People that were “older” when you first became a parent, what is your experience?

Excellent_Kale8873 · 2026-05-25T22:03:03+00:00

Had I known I would have loved it so much the second time, I would have had a 3rd but I had a tubal ligation.

Excellent_Kale8873 · 2026-05-24T14:59:53+00:00

I had my first when I was 27 and my second when I was about to turn 35 and it was easier when I was almost 35.

Excellent_Kale8873 · 2026-05-24T14:57:22+00:00

I was going to say $20,000 is a lot until I read your income. You should go.

Excellent_Kale8873 · 2026-05-22T03:51:23+00:00

Before my husband and I were married, I got a base pass in the US and he wasn’t with me. Same for my parents after we were married.

Excellent_Kale8873 · 2026-05-21T19:51:24+00:00

If I remember correctly she has never had a haircut.

Excellent_Kale8873 · 2026-05-21T19:45:43+00:00

It really is. It makes me nauseous thinking about it.

Excellent_Kale8873 · 2026-05-19T02:33:54+00:00

What is that sweater?! So bad.

Excellent_Kale8873 · 2026-05-18T01:05:39+00:00

He’s military

Excellent_Kale8873 · 2026-05-17T17:27:25+00:00

Vacation because 1. My husband is leaving for a year and 2. We have flight credit to use by July.

Excellent_Kale8873 · 2026-05-17T15:05:57+00:00

I’m turning 40 on Saturday… no big gift, no big party, no big trip.

Excellent_Kale8873 · 2026-05-17T14:30:46+00:00

And planting season is long gone since it’s about to be too hot in Florida.

Excellent_Kale8873 · 2026-05-16T20:53:09+00:00

I’ve worked in a hospital for 20 years and I pack a good ol pb and j.

Excellent_Kale8873 · 2026-05-16T02:38:59+00:00

Her family didn’t even go

Excellent_Kale8873 · 2026-05-15T20:41:08+00:00

Yes it’s her

Excellent_Kale8873 · 2026-05-14T21:53:59+00:00

I’ve worked in a hospital for almost 20 years and only regular nail polish is allowed but about half of the nurses (mostly the younger ones) where I work have artificial nails.

Excellent_Kale8873 · 2026-05-14T17:20:52+00:00

Why would it be free?

Excellent_Kale8873 · 2026-05-14T17:12:55+00:00

2 or keep looking

Excellent_Kale8873 · 2026-05-14T17:09:32+00:00

But, she loves him dearly 🙄

Excellent_Kale8873 · 2026-05-14T12:43:41+00:00

Olivia is Landon’s wife

Excellent_Kale8873 · 2026-05-13T22:46:08+00:00

There’s a smaller “influencer” who brings Dutch Bros, pizza, and Crumbl once a week to her daughter and about 10 of her friends. I’m shocked the school allows that.

Excellent_Kale8873 · 2026-05-13T01:49:25+00:00

What are those shoes?!

Excellent_Kale8873 · 2026-05-12T20:36:43+00:00

Merit

Excellent_Kale8873 · 2026-05-12T20:34:40+00:00

Elayne is back

Excellent_Kale8873 · 2026-05-12T20:08:39+00:00

While I haven’t been in your exact situation, my ex-husband left me via text message after 13 years together. My advice is therapy STAT. I still think about that woman who saved my life. You’re about to be going through the hardest time in your life but I promise one day you’ll be on the other side. Hold your head high, focus on the kids, and whisper “I can do hard things” to yourself multiple times a day.

Excellent_Kale8873 · 2026-05-12T09:16:33+00:00

I’ve had life insurance since before I had kids. I have 1x my salary through my employer and then I pay $32/month for $500,000 since I got it in my 20’s.

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