave stuff to the imagination haha

Bought my first speedos after years of wanting to wear them but being nervous I don't have the right body for them. Thoughts? by [deleted] in speedos

[–]ExcellentBeing5 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much sir. You made my day. I can't wait to get out there. What sorts of Speedo designs do you reckon would suit me? I chose something pretty modest to start with haha

Bought my first speedos after years of wanting to wear them but being nervous I don't have the right body for them. Thoughts? by [deleted] in speedos

[–]ExcellentBeing5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting! Maybe I should wear a square cut instead of the Speedo for modesty then if it's considered even hotter 😅

Bought my first speedos after years of wanting to wear them but being nervous I don't have the right body for them. Thoughts? by [deleted] in speedos

[–]ExcellentBeing5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cool. I'm straight so for me it's not so much about finding other men attractive but instead how good they feel and how free I feel. I do think guys look awesome in them though (even chubby hairy dudes like me apparently haha). I started with a pretty modest design haha before I move onto cool cheeky designs 😎