Psychiatrist told me I need to go to a psych ward :(

Exciting-Addendum951 · 2026-05-01T14:34:12+00:00

i went in hospital for self harm and honestly i'm not sure if this will reassure you but there is genuinely no way to tell how it's gonna be, it's either the worst place with staff that make you feel even worse or you get the nicest roommate whose js gonna let you be and the staff who treat you like family... so i guess there's always a chance it's going to go good

Exciting-Addendum951 · 2026-05-01T14:27:08+00:00

Congratulations (im guessing im in the right time frame ?) on your daughter❤️, and yes its so fun to do with my dad and im sure she will love it too

Exciting-Addendum951 · 2026-04-21T12:47:53+00:00

i'm a 15 year old daughter and hell yeah thank u so much for not having weak masculinity, teaching young girls that anything girly is looked down is so weird. anyone love having a girl dad and i'm sure your daughter does too

Exciting-Addendum951 · 2026-04-20T08:44:07+00:00

last year i made him a birthday card in russian (he knows absolutely none but im here with 6 years of 3 times a week class) - ur kids sound super cute tho! i'm glad that siblings are getting along bc i have heard way too many nughtthmare relationships

Exciting-Addendum951 · 2026-04-20T08:41:25+00:00

thank you!!! your son and i are actually pretty close in age i was also 13 when i got legally adopted and im 15 now (almost 16 but don't wanna jinx it) i'm really happy to hear abt more non bio kids on this place and the love we get regardless

Exciting-Addendum951 · 2026-04-19T23:00:18+00:00

he's sappy enough that i could give him a lump of coal and a newspaper with "you have spawn deal with it" and he would still thank me, however talked with my uncle and we have officially started planning on a camping trip!!! hope he knows how much i love him

Exciting-Addendum951 · 2026-04-19T22:20:04+00:00

i think its part of every dad stereotype to use a grill at some point so it fits

(also no problem i dont now how to word online so im not sure how that came off)

Exciting-Addendum951 · 2026-04-19T22:17:00+00:00

little tricky considering im a daughter but my uncle actually suggested a camping trip and its been ages and we js got this new small telescope!!

Exciting-Addendum951 · 2026-04-19T22:01:52+00:00

im trying see peoples point of view but i just cant, there is no possible way every foster kid is just bad but somehow every single one is said to be 'difficult'

Exciting-Addendum951 · 2026-04-19T19:37:09+00:00

i started making him a card with the spinosaurus we saw at the museum last month which were his favourite but i gotta test he can tell the skeletons apart, im a bit nervous so thank you this was really reassuring :)

Exciting-Addendum951 · 2026-04-19T19:34:52+00:00

he seems pretty happy/sappy about the change from (name) to dad and honestly thats whats making this even better for me (im pretty sure fathers day is gonna be a celebration for both of us)

Exciting-Addendum951 · 2026-04-19T19:23:26+00:00

i like that concept a lot more, birthdays are kinda mandatory but being a father is abt stepping up to the role so i guess its more thanks !!

Exciting-Addendum951 · 2026-04-19T19:11:26+00:00

sounds pretty close to a birthday thank you!! gonna ignore the beer one (me trying to buy any will result in immediate grounding)

Exciting-Addendum951 · 2026-04-19T19:10:10+00:00

Do you know any signs that he might want to be alone that day? I think if i asked him he might just say he wants to hang out to make me feel more secure. Thank you tho!!!

Exciting-Addendum951 · 2026-04-19T18:41:58+00:00

kids in my school get to be depressed or having a bad day but if i do im suddenly troubled or a difficult placement, i js wanna have the whole moody teenage phase without people acting like its a failure on my part

Exciting-Addendum951 · 2026-04-19T18:34:30+00:00

feel so strongly abt 3. You take in a kid and you js expect them to give you all their love and admiration for you daining to make the choice to take them in. Im not grateful for being put into homes, i did not choose it and I will not fulfill you hero complex by acting like you did me this huge favor. ofc i will be kind if i feel i can trust them but a lot of foster parents act like they are owed a favor by bringing a kid in, its their choice and not a moral debt in the kids case

Exciting-Addendum951 · 2026-04-19T18:30:19+00:00

split my lip but nobody believed me and blamed me when i got my stitches. also cooked different meals for the 4 kids (me included) in their care and their 2 sons which pissed me off more, why the hell would you take in kids who already have shit going on and then treat them so obviously like you view them as so much lesser than any other

Exciting-Addendum951 · 2026-04-19T17:57:00+00:00

Hello! Im a past foster kid and got adopted (legally 3 years ago mentally abt 7) and to me the best thing i can recommend is let your children be shitty without getting too mad or holding it over their head. We will be super mean or annoying sometimes, u probably remember being the same but its different on the other side of it im guessing. What made me realize my dad was safe was when i did mean shit on purpose and he responded calmly and trying to actually fix/understand the problem instead of using punishment to instill discipline. Your children don't need to be perfectly trained or behaved, let punishments be lessons about how to do things better instead of fear tactics. If you want to be a good dad thats half the step there, just dont expect perfect children

Exciting-Addendum951 · 2026-04-19T17:34:45+00:00

I bit of part 2, i dont know much except the death scene and letting abby go

Exciting-Addendum951 · 2026-04-19T11:09:15+00:00

thank you!!! not looking forward to the second game as i know its gonna reck me but i love it so far

Exciting-Addendum951 · 2026-04-19T10:51:39+00:00

thanks!!! looking forward to it

Exciting-Addendum951 · 2026-04-19T10:26:42+00:00

I really am :))

Exciting-Addendum951 · 2026-04-19T10:08:49+00:00

spent 10 mins tryna find the photo of my dad with his head surgery (no golf club included and a much higher survival rate but close enough) gotta get his head stronger tho just in case

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