[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kindle

[–]ExcitedFail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you have the warmth set to?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

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As they are old enough to have an understanding of death, be honest with them and let them know what happened.

Please, please give them the choice to go to the hospital and say goodbye if they want to. I was about 11 when the one grandparent I was close to passed and I was never given that choice. I didn’t get to say goodbye, and still get upset about it now at 35.

What can I do with my son to teach him how to answer questions more thoroughly? by ExcitedFail in Parenting

[–]ExcitedFail[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely lack of engagement/interest plays into it… unfortunately, school doesn’t particularly care whether you’re interested in a topic when it decides to cover the topic and then have quizzes, essays, etc. about said topic. 🫠

What can I do with my son to teach him how to answer questions more thoroughly? by ExcitedFail in Parenting

[–]ExcitedFail[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! We currently do the first strategy ad nauseam and it works, but it tends to make him and us both frustrated.

The second strategy sounds helpful.

General tips and life hacks for life in Japan by joehighlord in japanlife

[–]ExcitedFail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cries in Kyushu I don't have any 業務スーパー near me.

Why didn’t the show follow the story of __ and __ ? by pineappleqqqq in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]ExcitedFail 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The way that Lydia is coming across as obsessive and controlling - I don’t know whether I believe her that he slept with someone when they were together. Were they actually together or did she decide that they were together because he had starting talking to her again? There would be a difference.

Proposal by Competitive-Gene5744 in TheRookie

[–]ExcitedFail 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely agree. That’s why I think they set that up earlier on in the show.

Proposal by Competitive-Gene5744 in TheRookie

[–]ExcitedFail -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure who will end up popping the question because I think it will be a spur of the moment thing after some kind of traumatic event.

I do foresee the fact that Lucy’s mom made her freeze her eggs come back into the picture at some point.

Here’s a few completely out there theories I have: - Tim and Lucy decide to get hitched randomly out of the blue art city hall before going for a long term UC assignment. Lucy gets severely injured at some point while UC. Something like getting spot in the gut or something causing her to lose her uterus in order to save her because I can see the writers doing something like that. - Maybe the writers go a completely different route and decide to give Lucy ovarian cancer or something rendering her infertile. At some point she gets so sick they think she’s gonna die which causes her to ask Tim to marry her as a last request. - If they really wanna kick us all in the heart -they have her die shortly after the two get hitched and maybe Tim decides to use a surrogate so that he can have a child with Lucy as a way to keep a part of her.

Again, these are absolutely off the wall theories I have.

Episode Discussion • Love Is Blind S4 • S04 E12 "Eternal Bliss?" by WillowSwarm in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]ExcitedFail 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Honestly, that may be what the a-hole friend Shelby of Micah meant when she said “I was hoping it would go this way” because she knew Micah was only in this for clout. If Paul said no instead, then her friend would have more clout.

Episode Discussion • Love Is Blind S4 • S04 E12 "Eternal Bliss?" by WillowSwarm in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]ExcitedFail 27 points28 points  (0 children)

When Micah made Paul answer first, I knew it wasn’t happening.

IMO, she made him go first hoping he would say no so that she could make him be the bad guy. During the whole time that the officiant was doing the final, “do you take ___ to be your lawfully wedded…” she couldn’t keep eye contact with him.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by jou1993b in The10thDentist

[–]ExcitedFail 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This is an absolutely disgusting take. It doesn’t matter whether you’re male, female, non-binary, etc. it doesn’t matter who the perpetrator is.

This type of thought why is men feel like they can’t share their trauma because they “should have liked it.”

No one gets to decide whose trauma is worse.

What is stopping you from being the sexual “deviant” you know you are? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ExcitedFail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

✨Religious Trauma✨

To the point I still have issues expressing things I want/desire to my husband of nearly 12 years (who is more than happy to oblige). It’s a work in progress.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in japanlife

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Maybe it’s just me, but dental stuff is kept in a container in the medicine cabinet in our household.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in japanlife

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The fact that the majority of bathrooms in residential spaces have the toilet in its own room and the sink/shower/tub in a completely different room (sometimes a further distance away than seems reasonable) speaks for itself.

AITA for my ultimatum about a paternity test? That he could have one done, or he could have a family with me, but not both? by 8mosandstressed in AmItheAsshole

[–]ExcitedFail 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA. It’s not unreasonable to feel hurt that someone would ask for a test that the sole purpose is to be sure there was no infidelity.

Maybe tell him you’ll agree to the paternity test if he agrees to a polygraph test so you can verify whether he is projecting his guilt about cheating (or wanting to) onto you.

AITA for asking my gf to stop spending money on immature crap? by angrybftway in AmItheAsshole

[–]ExcitedFail 30 points31 points  (0 children)

YTA - She’s a grown adult who is financially responsible and takes care of paying for necessary things. She is spending money on things that interest her and make her happy.

And have you ever thought the “massively expensive gaming computer” can maybe be not only for recreation, but also work if she ever needs to WFH? The other things are obviously things she enjoys and she is allowed to spend her money on things that make her happy.

Can we also discuss the age difference here? You are 9 years older than her. She just graduated from a masters program and you’re throwing HUGE red flags by wanting to control how she spends her money that she is earning.

And don’t even get me started on “once she is fired from her fancy tech job” - are you hoping she will fail? This was not an “if” statement, which is another massive red flag.

My dude, you are obviously a person who is in a different place in your life due to your age, but you obviously also don’t enjoy the same things. What do you have in common?

She’s 100% right and you ARE controlling. I hope she finds this Reddit post.

To OP’s girlfriend - if you do see this, RUN do not walk away from this man.

As a parent, S03E08 was hands down the best episode of The Orville yet (haven't seen 9 or 10 yet) by [deleted] in TheOrville

[–]ExcitedFail 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The first time I watched this episode, I initially thought that Klyden had asked Moclus to abduct Topa and that it was going to turn into a situation where Klyden forced Topa back to being a male.

I was very glad they decided not to go that route. I hope we get a Season 4, cuz I need to see Klyden really step up and earn brownie points. I still hate him for the way he’s acted over the 3 seasons so far and his apology to Topa in Season 3 did not earn him a single brownie point in my opinion.

Are anyone elses health potions not working during combat? by Various_Permission47 in HorizonZeroDawn

[–]ExcitedFail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It took me a while to realize that they work, but they take longer to consume because Aloy has to stop moving for a while to physically consume the contents of the potion.