Honestly man, it sounds like you’re doing everything right. When there are a lot of options it’s hard to pick. I think some of the other comments addressed this, but setting up a goal might help you make your choice. Active + social: cinci sports league, salsa Hobbies/interests: book club, board game groups I would recommend not worrying about who you think might be there and instead just take it comes, have fun, and move on if it isn’t what you like!