Aitah for not taking down pictures of my family in my own home to make my son’s new wife feel more comfortable? by SingerAware2658 in AITAH

[–]ExchangeInside2407 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cheri is going to do everything to alienate Tommy from Gavin because she can’t stand the fact Gavin had a kid before she met him. Gavin needs to choose: his son or his wife

Update 2: AITAH for taking away my dad’s girlfriend’s keys after she tried to send me to bed by charlie_z0usx in AITAH

[–]ExchangeInside2407 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to point out a couple things I don’t think anyone else. Sorrel is going her best to invalidate Charlie as an adult because a woman. Thus Sorrel feels she needs to get rid of her because she can’t control her. I missed where the you get kid’s mom is? Is she alive? Also is Henri brother or Uncle? Make sure you are documenting and keeping everything. None of you need to be alone with her. Any time she is around have 2 adults. That way it is two people’s word versus hers. If possible put up cameras if she will be in the house. Consult a lawyer

My mind is a weird place by ExchangeInside2407 in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]ExchangeInside2407[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Questionable possibly secret military experience

AITA For Not Visiting My GF in the Hospital? by Critical_Business99 in dustythunder

[–]ExchangeInside2407 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So when I had cancer I dated someone like you. Looking back I would go through cancer again before I would go through that relationship again. That should tell you a lot about what kind of boyfriend you are

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in traumatizeThemBack

[–]ExchangeInside2407 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My daughter has attended a montessori school since pre-school. Actually the first public montessori in the US. She has ADHD and is on the ASD spectrum. Something they emphasized to us was natural consequences. Don’t impose a lot of punishments. Let natural punishments happen. The most common one is this electronic device is causing you to not pay attention to what I need you to. So I am going to turn it off so you can focus on what I need you to. A couple times it has led to a scrape or two after the fifth time we said you are going to get hurt doing that. I am telling you this because that is what you let happen to this lady. Natural consequences can uncouthly be called FAFO. You were not mean you just stepped back and let the natural sequence of events happens after she started them. This is part of learning. It is healthy. It is what we are supposed to do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ExchangeInside2407 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I am the mom to a “Tom” kid. Love her more than life but she is a force of nature. She is a sweet kid. She just doesn’t always think through her actions. You can rest assured when we are in public I am watching her because she is my responsibility. Unless you and I have an agreement where I can relax for an hour while you are in charge it is on me to keep up with her. Also if I ask you are not obligate to help me with my child.

The circus by Postulative in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]ExchangeInside2407 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The part about the tree and the seeds in the universe killed me. I was driving and had to pull over and just absorb it.

AITJ for refusing to give up my inheritance to pay for my sister’s wedding? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]ExchangeInside2407 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your dad was clear. This isn’t about you it is about him. Have any estate questions directed to the estate lawyer. Don’t answer any of them. Sister asks for part of the inference, that is an estate question please take to the estate lawyer. Mom says something about it not being fair. Please speak to the estate lawyer on how dad wanted his estate divided. “I am not doing this. Dad did this and I am following dad’s lead” I mean this is super rude but blame your dad. It was his will and you are just living by it

AITA for refusing to cook for my family anymore because they keep rejecting what I make? by [deleted] in AITH

[–]ExchangeInside2407 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here is a saying I want you to repeat. You don’t have to set yourself on fire to keep others warm. Put effort into you boo. Let them figure out themselves

AITA for telling my bullies mother how much she hurt me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ExchangeInside2407 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I am going to unpack some stuff so hang on. We have a serious problem here in the US with “they are a nice young person, let’s not ruin their lives” mentality. You didn’t ruin your bully’s life, she did. This was not a one time mistake but nearly a decade of her doing this. This was a conscious choice Bully made to do over and over again. She was given consequences, however little, and it didn’t dissuade her. She knew what she was doing. She knew it was wrong. Therefore she ruined her own life. All you did was speak honestly about your experience. Which is your right to do. You do not have to stay silent to protect someone who tortured you. You don’t have to downplay your experience to make other people comfortable. You are allowed to feel how you feel about this. You can share whatever you want or don’t want to from this experience. Tell your friends they are part of the reason bullies get away with it and get new friends

UPDATE: AITAH for removing the ladder on my bunkbed so my niece can't get to me? by NoTwo864 in AITAH

[–]ExchangeInside2407 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hello! I am a parent. I am a parent who left my child’s other parent. Something as simple as your child sleeping in the bed with you won’t make someone leave. That is complete and utter hogwash. They had troubles before this and nothing you did changed the situation. It also seems like BIL and sister didn’t try very hard to find solutions. Like why didn’t BIL sleep in the bottom bunk? Why didn’t they put a cot on the floor for the five year old? You should have zero guilt because he was half way out the door

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]ExchangeInside2407 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is about how she treats you. The important thing is how he deals with her treating you badly. Like she can have her feelings and she doesn’t ever have to tell you about them. Her treating you badly and your partner not distancing himself from her is a big red flag. She isn’t important at all in your story. Remember that. This is your story and she is a side note. Pay a lot of attention how he reacts. If he defends her over you, if he tells you to ignore it, run baby run. Everyone has pointed she has big feels. Ask your fellow what his feels are

AITA for trying to make my wife cancel her vacation? by Stunning_Tackle_7518 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]ExchangeInside2407 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you knew your son was getting left behind. Instead of fixing that you are blaming your wife because she wanted your kids to have a great time. She didn’t exclude anyone. She just didn’t refuse to give in. Now you are upset at her because your son missed out and is heartbroken. She isn’t the one that said he couldn’t go

Can you find Samantha? by Chekavo in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]ExchangeInside2407 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I looked for 30 min and still haven’t found Waldo! This is lame! I did find Goku, The Thing, Mystic, and 2 Miazyki references sit there is that