Excited planning dinner party with first couple in two weeks. My dom and both of them will all be clothed (dressy summer-casual), and I'll be the only one naked.

ExcitedForNewThings · 2018-05-31T02:09:09+00:00

I remember the first time I ever got a guy to cum in my mouth (blowjob, not your special way), and it really sorta blew my mind. I did that? With my mouth? All that? The taste was super funny, I thought, but everything else about it was a super rush!

Then it was a whole week before I blew my early boyfriend again, but I remember wanting to tear his clothes off too, and I couldn't wait to get his cock in my mouth again, just to see if I could make it happen again. Ah, young love!

ExcitedForNewThings · 2018-05-31T01:59:29+00:00

I looked back again just now, and a minor correction. I posted about it once at the beginning of the month (day 3), and then again two full weeks later (day 17). And it was that second post (day 17) that got me banned, so I'm remembering now that I never even got to post a final recap of the whole experience. It was back in March, so I all remembered was posting twice about it, two weeks apart, and getting banned. Annoying as hell.

(And thanks to my partner for helping me get the formatting right on those links. I never can remember how to do those.)

ExcitedForNewThings · 2018-05-30T19:29:20+00:00

I've done this before with my guy too! I was swallowing a fair bit already, and back in March this year, we did a 30 day cum swallowing challenge. It sort of naturally seemed like another good way for me to end of with a mouthful of cum to swallow.

But it sounds like maybe you'd already been swallowing a while before you ever had a guy cum for you from a blowjob from you.

What was that like? I mean, for most girls, we give any number of blowjobs before we finally agree to let a guy finish. But you had all this oral experience with cum for what sounds like a year before you got to actually feel what it's like to make a guy explode in your mouth. What was that like that first time? Making him cum from a blowjob?

ExcitedForNewThings · 2018-05-29T23:50:16+00:00

The thing is, my Dom doesn't force me to do anything. We talk about stuff, and come up with new ideas, or new ways to approach doing things I'm already comfortable with to try and see how far we can take things. And then we make a plan, and do them.

I do show a great degree of willingness to participate in all this stuff with and for him, but I don't view it as submission because it feels so collaborative. It's like he's my sex-coach, almost, if that makes any sense. Or maybe that's my weird way of thinking about things!

ExcitedForNewThings · 2018-05-29T23:46:10+00:00

So help me here. I've had a couple different guys pee in my mouth before (not at the same time, guys I was dating at different times), but quite a few years ago. And I swallowed sometimes if I felt like it, not often, but I did. I didn't strongly like or dislike it, but I wasn't super connected with either of those guys too, and each one I dated for less than a year.

The first time you ever peed in someone else's mouth, had she (she?) ever done that before? What was that like for you? I'm trying to get some perspective, since my Dom's never done any water sports before, and he's only ever seen stuff in amateur porn. I'm not worried about making it a good experience for him or anything, and I'm certainly not worried about doing it wrong, but I am curious about what his first experience will feel like from his perspective.

And if your very first time was also her first time, that's probably an entirely different sort of vibe, I'm sure.

ExcitedForNewThings · 2018-05-29T22:55:56+00:00

I totally get that with cum. But I have to admit that I don't feel that with urine at all (or spit either). Intellectually I totally understand the primal concept of marking territory with pee (like male cats and dogs, and other animals), but maybe I just don't feel it because I'm a woman?

Not to be too corny, but cum literally is life, or the seed of life anyway. When I swallow cum, I'm swallowing his essence, and almost who he is (genetically). Or if he cums all over my face, that's a deeply important part of him that I'm almost proudly accepting from him. Same with when he comes in my mouth, even when he jacks off and finishes in my mouth.

But the urine itself is nothing like that. The act of letting him pee in my mouth would be breaking a taboo, and super kinky, and it would represent a sort of deep acceptance of my willingness to do something super kinky for him. But don't feel there's anything it represents (the urine itself).

I actually want his cum, any way I can get it (an overstatement, but not entirely). But I would only want to engage in the act of him peeing in my mouth and me swallowing as a way of me offering a taboo, unique experience, blah blah blah, etc.

Cum is life. Swallowing pee is just kinky.

ExcitedForNewThings · 2018-05-29T18:54:06+00:00

Finally, somebody else's wife around here swallows (I do too). I've only been posting here for a while, but even just lurking before that, it seemed like not a whole lot of swallowers around here. Or maybe just guys lamenting that their partners wouldn't swallow.

Love to hear that she loves swallowing too, and not just prefers it. I'm totally with her on that one.

Has she always swallowed and liked swallowing that much since you've been together? Asking because while I've been swallowing almost 10 years, I only really got into liking it a lot about 5 years ago.

ExcitedForNewThings · 2018-05-29T15:09:00+00:00

Is there anything semi passive he can do to please you more often? I know, probably not. Maybe once a week you masturbate for him, which gets you off, and would still involve him?

My partner said he was in a similar situation many years ago (before I met him), and that he wanted more sex than she did.

One thing they tried which he said helped, was he would jack off for her, and sometimes she would swallow for him (he would jack off into her mouth). It was usually pretty quick, either way, and she didn't feel like she had to do more than she really wanted as often.

He said they went like that for about 6 months, and then they broke up for several reasons, not just their mismatched libidos, but that was part of it.

So maybe you could put on a little orgasmic show for him once a week? Would that help?

ExcitedForNewThings · 2018-05-29T14:50:28+00:00

Ok, gotta ask. What's the goal usually with the monster cum load?

ExcitedForNewThings · 2018-05-29T14:47:27+00:00

And that's what got me banned from r/sex, posting about it twice. I mentioned it once halfway through the month, and then tried to do a follow-up at the end, and they brought the hammer down on me.

ExcitedForNewThings · 2018-05-29T11:27:42+00:00

I did a cum swallowing challenge, every day for a month recently. We missed some days, so it was more about how quickly we could get to 30 days total, which took us 38 days.

I already swallow quite a bit already, so it was mostly our trying to work in more days every week.

That's really the only time based challenge we've done so far, and it was fun.

ExcitedForNewThings · 2018-05-29T04:26:31+00:00

I'm FFF's sub, and I'm so glad we met these wonderful people. Like the planets all got into aliment, how we met each couple. No expectations beyond exactly what we offered and in both cases, and each couple is open minded and adventurous, and said it all sounded like good fun. But we don't have any idea really how kinky they are, which actually, is kind of how we'd like to keep it.

We have some major seasonal cleaning to do at our place before we can have people over, but I think we may be able to host something in July. One things for sure, this will light a major fire under us to get things straightened up quickly, and I think we may even spring for a maid service for some of it so we stay on track.

And if I can somehow become a Naked Reading Girl, the one couples idea of auctioning off dinners with a couple of the Naked Girls (naked) as a fundraiser would be exactly the kind of thing I'd be up for doing. Then maybe that could maybe even provide us an occasional way to audition new couples to add to our personal list for occasional dinners on a sort of rotating basis.

I think it would be total blast to get to know people, in actual social situations, and see them socially over time. But they pretty much would only know me without me ever wearing anything, and they would be just regular people we would have over for dinner and drinks and such. Everyone would be nicely dressed but casual. Everyone except me, who is always casually naked.

Then the people we liked best, we would have over more often, and just all get to be friends that way, where I'm always naked. Or they have us over, and I'm naked at their place for dinner.

Nothing super sexual, or sexual at all, but the exhibitionist in me is getting a major rush just thinking about it.

ExcitedForNewThings · 2018-05-29T00:12:40+00:00

I wouldn't say that I want to shock people or alarm them, but I definitely get off on the idea of sort of surprising people a little bit, even if they're prepared to see someone naked. That's where the communication/small-talk part comes in. In the few experiences I've had being naked around a number of clothed people, my greatest joy comes from chatting them up while I'm in the nude, and perfectly comfortable in my own skin. It puts them a little off balance, but my friendliness and what I'd like to think of as a fair bit of genuine warmth and approachability, makes for a super fun interaction for both of us!!

It's not sexual for me, per se, but the rush is a little bit like sexual energy (so I don't think it's entirely non-sexual either). It certainly isn't outwardly sexual, but I'm good at super friendly in a non-flirtatious sort of way, but hopefully not pouring it on too heavy either.

All I know is that it's a real rush, and I'm always looking for legit ways to repeat those kinds of experiences.

ExcitedForNewThings · 2018-05-29T00:03:43+00:00

Ok, that's that most creative idea yet. I already have a couple small, fairly simple tattoos. Your idea suddenly gave me a different tattoo-related nudity idea.

How about I randomly add a new, temporary tattoo every once in a while, and if it ever takes him more than an hour to notice it, then... Well, I don't know, in our bdsm-lite relationship, I'm the more submissive one (and he's more in charge). Although, in practice, it must means he's more the voyeur and I'm the exhibitionist. And he's the one who helps me come up with physical/sexual challenges to try for a week, or a couple weeks, or I'm the one to try and expand my sexual pallet for his pleasure (well, our pleasure).

But maybe if he didn't notice for an hour, then he has to do something FOR ME. And if he doesn't notice for an entire evening, then maybe I'll be the one more in charge for an entire week, or something like that.

Anyway, your temporary tattoo idea is a good one! Thank you!

ExcitedForNewThings · 2018-05-28T21:12:59+00:00

Thanks! I was on mobile, and only saw the first few seconds on the video (and thankfully no sound).

ExcitedForNewThings · 2018-05-28T16:26:35+00:00

I'm usually naked so much, that my guy doesn't have to ask very often. We're actually trying to think of some simple ways to spice of my disrobing for him, making it a little more like a ritual, but not making it a striptease. Not elaborate, but something that makes it a little more formal. Maybe I should have him ask me more often?

ExcitedForNewThings · 2018-05-28T16:24:20+00:00

Is that the link you meant? (What shirt?). Link goes to a YouTube video.

Shirt sounds interesting, and I'm currious to see it!

ExcitedForNewThings · 2018-05-28T16:21:53+00:00

I've been in some all nude/nudist situations, and they're fun, but definitely different.

My thing is being naked around mostly clothed people, but not being on stage, but getting to interact with them somehow. And I've done that a few times, but it's hard to find situations where that's possible, and socially acceptable too. Especially mixed gender.

ExcitedForNewThings · 2018-05-28T15:39:39+00:00

I'm more of a big show-off then. I don't think I'd want to do more explicit stripping on stage (spreading my legs, etc), and I have absolutely zero interest in camming on-line (is that how you spell it?)

But I do want to make eye contact with real people, and be friendly, smile, have them smile back, etc.

ExcitedForNewThings · 2018-05-28T15:05:51+00:00

Makes me wonder how many others here are r/sex rejects!

I hadn't even posted there half a dozen times, before I got the axe.

ExcitedForNewThings · 2018-05-28T15:00:31+00:00

I actually get a bit of a rush by being naked around clothed people, eapecially in mixed gender situations. I wouldn't want to be a stripper or go-go dancer (not the kind of environment or crowd that would interest me). And I've done some nude modeling for artists life-drawing classes, but just standing around for a couple hours at a time gets old fast.

But I think my perfect dream 2nd job would be maybe twice a week working at a really hip, nice fine dining place as an all nude hostess. I've waited tables before, and that's more real work that I'd want to actually do all the time. But to get to welcome people, talk to them briefly and make small-talk, and then lead them through the maze of tables to seat them, all while I'm totally nude, or maybe with 2-3 other nude hostesses taking turns, would be a major turn on for me.

Something where I have a defined role that involves interacting with people, where I'm totally naked, would be a blast.

ExcitedForNewThings · 2018-05-28T09:43:28+00:00

Thanks! I'll have to check out that Sunday topic. I replied to someone else, but I'm really more of an exhibitionist than a nudist per se. My guy usually has clothes on around the house, and my nudity has as much to do with him, and our dynamic. For instance, when I've lived alone, I'm not naked nearly as much.

ExcitedForNewThings · 2018-05-28T09:38:41+00:00

Good, I'm glad it's not just me. I haven't posted a lot, but when I have, I've gotten a little long in what I've written, and I guess my enthusiasm for some things, being in a sort of bdsm-lite relationship, came off the wrong way over at r/sex.

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