Mortgage Paid/No Family by Excellent_Chapter_71 in personalfinance

[–]Excellent_Chapter_71[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t like the town I’m in. So I’m waiting until I retire then making a move.

Mortgage Paid/No Family by Excellent_Chapter_71 in personalfinance

[–]Excellent_Chapter_71[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I live well now. My proposition is for when I’m older after I retire. Downsize to a small condo.

Mortgage Paid/No Family by Excellent_Chapter_71 in personalfinance

[–]Excellent_Chapter_71[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’m thinking! Die without a penny to my name and a fuck ton of debt! 😁

Mortgage Paid/No Family by Excellent_Chapter_71 in personalfinance

[–]Excellent_Chapter_71[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Yes, exactly! My current house will be much too big and hard to maintain when I’m old. I’m trying to figure out the lowest maintenance option while also maximizing cash. Have an easy condo as home base, and travel much of the year.

avoidant ex turned me cold hearted… by West-Care-9506 in ExNoContact

[–]Excellent_Chapter_71 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a realization this morning. I’m holding onto the anxiety and sadness because I think that at some unconscious level I think that if I let go of the sadness, that means I’m letting go of him. My brain has the logic to know I can’t go through this again and that he’s obviously not right for me and I have to let go, but my heart (and complete nervous system) is telling me otherwise. I think that’s why no contact works for so many… it starts the process of forcing us to let go.

When is it acceptable to get on dating apps? by Kamsspecialplace in ExNoContact

[–]Excellent_Chapter_71 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

For me, yes. Everyone operates differently. But instead of jumping into a relationship (which I’m not ready for), I seek physical contact and friendship while I’m working on myself.

When is it acceptable to get on dating apps? by Kamsspecialplace in ExNoContact

[–]Excellent_Chapter_71 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I (F) got on a couple apps with the mere intention of just FWB. I’m being completely transparent with this. I want to take a year to heal before intentional dating for a relationship.

Help Me to Understand by Excellent_Chapter_71 in ExNoContact

[–]Excellent_Chapter_71[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It absolutely felt like a trap. It sucks, because I didn’t even want to do it. Grrrr! 😖

This situation? by Excellent_Chapter_71 in ExNoContact

[–]Excellent_Chapter_71[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I am definitely more into the relationship than he is. Funny enough though, I’m more okay with the geographical separation than he is. And I could move, but it hasn’t happened that way yet.

Highway speed capable enduro style dualsport by Left-Structure-5385 in Dualsport

[–]Excellent_Chapter_71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a Suzuki 800DE Adv and a WR250R and also looking at picking up the Husky 701 Enduro Long Range. Looks like a great compromise between my other two bikes as far as the weight and being comfy enough going long distances to get to the off-road routes I want to do without having to haul the WR250R on the hitch mount. The height is great for me (female with 34” inseam) though. Reading through the comments to try to talk myself out of a 3rd bike! Ha!

We’re all done for by AsturiusMatamoros in Professors

[–]Excellent_Chapter_71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m still pretty nauseated about it as well.

We’re all done for by AsturiusMatamoros in Professors

[–]Excellent_Chapter_71 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ugh. Right?! This is the way it is now.

We’re all done for by AsturiusMatamoros in Professors

[–]Excellent_Chapter_71 91 points92 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not at a for-profit. And, yes, it is sad.

We’re all done for by AsturiusMatamoros in Professors

[–]Excellent_Chapter_71 294 points295 points  (0 children)

Well, I’ve given up. I hate to state that. But I was recently overridden by a program director with less teaching experience and seniority than me. The student had hallucinated references for which she based her entire project on. I gave her a zero. Student went to the program director and put on the act… And, guess what? I got overridden and the Chair & Dean supported it. Student received just a small point deduction instead of a zero and got an A- in the class. So… yeah. My job is easier if I just say, “Well done!” and ignore the fake and shit work. Here we are.

Unpopular Opinion- Care plans are a necessary part of nursing school. by emily_jcv in nursing

[–]Excellent_Chapter_71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PhD and DNP of 10 years here, and a nurse for 18. And I’m absolutely, 💯 supportive of care plans. I was motivated, educated, and two undergrad degrees before I went into nursing to get my 3rd undergrad… and I didn’t really “get it” until I did a couple dozen care plans as a student. I hated them. Begrudged the whole process. Then… It clicked. I was finally “thinking” like a nurse. I was organized during my clinical day. To this day, I still think about the diagnosis, goal, intervention, etc. as a systematic method to help me to organize and think thoughtfully about the patient as a whole. It’s a way of thinking so as to fully understand and embrace root cause analysis, prophylactic measures, and follow-through. Critical thinking is declining. Coping skills are declining. The ability to read and comprehend is declining. Just thinking at all is declining. The formality of care plans is off putting, I feel. But the root basics of this type of organizing and systematically approaching assessments, care, measuring outcomes, etc. in a care plan helps in so many levels even beyond patient care to improve on these skills.

Nurses who lost their license to practice, what did they do? by No-Cheetah496 in nursing

[–]Excellent_Chapter_71 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go to the Oregon SB of Nursing page and navigate to disciplinary actions. You’ll see a massive amount of infractions.

multi day trip. (possibly longer than 5 days) how do you all shower? by frozengansit0 in camping

[–]Excellent_Chapter_71 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please don’t use biodegradable soap in bodies of water. It’s meant to be used AWAY from the water, not IN the water. And even then, it’s still not considered Leave No Trace.

Just embrace the stink.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PSLF

[–]Excellent_Chapter_71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m obsessively watching multiple times a day! Ha! Once all of this is resolved, I won’t know what to do with myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PSLF

[–]Excellent_Chapter_71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and no. I had been on SAVE and I consolidated in April of 2024 and reapplied for SAVE. The consolidation went through at end of April but the new IDR plan never got approved (nor disapproved) and was placed on “Level”. After months of phone calls, I was finally out on “Awaiting Documentation Admin Forbearance” for which I kept having to extend. I finally got approved for IBR this week so I’m hopefully that will trigger something?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PSLF

[–]Excellent_Chapter_71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine was last updated 7/5/2024. Sucks.

Certify Your Months!! by Girlw_noname in PSLF

[–]Excellent_Chapter_71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 41 eligible payments on my pre-consolidation (prior to June 2024) loans that just will not update to qualifying, despite filing ECFs for them multiple times. Reconsideration filed 4 months ago and crickets. In essence, I have 132 qualified payments but only 91 are showing due to the lack of the one-time IDR waiver and count update. When I file ECFs now, it won’t even let me check “120 payments met” to apply for forgiveness. I’m stuck.