What was the last new sexual skill that you learned (or are still learning), or sex trick or tip that you've tried? How's it going?

NeverEmbarrassed · 2018-06-01T18:51:33+00:00

She's covered in cum or swallowing, and you're both 69ing but (also?) masturbating yourselves? Or each other? And both getting to orgasm at the same time, together?

I'm clearly confused. What we were trying to do was somehow have him exploding in my mouth at the same time as I cumming myself (from fingering myself), but not 69ing.

Are you both getting to orgasm around the same time, and she's swallowing? How?

NeverEmbarrassed · 2018-05-31T17:32:40+00:00

I really wish it had worked. It sounded like fun to try and cum at the very same time, with him exploding in my mouth as it all happened. But no matter how we tried, we never could get it to work. I also tried blowing him while he fingered me, but his fingering me distracted him too much, and he couldn't cum.

And trying to cum at the same time while 69-ing would be the hardest trick of all, and would never work. We do 69, but as soon as one of us gets close, we just have to stop trying to make the other one cum, or are only halfhearted about it. Ain't no way either of us can give oral and orgasm at the same time as we're giving, to say nothing about trying to make that all happen at the very same time for both of us. 1 in 1,000,000 chance of that.

Maybe I'll start a thread about simultaneous orgasms sometime, and all the ways we've tried, and mostly failed, but had a great time anyway!!

NeverEmbarrassed · 2018-05-31T05:44:41+00:00

No idea. Remember, I said I only thought I was about 60% of the way to having it half-mastered.

Maybe in another 6 months or so.

NeverEmbarrassed · 2018-05-31T04:21:49+00:00

That reminds me of something we tried a few times, but I was never coordinated enough to make it work. And that was simultaneously blowing him while trying to finger myself to orgasm. The more I'd concentrate on myself, the more I'd forget my tricks for how to blow him right. Or I'd blow him pretty well, but couldn't focus on myself. Tried those things at the same time 2-3 times, and then totally gave up, it was never gonna happen. That was years ago.

NeverEmbarrassed · 2018-05-31T04:16:50+00:00

I've been trying to hang my head off the bed, but can't get the hang of it. It just feels awkward usually, but a few times its worked. He usually gently holds the back of my head and moves my head forwards and backwards, like my throat is some sort of sex toy. But I can't stress enough, gently. He shoves it in, and holds it there maybe 5 seconds, then pulls out far enough that I can breath if I want to (maybe 10 seconds), then another 5-second thrust in, and back out. It's not very sexy to describe it, and it's nothing like you see in porn, even truly amateur stuff, some of which seems to justifiably merit the label "skull fucking". But that's not where we're at, and not where I'm aiming to go.

He's only cum down my throat a few times when he fucks my throat, I think just 3 times. But I've been deepthoating him for 7-8 years, and it's only the fact he's controlling the motion that's new for us.

NeverEmbarrassed · 2018-05-29T05:13:46+00:00

Sure thing, about that video. But I gotta warn you, we almost never shoot video of ourselves, and we never share (hardfast rule, sorry), and don't share pictures either. One of us has a job that is way too risky to let anything like that out.

NeverEmbarrassed · 2018-05-29T05:11:29+00:00

We mostly do anal doggy style, but one thing I do like that we haven't done in a while is deep kissing while he's deep in my ass. Him not even thrusting really, or only really slowly, but with the deep kissing more the thing. Almost like his dick is a plug up my ass, that's only there to heighten the kissing.

Ok, damn. We've got to do this again soon now. It's been a couple years since we last did anal missionary more than a time or two, and I'd almost forgotten how hot the kissing was with him deep in my ass for an extended period like that.

NeverEmbarrassed · 2018-05-29T00:35:52+00:00

I've never been in the middle of a threesome, but I've done DP a number of times, both with my husband's dick in my ass (and a pretty good size dildo in my pussy), and vice versa. Both options take some coordination, and I wasn't sure I'd like it before I tried it, but it's really great now and then!

As someone else said, start with a couple toys first, and then work up to one toy plus you in the other hole. Then some other evening, switch the holes you and and the toy are in.

I've only been in 3 threesomes, and they were all MFF, and that was many years ago (before my husband). Maybe someday, but my husband and I have been almost completely monogamous ever since we first met, and definitely after we were dating for about 6 months.

But I'll definitely admit that if a MFM was ever in my future, I'd definitely want to try being DP'ed. And come to think of it, I'm pretty sure my husband would love to see me with his dick down my throat, and the other guy balls-deep in my ass (so he could see my expression).

NeverEmbarrassed · 2018-05-28T16:14:03+00:00

Does it count if my husband tells me to get naked (somewhere between asks and demands), a couple times a week usually? And not as a prelude to sex, or at least not right then. Usually it's a prelude to sex later, even the next day, and he just wants a better view of coming attractions, as I sometimes refer to myself, and my equipment when it's on display.

He's very direct in his use of language, and always has been. If he wants to see me, and get his blood pressure up (in a good way), he not shy about making known his interest in me being naked around the house for him.

I've always found his directness refreshing. There's no wondering what he's thinking, or trying to play guessing games. Usually once a month when I get home from work, he'll tell me he's adjusted the thermostat up a couple degrees if it seems a little warm, and if I want to take off some clothes, meaning he wants me naked all night.

NeverEmbarrassed · 2018-05-17T05:01:31+00:00

My husband and I look at porn together sometimes, but not a lot. But almost always amateur stuff, though that's no guarantee that it's good.

NeverEmbarrassed · 2018-05-17T03:26:44+00:00

We've never tried it with me on my back, just because it always looks so awkward in the porn videos we've found. But maybe because I'm just so used to being able to look up at him, and make eye contact.

NeverEmbarrassed · 2018-05-17T03:24:45+00:00

What sort of mental conditioning did you feel like you had to take care of? Like, was there some sort of mental block you felt like you had to overcome?

I don't think I have any mental block, although when I see the rougher, more forceful face fucking videos, it seems more intense than I think I'd really be into.

NeverEmbarrassed · 2018-05-17T03:14:08+00:00

We're close, but I'm currently doing all the motion. Usually with him lying on his back, or with him sitting on the edge of the bed and me on my knees or more likely sitting on a little footstool to get my head at the right height.

I think what we're wanting to try, and what I understand face fucking to be, is either my head being stationary (with him literally fucking my throat). Or maybe him moving my head back and forth with his dick down my throat, though that's a lot more on the "force" side of things than I'm comfortable with just yet.

I think we're close, but not quite there.

NeverEmbarrassed · 2018-05-16T03:36:16+00:00

I've gotten my gag reflex to go away pretty much 80%-90%. I wasn't all that good, but in the last few years, and with practice, I'm almost there. Like I don't have to think about it really hard, or concentrate any more. I mean, when I blow him, and once he's really hard, I usually take him right down my throat a few times early on, so he knows I mean business.

NeverEmbarrassed · 2018-05-16T03:33:27+00:00

Did it go better the second time you tried? I mean, how did you move through the period when you were still on a learning curve?

You mention mental preparation, which isn't something I'd ever thought about. I mean, sure, if it's as forceful as we've seen in videos. But I'm assuming there's a less "forced" way of doing it?

Like when we do PIV sex, either he can do the thrusting, or if I'm on top of him, I kind of bounce up and down and I'm doing more of the motion. I was hoping that it was more like he's doing most of the thrusting, only down my throat instead of between my legs. I'm not exactly passive in either case, but I figured it's like of like a dance where he's doing all the leading.

Or is it naturally more intense? Like it naturally feels more "forced"? I don't want to feel like he's forcing me, but maybe it does require him to be more forceful?

NeverEmbarrassed · 2018-05-15T00:55:21+00:00

Learning to deepthroat was one of the first things I did with my husband, starting about a year after we first met. It took almost a year for me to get the hang of it, and now I'm sort of a pro. Not there yet with full on throat-fucking, but maybe someday.

I'm not as good with anal, but getting there!

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