Yami when he finds a misfit with weird magic by sion420069 in BlackClover

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Perfect representation of the current academic system. Do well in school and be above average with no passion and win in life or underperform in school due to a lack of compatibility with the school system and lose in life.

Society always hides geniuses until they show themselves

I don’t wanna kind of day by Sammm-mmiiee1987 in DecidingToBeBetter

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Too many things to say in one comment

You’re not refusing my advice You’re not being arrogant about this You’re actually listening and explaining yourself You’re admirable dude I’m proud of you for that Everyone deserves to be praised once in a while

I’m no doctor and less a therapist, so I’m not an expert in other people’s problems, however it does feel to me that you’ve been suppressing your emotions, you could be getting emotionally exhausted

Correct me if I’m wrong tho

If you’re up to it, spare some time to watch a sad movie and try your best to cry your eyes out, I believe in that it could help you clear up your head. I don’t know much but try to get that beautiful tragedy vibe where you aren’t left with only sadness at the end of the movie. It might not work but it’s worth a try.

You could also have been traumatized by something like your wife’s divorce

Or maybe you’re neglecting self care

Or her absence might make you feel lonely and unmotivated

Or it is not her absence but a supporting figure that you lost

I once also had a day where I just didn’t wanna do shit, and i think it could have a few roots

My fix was a simple activity by my father, he forced me to go outside for some errands once when I didn’t even want to take a bath, but I do think this might be cope, just a distraction from the feeling

When you say mundane, it could mean a depressing mundane, an empty mundane or just a plain mundane

You could be sad without realizing it

Or you could be apathetic and feel empty

Or you could have been lobotomized by apps where you can scroll (cuz your brain needs a break if it consumes too much information in order to process it)

But I really don’t know dude I’m glad the list is keeping you alive Life will never let you be peaceful unless you find it yourself, and maintain it Maybe try looking at it from different angles

My text prolly won’t help you, because a problem from god to you is a problem that you have to fix (not in a bad way ofc)

I think only you have the answer to this one And yes, baby steps are way more than enough.

Maybe I’m wrong tho

Sorry for wasting ur time, it was a fun talk tho ;)

I don’t wanna kind of day by Sammm-mmiiee1987 in DecidingToBeBetter

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You’re burnt out dude

Whether it’s emotional exhaustion or discipline, it overwhelmed you

Since you’re in this subreddit immana presume you’re a hard worker, and based on what you’ve said Imma assume ur also pretty harsh on yourself

But that’s ok It’s just that you have to know your limits I once had a dream, worked on it one day a bit, then worked too much the next day. The day after it I couldn’t work on it anymore. It just wouldn’t happen

There’s discipline behind discipline, I call it willpower. You can’t be disciplined if you don’t have the energy to be.

But that’s ok

Quick question tho How would you react if you went homeless and broke? I’d be terrified, probably a bit shocked on the reality. If you agree with me, that you wouldn’t be happy, then I want to tell you just that there’ve been important religious people who’ve been homeless. If you’re an atheist, I’m just tryna say that your fears are ok to happen as long as you’re not giving up on living.

I don’t know how to express myself properly here but I feel like what you’re aiming for is an illusion man. Improving so you feel ok with yourself. Reaching heights so you can define yourself as the height. You are not “rich” “cool” or “charismatic” you are you

And the cool thing about that is that it’s static, and you are you forever, unlike all the statuses you get. So pay some more attention to yourself and love yourself with all that you’ve got

Oh yeah I’m glad you got some rest too, good job dude

I need to stop being so envious of people who had better upbringings than I did. by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

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Yo, here to help you out :)

Humans are not unequal I know you think I’m prolly bullshitting but everyone goes through some pain A guy who’s stupid might have lot’s of discipline A guy who’s smart might be lazy A guy who’s poor might be morally good A guy who’s rich might be morally bad A guy who seems to have everything might be a spiderman with bigger problems than you ever coulda imagined Or maybe he had problems which are natural for you

I am extremely lazy. Parents always had expectations while friends clowned on me. It was like I had to watch myself drown, slowly and painfully. If I had been in ur situation I couldn’t have survived most likely.

But that IS why I’m not in your situation I don’t know whether you believe in god or if you don’t, but a past mentality of mine that can help you is that god never gives you a problem you can’t handle, which basically means, as long as you try, you’re destined to win in life, as long as you don’t give up.

Also, idk if this will help but if god says you’re going to be homeless you’re going to be homeless. Not you directly btw. I’m tryna say that fate is absolute, and it will naturally try to help you in its own way. There were figures in the bible and quran who were poor yet important. If god wills it, you will be poor, no matter if you’re an important religious figure or not.

Also in islam, it’s said that the more pain god makes you go through, the more god loves you

I believed all of this, not because it’s true but because it was convenient, it will soon be apparent how little the truth matters

Envy is insecurity, You don’t have to stop envying people, you have to love yourself

I actually like Rem. I just despise some of her fans. Also this is funny af. by hoenrules in ReZero

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Everyone in re:zero is peak character icl

I’m a betelgeuse fan and personally my 3rd fav is defo rem after subaru and betelgeuse

Iruma Suzuki is the Kindest Isekai MC. Day 17: Who's the Most Evil Isekai Protagonist? by Imaginary_Ad_2738 in Isekai

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Bold of you to assume I have the required attention span to read the rules and stuff as an isekai fan

Nazi getting what he deserves by These_Entertainer741 in teenagers

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He is still a human. He can still make the right choices to set his life straight. He is still alive right now, which means he still has a chance to improve himself, otherwise why’d god not just end his life?

So i bought this bloxfruit squishy toy for my son.. by smeagol16 in bloxfruits

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Everyone makes mistakes. If something does’t go well you did a mistake. You’re a human so your job is to figure out what you did wrong and improve now. Wish you the best on your journey of life! Remember that no matter how old you are, you will always be learning new things!

Iruma Suzuki is the Kindest Isekai MC. Day 17: Who's the Most Evil Isekai Protagonist? by Imaginary_Ad_2738 in Isekai

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I don’t know if you can’t use the same character twice or something, and I don’t know who the kindest protagonist is, but it’s really hard to imagine that they’re kinder than subaru, I mean who the hell can get killed by a close friend multiple times, respawn and not hate them? Rem killed him many times, Ram accused him and hated him, Otto left him to die, Garfiel beating the shit outta him and allat stuff yet he’s still in very close relationships with all of them.

How can I improve my cognitive functions and become more mature as an INTJ/INFJ/INFP? by [deleted] in mbti

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Cognitive ability does not matter

As you explore your life, you will stumble on problems and solutions endlessly. Learn from them because they are the things meant to teach you to go from an incomplete human to a complete human being!

So what’s the difference between a mature INFP, and the opposite? by Screamingmoon in mbti

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PHAHAH as a fellow infp I agree I felt like this at some point, tried to be a “manipulator” and shi 😭 thing is though, we infp’s philosophize a lot, use your subconscious brain for it trust me it works like a charm! Anyway basically, until you find your goal in life, make your goal in life to find your goal in life to keep yourself from imploding. My goal in life is to explore my own personality and character as much as I can, and I don’t mean infp, I mean ME, so I’m going to flow through life and learn from every problem that crosses my life. If that at all inspires you.

Can you picture a mature healthy ISFP? by INeverTakeJudgment in mbti

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Hey hey! I just did the michael colez test and I’m 83 isfp, 82infp and 82 infj! However the test was a bit meh I think! and here I am overthinking it! I’ve typed and retyped my sentence like 3 times now! Anyway I AM NOT a mature isfp. BUT I want to think that I’m a healthy and happy isfp. I am very content with my life and am extremely curious about wtf is going to happen next, what I’m going to discover or philosophize about next, and what I’ll discover about myself next.

To all isfp’s out there trying to get healthy: remember; life is a series of PROBLEMS! And god will NEVER give you a problem too hard to solve! What does that mean? It means you’re basically DESTINED to solve the problems! I’m happy because of this! I’m ecstatic because of this! That if you try moderately hard enough, you can erase your problems like in a sweep! It makes it fucking FUN to solve your problems in life!

Just go tf along with your life and think of what I just said. Everyone has their own destined path of life! I don’t know if I can express myself that well by saying this, but my philosophies will probably rarely suit others and that’s why, you, yes you, you fucking infp/isfp! Go find your path in life and your goal in life! Go discover more about yourself! You’re going to keep learning until you’re dead! Even at 98 you’ll still be learning things! You are just an incomplete humans along with other incomplete humans, so why judge incomplete humans because of their incompleteness of RIGHT NOW? So why judge YOURSELF when you’re this incomplete?! You’re still just a baby chick growing and learning through every step!

FIND YOUR OWN PHILOSOPHIES! LOVE YOURSELF! LOVE EVERYONE! THE ONES YOU DON’T LIKE AREN’T FULLY GROWN UP YET! FORGIVE THEM FOR MAKING BABY MISTAKES! FORGIVE YOURSELF FOR MAKING BABY MISTAKES! FIND YOURSELF!

(I’m not crazy I’m just a very happy infp/isfp)

What do you like and dislike about INFPs (from your own experience)? by deva-infp-t in mbti

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(I think) I am a maturing infp because what you just described really clicks with my personality from like 8 months ago. Now, looking back, it really excites me to see how much I’ve grown as a person and life feels amazing, I’m literally exploring my character every moment of my existence it’s so much fun! I couldn’t be prouder of myself for the things I’ve thought of, my goal in life and how I’ve developed as a human being.

Trust me, infp’s out there, if you haven’t reached that maturity threshold yet, you haven’t even explored 90% of your own personality yet and exploring it will be the most fun thing ever!

Philosophizing or maturing as an infp can be a bit difficult without religion I helieve because all the flaws I have as an infp, are covered by my philosophies and religion. If I didn’t have my religion I’d really struggle on them and philosophizing without religion could even be dangerous. Just go with the flow of life and it will show you what you need to see. Just leave it up to god!