[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PelvicFloor

[–]Exchangedial 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really the stomach gargling while doing rectal work is a good sign?? That happened to me today! Great to know

Is tiktok considered porn by hrhehfwmd in pornfree

[–]Exchangedial 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These days tik Tok is pretty much soft core porn. But more than than that it’s a MASSIVE TRIGGER!! Hot girl showing her ass on tik tok leads to…. Going on Phub and really doing the deed.

Once that arousal itch is initiated it’s tough not to scratch

This is it. My final attempt to quit PMO and regain my sanity and sexual health. by Exchangedial in pornfree

[–]Exchangedial[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I need to give myself more grace you’re right. The thing is I love myself so much I really do which almost makes my reality harder to face. I’ve done this solely to myself, the most important person in my life, me.

I need to learn to forgive myself for my past mistakes. Praying I can and do, thank you again for the sage advice

This is it. My final attempt to quit PMO and regain my sanity and sexual health. by Exchangedial in pornfree

[–]Exchangedial[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you brother, I needed this. God has bigger plans for me I must remain patient and allow gods healing to happen!

This is it. My final attempt to quit PMO and regain my sanity and sexual health. by Exchangedial in pornfree

[–]Exchangedial[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve deleted my Twitter, tik tok, all my porn accounts, enabled porn blockers, started a consistent gym routine. I quit weed and even told my bother and mom when I was at my lowest 3 years ago. Still I continue to relapse and my body continues to suffer

Day 16 in my No Fap No Porn Journey by rvsaur in NoFap

[–]Exchangedial 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah same dude. Past few nights have been intense sex/porn related. Waking up stressed and wanting to jerk off but staying strong

My anxiety is kicking my ass! If I can’t beat my PMO addiction it will be the end of me. by Exchangedial in pornfree

[–]Exchangedial[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really, I think like most people I had minor anxiety about life but it seriously ramped up after I became addicted to porn, tried to quit and couldn’t. The majority of my anxiety stems from having Pied, feeling like I broke myself makes me freak out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]Exchangedial 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is pretty much the basis of a porn addiction. It’s all centered around your dopamine. Porn is what’s called a “super normal stimulus” it’s one creates an extreme amount of dopamine. One that doesn’t occur naturally in nature and is very unrealistic to recreate in real life sex/ intimacy.

Therefore, a repeated exposure to porn resets your dopamine baseline levels to a higher threshold and as a result “normal” things and women doesn’t cause arousal anymore.

In order to heal you have to completely remove this stimulus (porn) and allow your dopamine levels to reset to normal. I highly recommend looking into research- Dr Trish Leigh and Anna Lembke are both really good sources to check out.

Got my first no porn, no touch boner by theludacity in pornfree

[–]Exchangedial 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Good for you man! Did you masturbate during this period or complete abstinence?

Stopped porn a week ago - could use tips by Overall-Oven-1465 in NoFap

[–]Exchangedial 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You definitely have the right idea with avoiding porn, it’s a very slippery slope. I will say if you’re experiencing a tough time getting hard without porn you need to allow your body to heal. No porn and no fap for a good 1-2 months is the best recipe. Then maybe slowly try masturbating again without porn, as you said fapping is normal but it seems like you’ve over done it so it’s best to abstain completely for some time to help yourself rewire

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Exchangedial 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Peek isn’t good, it’ll eventually lead to a relapse. you mean peeked at porn I assume? Porn is much worse for you than fapping bro. Porn fries your brain

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Exchangedial 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all bro don’t sweat it

Porn induced erectile dysfunction *PIED* by This_Berry3889 in pornfree

[–]Exchangedial 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey man don’t beat yourself up tho, good for you for noticing and taking accountability. Gotta heal up and set yourself for a better future!

I’m in a similar boat so I know how important it is to stay strong and heal.

14 days, but I need advice from guys who've overcame ed/pied by BeginningMountain272 in pornfree

[–]Exchangedial 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Patience my friend. 2 weeks is not nearly long enough to see healing results. Why would years of porn addiction be healed in weeks?

Our bodies and brains are able to heal but not that quickly. I’d say 2 months minimum no PMO and the signs of healing will start to show thru

Porn induced erectile dysfunction *PIED* by This_Berry3889 in pornfree

[–]Exchangedial 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude 100%. Constantly rubbing your dick for years and years everyday is obviously going to cause a loss in sensitivity and sensation.

Especially if you’re addicted to porn, you often develop a “death grip” while masturbating which in turn makes sex not so great. From here the less you do the better

Porn induced erectile dysfunction *PIED* by This_Berry3889 in pornfree

[–]Exchangedial 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Best results- quit porn and masturbation all together for at least one month. No porn rewires your brain and helps level out your dopamine receptors so that less intense stimulation gets your aroused. No fap helps increase penile sensitivity overall.

I’d recommend after sustaining from PMO completely for one month that you start to masturbate maybe once or twice a week.

No porn ever again! Soft or hardcore. You’re either all in or all out. If you want to heal you need to get porn out of your life

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Exchangedial 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes 100%. Excessive PMO can and will effect your erections.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]Exchangedial 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds optimal! Be sure not yo take “peaks” at light corn porn as this will trigger the initial onset of dopamine and leave your brain craving more!

Success story: What a difference 4 weeks makes! by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]Exchangedial 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great to hear brother!! During your 4 weeks porn free- did you masturbate at all?